important day of my life, my wedding. Our relationship is strictly platonic. Now he wants to take me out and pay for it. He brought his daughter to my house recently and had dinner whereas he and his mother acted like they were keeping us apart. He has never broguht his daughter to my house in the whole two years I known him. He tries to hug, kiss, and caress me. He even went as far to demonstrate he wanted to have sex. I had to shut him down.
I broke up with him once before and he begged, cried, and talked his way back into my life. He promised me he would make me a bride and broke it.
I am trying to move on, I am still looking for a husband but the husband I am looking for will never be in him.
My question, is he trying to make a come back and should I keep our relationship strictly platonic which is working for me?
2007-06-18 09:14:05 · 13 answers · asked by Moe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes---run as far as you can...you'll never be happy witth him.===*don't settle for less than you deserve in life*
2007-06-18 09:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have a plutonic relationship with him but let him know that once you find a husband, you will have to break the relationship. Also let him know that he can never be your husband. That should end any hope for him.
If he wants to go out with you, fine. Take a bunch of your friends with you so he cannot make any moves.
Good luck :)
2007-06-18 16:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Tourang B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are saying and in your words "I am trying to move on, I am still looking for a husband but the husband I am looking for will never be in him." then you already know the answer to that the question you just answered. don't let him sweet talk his way back in your life.you dissever better than that look for the one that you think will be a good husband not him try to get rid of him quickly good luck ;)
2007-06-18 16:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really too confused to know what to say. If it's platonic, why would you want to marry him? You saving it for marriage? I'm not sure but if you don't want him then tell him flat out. Good luck.
2007-06-18 16:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to retain a relationship with him at all? He is going to keep trying as long as you let him back into your life. Let it go and move on.
2007-06-18 16:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making a clean break is the best way for both of you to get on with your lives.
2007-06-18 16:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think u shoulc keep the relationship stiricly patonic i think he just wants u as a piece of *** .. keep ur hormones in tacked til u find mister right .. ur fish is still out there searching for u .. good luck,
2007-06-18 16:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now he wants to take me out and pay?? Isnt that whats suppose to happen. You act like this is something new. lol
And he has a daughter!! uhh dont waste your time with this loser!
2007-06-18 16:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That crying crap is way over the top . Its just a ploy to get back in you . I would put a stop to that !
2007-06-18 16:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...w/o much detail it is hard to know...i was very confused with your description of events....so, i say...NO?! Go find what makes you happy...and it sounds like...from what i got...he doesn't make you even a little happy?!
2007-06-18 16:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Lil_bit_witty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋