Marriage & Divorce - 18 June 2007

Should you be happy for them? The marriage ended on good terms, and your bestfriend is like your sister. Is this against "friend code", or should you be ok with it? Help!!

2007-06-18 10:35:59 · 23 answers · asked by wicked 1

Hey everyone!!!

I am 4 months 4 days pregnant with my first baby, by an amazing man, we have been together for a year and half and love each other dearly. The pregnancy slipped up on us but i couldnt be more happier.

The thing is I am 18 and he is 19, He has a great career and very succesful and established already because he is form jamaica and in jamaica u graduate from high school at 16.

He has been hinting marriage, His mom has even been asking me how i felt about it, And i am excited, my family likes him, his moter LOVES me, and things are good, we have are little arguments but thats with any relationship.

Are we to young to consider marriage??

Would it be weird to get married when im like 20?

I love him and this is something we are really considering.

I have a feeling he is goin to propose SOON.

Im excited!

Thanks people

2007-06-18 10:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by babiilove101 2

He thinks I do not know about it, but because he is computer illiterate, he does not know that I can look up what sites have been visited.

2007-06-18 10:30:20 · 20 answers · asked by snowflake 2

I choose the single for life thing in my 20s. I might as well just end it.

2007-06-18 10:24:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad divorced her and did just leave her hanging with bills that he normally takes care of among other things and she expects me to hate him and only talk to him when she wants me to convince him to help her more. I don't want to be involved at all. She is playing the role of the victim and maybe my dad should help her more during this time, but she is always getting me to ask him to help more bc she thinks he will listen to me. I don't want to be involved at all. I love both of my parents regardless of anything and she can't seem to understand how I can even talk to him after he did this unless its to convince him to help her more. I can't get through to her and all she does is cry about how I he f***ed her over and how it hurts her that I stay in contact with him. I don't know what to do, I can't get through to her. I want my dad to help her more, but I don't want to be the middleman either.

2007-06-18 10:24:19 · 23 answers · asked by kristajade 1

2007-06-18 10:23:23 · 2 answers · asked by Linda W 2

I had been spending the night watching basketball on tv and getting drunk,when i got thirsty for another beer and I went to the garage (freezer in the garage) catching my wife making out with the next door neighbor who is married himself,should I be jealous or keep drinking my beer.

2007-06-18 10:22:10 · 26 answers · asked by Thomas W 2

We just bought a new house together, we are not married yet and dont really have anything for the house. Do you think it is ok or just wrong to do a gift registry for our party? I need some feed back I Say No! But he says Yes! What do yall think?

2007-06-18 10:21:53 · 3 answers · asked by Tinker1705 2

i have organised a smaller payment plan with the mortgage company but she has sabotaged this and wants the full payment "so we can have a mortgage holiday in 9 months" !
mmmm...interesting,
she wont even discuss reducing the price of the house.
she works the same hours as me and earns the same,

what the hell can i do to get the house sold?

already sent a solicitors letter, uk question

2007-06-18 10:21:49 · 1 answers · asked by SIMON T 2

I met my wife when she was 17 and I 24. I was married at the time but not happy at all. I left my then wife and we started dating. We had a child and eventually got married.This is what I thought we both wanted.Not just because we had a child but,because we loved each other very much as well. She was a good wife. I loved her very much but must admit that I didn't put an equal amount of effort as she did. I just never knew how this affected her cuz, she did not communicate with me. So instead of talking to me she started talking to another man behind my back. She says he shows her attention. They haven't done anything sexually, just talked.Please know that I would of done anything to save our marriage. But she never told me how serious it was.Some say she could just be putting all the blame on me so she doesn't feel guilty. I can still tell she cares but she seems to be done with us.I know I have rights as a father but have no money to get legal help at this time. What should I do?

2007-06-18 10:17:51 · 8 answers · asked by George J 1

Sorry I asked twice I just need to reword this;

He goes out every other weekend with his buddies, doesn't come home till dawn. I never ask him what he does. I'm telling him everything up front. Its a girls weekend out no men are coming with us.(he knows some of my friends husbands)..he is free to go out whenever he wants. I plan to leave Friday night and come back Sunday morning. So its a quick trip. Could it be his own consience? I don't know .... What should I do..Why are men so insecure?

2007-06-18 10:15:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married in 1978 in Virgina by a Justice of the Peace. The marriage was a secret. A year later I married the same man by a minister in Maryland (just as if we had never been married). In 1992 we got divorced by the Virginia court, although I was living in Maryland. The divorce papers show the marriage date as being the 1978 date. Now I am getting married again in Maryland. Will Maryland still consider me married? Will they do a record search if I don't say anything or will they take the divorce decree as good enough?

2007-06-18 10:11:34 · 2 answers · asked by JaguarWoman 3

OK....If you (MEN) cheated on your spouse, how would you try to convince your spouse she is the one you want to be with....Also, do you think you would ever cheat again....

2007-06-18 10:10:26 · 7 answers · asked by divaliscous 2

2007-06-18 10:10:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-18 10:04:04 · 27 answers · asked by Marcus 1

We never had a wedding, we just went to the justic of peace, and now I want to have a wedding to renew our vows, but my husband thinks it is dumb, and it is to soon to be renewing our vows.

2007-06-18 09:54:10 · 12 answers · asked by RJ 1

2007-06-18 09:52:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have not had sex for 6 weeks! He masturbates and everything but he does not seem to want sex! He always says that he is to tired. I was out of town all last week and he asked me to send him naked pictures of myself so I know that he still finds me attractive but why would he not want to have sex? Its usually not the woman wanting sex more than the man!!!
He is 33 and Im only 23!! I NEED SEX

2007-06-18 09:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffany C 1

People just DONT GET IT that I am perfectly content with my single life living alone in my new home with nobody to answer to except myself. These same people are usually the ones who are miserable STUCK inside a married with kids/ home/ cars they cant afford with no life savings to speak of with huge debt...... NO THANKS, I will stay single !

2007-06-18 09:51:32 · 17 answers · asked by NAMELESS ID 1

My Husband is having an affair with another married woman. I have been in a living hell. I want so much for him to be with me. He says he is confused. The other woman wants to leave her husband, to be with mine! She is waiting for him to leave me. We have 2 very small children, they love their father so much, I work nights, so he is there every night giving them dinner, bathing them, playing with them. They will be crushed if he is not home. I will be crushed, I love him and want this to work out, Is it possible for him to return his love to me, if he thinks he is in love with this other woman, will he realize the effects it will have on his children. He is still home with me, if he doesn't love me, why is he still here? is there any hope?

2007-06-18 09:48:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've separated from my husband ,and wee have 3 kids.He is 20 years older than me and I've decided to leave him due to the fact that I never was In love with him....( and also some issues that wee had )..
I've been trying my luck ...but all the guy's that I've dated turned out to only want one thing ( s*x)
My Ex it's been asking me to go back ...but I still don't love him ...I just feel sorry for him....What should I do in this situation ?

2007-06-18 09:44:31 · 27 answers · asked by Juliet 5

I never understood the sneaking around thing. And WOMEN, you do it just as much as men. Makes me sick...NO MORALS whatsoever!

2007-06-18 09:38:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think that people that never get married and have children never truly mature? All the time I hear people saying that this is true, but I disagree as I am mature and do not have children and I am not married, nor do I ever plan to be.

2007-06-18 09:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Comparing it to living together under the same conditions.

2007-06-18 09:37:25 · 22 answers · asked by KAZONE 4

My girlfriend and I are on the verge of losing each other. We love each other dearly but, her family does not approve of me. We are both financially stable and ready for a child. We both feel trap but, she must(cultural differences) think of her family (WANTS AND NEEDS)first before herself. She's Chinese form Hong Kong and I am mixed asian and caucasian. But, not traditional as you can tell.

Will having a baby save our relationship? Will it help us get out of this cultural rut that we are in? We are both stuck between a rock and a hard place right now.

I know she doesn't mind having a baby with me, even if it's accidental. The reason why I'm asking is would it give us a good enough reason or excuse so her family would just give up.

They want her to marry this guy that's full blooded chinese and boring. It should say that its almost an arrange marriage and I am getting desperate here of losing her.

What should I do? have a baby with her or not?

How far shouldI go?

2007-06-18 09:34:32 · 28 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2

Supposedly he's asked people at work if they've seen it but he hasn't looked hard enough for it. It's already been 3 weeks and no ring. I am very upset that he was careless about it and didn't even realize he didn't have his ring. I would totally frake out if I would loose mine. Do you think I've over reacting? He wouldn't like it if I were roaming the streets or at work with out my rings.

2007-06-18 09:24:44 · 35 answers · asked by Hot Mom 2

Im 19 but it's scary how i keep reading people that are married and having kids in their early 20s!! I just think thats when my party time is gonna begin!! Hope my friends wont do that!

2007-06-18 09:20:37 · 13 answers · asked by Mellissa 4

Where is a good place to hide our home made movies?? Kids are getting older we have them locked up but we are worried.

2007-06-18 09:16:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

important day of my life, my wedding. Our relationship is strictly platonic. Now he wants to take me out and pay for it. He brought his daughter to my house recently and had dinner whereas he and his mother acted like they were keeping us apart. He has never broguht his daughter to my house in the whole two years I known him. He tries to hug, kiss, and caress me. He even went as far to demonstrate he wanted to have sex. I had to shut him down.

I broke up with him once before and he begged, cried, and talked his way back into my life. He promised me he would make me a bride and broke it.

I am trying to move on, I am still looking for a husband but the husband I am looking for will never be in him.

My question, is he trying to make a come back and should I keep our relationship strictly platonic which is working for me?

2007-06-18 09:14:05 · 13 answers · asked by Moe 2

2007-06-18 09:13:53 · 9 answers · asked by Buddy's Girl 4