Marriage & Divorce - 18 June 2007

I am in the process of starting a business. My partner and I have not taken a paycheck in three months, but we are staring to see a return on our investment. To keep tension to a minimum, I told her we had the money, when there really wasn't any. She has compared this to having an affair. Blah, I'm empty
Any thoughts?

2007-06-18 15:32:00 · 45 answers · asked by herkyhealer 1

I live with 2 men one is my husband of 20 years the other man I live with (my boyfriend) of 10 years I always hear about one man and 2 women living as man and wife but I have never heard of 2men and 1 women

2007-06-18 15:20:00 · 18 answers · asked by BOOTYBISH 1

my ex-wife wants me back. She says it was the biggest mistake she ever made. We are Catholic and never Divorced.
I am vacillating. The biggest road block to getting back together is.....she annoys the H*** out of me. Any ideas?

2007-06-18 15:12:45 · 15 answers · asked by Big Red 6

2007-06-18 15:12:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I kicked him out of house a yr ago because I found him talking to his girlfriend on a cell phone that she bought him. They both made a fool out of me (she used to be my friend). After 23 yrs how do you just quit loving your spouse and move on. People have told me if I had had someone on the side like he did none of this hurt would have happened. But I was devoted to him and kept our vows now he is never alone and seems happy even though he did not keep our vows and I am alone and miserable. How can I get over the hurt they have caused my family .

2007-06-18 14:59:39 · 15 answers · asked by jusayg 2

This can't possibly be fulfilling.

2007-06-18 14:54:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did it work? What did you talk about?
Tomorrow at 6pm my husband and I are attending our first session. I'm not really sure how to proceed......
How often should we go? What would you reccomend?
Thanks!

2007-06-18 14:45:39 · 13 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3

I have been working hard at getting back together with my husband (we've been separated for almost 3 yrs). I made a date with him for Thursday to go out as a family and celebrate my son's graduation. Throughout our separation he has felt the loss of losing my family and truly misses everyone. So we set the date to go out and now i just got a call from my family saying "we made dinner reservations" because my 1 sister is in town visiting and it is on that same day as my family dinner. My family is pressuring me to change my plans, but i feel like i will be setting myself up for a big fight w/my husband because he will take it that i'm blowing him off to go out w/my family. In a perfect world he would say, go, have fun and we'll reschedule... but it's not that way and i feel he will feel very hurt over this.... actually I KNOW he we feel hurt and will react in not the best way... sooooo what would you do?

2007-06-18 14:41:57 · 17 answers · asked by pinebarrons1 2

I really need some good, well, a really good hot night. Should I go for it with my neighbors, or would the guilt be to great??

2007-06-18 14:40:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son told me that midgets scare him. The guy is nice enough, but concerned for my son.

2007-06-18 14:01:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been having problems. He met a woman online and says there "just friends". He has gone out several nights in a row to meet her going to the bar etc. He comes home at like 3am when he has to be up for work at 5am. He won't talk to me and will talk to her. He gets really defensive and has been acusing me of cheating on him when I confronted him about it. He will only admit to kissing her on the cheek. I don't know whta to think? He doesn't spend anytime with his daughter and I and complains that he doesn't get to spend time with her. Am I over reacting or did her cheat?

2007-06-18 13:55:40 · 21 answers · asked by M. S. 1

Would you let your signifigant other flirt online? How far would you let it go?

2007-06-18 13:46:07 · 14 answers · asked by rew78980 1

My son is 2 years old, can I enroll him in school when he is of kindergarten age?

2007-06-18 13:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by oythebumbler 1

I got married in 2003 to a woman I thought loved me and treated me well, I even adopted her children from a previous marriage. Soon after I signed adoption papers, the marriage began to unravel, I was more and more having to do everything from making what money I could to tending the children and doing nearly all of the housework when I had the energy left, while she began having affairs while I was at work, played video games, shopped or talked on the phone all day. Now that we are divorced, and she swears that she wanted a clean break as I do, she wants me to keep so-called parental rights to the children even after she's convinced them that I'm a bad person so she can collect almost $900 a month in child support in exchange for 'reasonable visitation'. btw, she's never held a steady job and always lived with 'financial' assistance from her family and 'friends'

2007-06-18 13:41:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is extremely lazy. Won't cook, unless she feels like it. I have to constantly tell her to do things or remind her that she needs to do this and that. She can never do things automatically. She does not know how to take care of a hardworking man. I work very hard, to pay all the bills, which is okay with me. But when a woman cannot pack U lunch for work or get her lazy *** up to make breakfast, that makes me want to work even more. She always, hangs out with her family [brothers, sisters and mom] and always puts them first, even before her own husband. I am so miserable with her performance as a wife in general. Finally, last but not least. She hates all the things, that I really enjoy out of life in general with my heart. I cannot even enjoy drinking a beer or two, I cannot go dancing, when I love to dance out once in a while. I always go [alone] to the movies, shopping, play pool, cookouts, etc. I can never enjoy my life in total happiness with this kind of woman.

2007-06-18 13:36:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left on an errand, returned early, found my husband looking at nudies on the net, tried to hide it, hasn't said sorry, it's been 7 months since we've had sex, I feel he has to"look" to be interested in me and I don't want him thinking about one of the woman he must have spent hours with on the net, while we make love (that hasn't happened in a VERY long time.) I refuse to have sex. I feel betrayed. I'm 200 lbs. 5'2"(always have been). Very low esteem about my appearance, kids are grown & gone. My 1st marriage, his 3rd. How do we fix our marriage been married for 10 years. I don't know how to let this go, can anyone help me? His 1st wife commited adultery, so he understands how feelings of love die, I do not hate him, but I don't love him anymore I don't think. I care deeply, but we don't even talk, it's like we are only roommates, and sometimes I get so angry,I get feelings of hatred for toward him for making me feel so ugly, worthless, undesireable, not loved. what do I do now?

2007-06-18 13:26:09 · 24 answers · asked by newbie 1

2007-06-18 13:15:33 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for about a year now, but me and my husband have been together for 5 years. I love him, but I feel like I am very dependant in this relationship. I get upset when he is in a bad mood and I let it affect my mood when he is irritated. I always feel like its my fault when he is unhappy, although I know that I am a wonderful wife and mother to our 2 children.
He is often short with me when we are talking and some days I try so hard to strike up a conversation with him but its like talking to a brick wall.....However, some days are absolutely wonderful and I can see a glimse of the man that I fell in love with and I am filled with joy...We have dicussed his frequent mood changes and he says that he is happy, but some days he just doesn't feel like talking because he works hard all day....Another problem is that I started going to college 2 years ago and I am doing really well, he has NEVER told me he is proud of me and this upsets me. I want him to be happy for me....

2007-06-18 13:10:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I own and manage six rentals, my girl thinks I'm joking about when we get married that I want a prenuptial. But how do I convince her that it's okay to ask for one. I mean I've poured blood sweat and tears (and a lot of money) into these places. And I want to protect my assets. And if the rolls we reversed I would have no problems signing and if we were to buy a house together I would think it's fair to split all assets.

2007-06-18 12:58:36 · 7 answers · asked by lance v 1

I've read another question & answer about how some women stop wearing their engagement ring after they have tided the knot. Their husband has shelled out a lot of money for that ring. What does she do with it? It seems like a waste to keep it stored away in a box.

2007-06-18 12:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by The Red Inkstone 2

My husband teases and scares our 5 yr old son...not sure why, maybe he was treated that way when he was young, who knows, but he gets mad at me for intervening on my son's behalf, saying i shouldn't make a "big deal" out of any of it, meanwhile, my son is experiencing irrational fears...he refuses to go alone into another room in the house to get a toy or to go potty...my husband calls him a sissy when he cries about the things he scares him with...I have considered leaving, but then he will have visitation alone, which will make the situation worse for our son, not better...I have also raised 2 girls from age 5 and 3 on my own, as a divorced mom for 15 yrs, it was pure hell sometimes, financially, emotionally, etc...they often told me they felt abandoned by their father, not having a chance to hate/love him...he was just not there at all...catch 22?

2007-06-18 12:44:01 · 23 answers · asked by EM 2

2007-06-18 12:40:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 25 year old mommy that lives in california, i found out that my spouse was cheating on me but i dont want to brack up my family because my children love there dad. please help me what should I do ????

2007-06-18 12:30:43 · 16 answers · asked by Cali~Girl 2

My husband and I have never had good communication. He does not talk to me or even listen to me. I can tell him something important and the next day he says that I didn't tell him. He shows no feeling toward me except anger and is always finding everything wrong with everything I do. He is very anger about everything! When I try to talk to him about our marriage, he just tells me to shut up and he doesn't listen to anything I have to say. I can honestly say that I believe he doesn't love me. Why else would you treat someone the way he treats me. I am a hard working mother; I hold a full time job with 3 part time jobs on the side and I make sure that the inside of the house is kept up, as well as the outside and I make sure he has a good meal. Even that, he's still always complaining about everything and nothing is good enough.
I'm lonely, I just want a normal marriage with communication. He works long hours but has the weekend off and still won't communicate with me. Please help.

2007-06-18 12:26:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought I had found the woman I had waited on all my life, and come to find out.....so did several other guys. I admit she was good at her "craft", but she made the mistake of telling me about a couple of other guys she had been flirting with. As soon as I found out, I broke it off with her, but I'm still struggling with it. Any words of wisdom, or encouragement?

2007-06-18 12:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-18 12:12:51 · 17 answers · asked by Sage E 1

2007-06-18 12:10:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been separated from my wife for 2 months. just found out my girlfriend is pregnant. i swear it's mine but people keep saying "she was WITH her ex-husband up until 3 weeks ago" she say's she wasn't and that he's lying to everyone ... and she took a pregnancy test 3 weeks ago that was negative (said it would have been her ex-husbands if it had been positive), then told me the next day not too worry b/c she "started" .. then last week she took another and it was positive. how can i convince people that this baby is mine?!?!

2007-06-18 12:04:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live with my girlfriend we have lived together for about 2 years the first year was wonderful due to she had some problems while we were dating because she was under age in we had problems with her parents causing her to leave as soon as she was 18 now that she has started to talk to them she wants to help em out in everyway possible there causing us some financial problems then i end up asking my mother for favors but when my mother asks me for favors in her parents can help she throws a fit in talks about when i was unemployed for 4 months in who she payed the bills but even before she moved in with me i already gave her money in during those 4 months i was unemployed my mother help us out in when this arguments start she always kicks me out of the house which i dont listen to due to im paying allt he bills i have decided that next time she says something im taking action who should leave? and em i doing the right thing?

2007-06-18 12:03:18 · 5 answers · asked by mrchevyclassic 1

We all had a "favorite part" of being married, or if you're NOW married, what is it? Some enjoy always having somebody to do things with, some like the intimacy, some like the "help" your partner gives.....what is your favorite part?

2007-06-18 11:59:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous