I told her about my feelings. She admits she likes being with me and that she always enjoy my company but she could not cope with a relationship with me since I am married. But I want her. What do I do?
2007-08-01 13:35:38 · 16 answers · asked by boyobanton 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sinner.
2007-08-01 13:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Teresa 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
there will be many temptations in your life...doesn't mean you have to act on them. thats whats wrong with society and marriage as a whole today. thats why there are so many divorces. for some reason people just don't have any morals or values when it comes to being in a monogomous relationship. people just go with how they feel at that moment and throw everything away for something they think will be better. it usually turns out the opposite of what you think. sure it might be fun for a while, but you'll be left wondering what you did and missing your partner and things about them and what you had together. try to think about the day you got married and how much in love you were and how they made you feel. if the romance and fire has died...try to work to get it back. thats the key to a lasting relationship....it's hard work and dedication.
life is not all fun and games. and the grass is never really greener on the other side of the fence.
2007-08-01 20:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by gymclasshero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope your wife doesn't know about this question- When you took your vows for better or for worse... that includes crushes. Not to be blunt but you're married end of story get over it. Personally I give your friend major respect for telling you no and being the bigger man. At least she knows your married. I think you might have forgotten that.... Being married comes with a whole lot more respect than being divorced. It means you came across the bad **** and still kept your vows. It's normal to look at other people but at the end of the day after you cheated lost your wife and you friend leaves you for someone else... where does that leave you?
2007-08-01 20:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it boils down to a choice between your spouse and your friend.... if you want her bad enough then divorce is always an option.... however when i left my husband for a girl i thought i loved it turned out so TRADGIC.....think about what you want and if it is really worth it... if you are happy with your spouse and he is good to you then just keep the friend as a thought or fantasy that you never act on....my advice is do not mess up a marriage over something that is probably gonna be a fling....i wish i could tell u more....
2007-08-01 20:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does your Wife treat you? Do you still love her? Do you have children? It all depends. I left my ex-husband for another man and he gave me hell. My ex made the divorce really hard , he lied in court, he fought with me and my now husband. We have children and he tried to use the kids to get me back. If you and your Wife have a pretty good relationship i think you should stay with her. I left because my ex didn't treat me right.
2007-08-01 20:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit adultery!!! It's not just wrong in God's eyes, but it is a sensible principle anyway. And if she's bi-sexual, you really are testing the limits. If you can keep strictly friends, fine. But if you start to have any forbidden feelings, leave everything alone.
2007-08-01 20:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by james_j_j_0 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That sounds self-destructing! You need to re-think these feelings and figure out what the deeper reasons could be.
2007-08-01 20:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is put yourself in your wife's position & see how YOU'D feel if the tables were turned! How would you feel if it was your wife asking this question, how would you answer it?! What ashame, now you can't cheat on your wife!!!
2007-08-01 20:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) THE ANSWER IS IN THE QUESTION....
2) you need to rechannel all of that energy and relearn to WANT your wife with the same passion and energy that you have for this woman...
http://www.strengtheningmarriage.com
2007-08-01 20:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you bi? I guess get a divorce and hookup with your friend... Most likely things will not work out though..... Good luck whatever you do
2007-08-01 20:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u must be biosexuall 2 babe u r a big sinner
2007-08-01 20:41:08 · answer #11 · answered by fdgsr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋