It looks inacceptable in your answers if a married man have women friends when they are real friends;always the ghost of distrust ,jealousy and insecurity are present;it's incredible.
Both,men and women distrust theirs partners all the time;the sense of friendship has been destroyed in US society.It's very sad and disappointing,believe me.
Neither men nor women cna have sincere friends of the opposite gender.Society is dead.
Really,i"m very sad to read those answers.
2007-08-01 09:17:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. Not true.My husband had female friends.He went to high school with.I had male friends.As long as you communicate with your partner and do not keep female friendships a secret you should be fine
2007-08-01 09:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by enlightened 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, stop the tears.
Sorry if you don't like it - tough up!
The world today is a very different place than when we were growing up. Infidelity, cheating, messing around is almost considered "OK, normal, or an eventual part of life".
So why make it harder on your marriage and put yourself in a position that could easily turn into something more serious?
And why such a need for "friends" of the opposite sex? I think you need to look at yourself before you tell the rest of the US that we are sad and disappointing.
Get some medication.
2007-08-01 16:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that men & women can be friends and still be in a healthy relationship. If there isnt trust there or if something feels "not so right" to your partner & you should respect that.
My boyfriend has many friends that are girls, but he encourages me to get to know them. And I grew up a tomboy so I have many friends that are guys.
Here is my question:
Why cant all of you be friends? There should be no secrets between the two of you, and no reason not to share your good times with friends with your partner.
2007-08-01 16:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by ~♥Amanda Dawn♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i haven't a clue what question you are talking about but i can tell you that i am not jealous or insecure about myself or my relationship.
if my boyfriend wants to talk to a woman, he can have at it! if he leaves me for another woman, well, it's our loss, i will survive.
i don't spend my life or waste my time feeling insecure and jealous. i have better things to do with my time.
think what YOU want... if YOU are having jealousy and mistrust issues in YOUR marriage, perhaps consider your self-esteem and/or the reasons for your jealousy and mistrust?
there is a reason for everything!
2007-08-01 16:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your married you owe it to your partner to only have same sex friends. It's called putting your spouse first.
P.S. America, if you don't like it....make like a tree, and get out of here
2007-08-01 16:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Buffet4life 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok. Take a prozac and you may feel better. Or go to your home country if US society doesn't live up to your expectations.
2007-08-01 16:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well, usually that whole "were just friends" thing is how $hit starts........
2007-08-01 16:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just you who has the problems. I don't have the problems. You can't handle the truth.......
2007-08-01 16:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you may enjoy going back to your OWN COUNTRY and leave us AMERICAN'S alone.
Why are you in OUR COUNTRY ANYWAY??
If you don't like it here----LEAVE....
THIS IS A FREE COUNTRY AND YOU CAN CHOOSE TO GO BACK TO YOUR OWN COUNTRY ALL BY YOURSELF
2007-08-01 16:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋