Marriage & Divorce - 18 June 2007

My husband and I got in an agruement over his daughter. He said that his daughter who is 11 can go down to the pool (Condo Complex) by herself. I said no she can't, that an 11 year old should not go swimming by herself. He said that I shouldn't go over what he said, and basically he has final say. So basically I told him that I was sorry that I yelled, and for caring about his daughter. He told me he wants me to apologize and say he is right. I said I don't believe that he is right, basically this whole stupid situation is causing a big problem between us. Mind you I have 3 kids of my own and he has two we get on Sundays.

2007-06-18 06:35:00 · 27 answers · asked by shorte716 6

I need help guys! My wife's performance sucks big time! I want out! But I don't know how to do this. This is my first marriage. I am very super scared of the divorce thing and especially LONEINESS. I hate loneliness, because i get very depressed,being alone. I really depend on a WOMAN for my happiness and also at a emotional level. I would like to be very very HAPPY with a new wife, new girlfriend or something, but I am not sure if this is possible. Is there a 2nd chance in life with a new lady and a new happiness. I am so scared that no other woman will ever like me for who I am....

2007-06-18 06:28:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since he didn't prove me that he ended his relationship with his employee. He said that she left the company,and dumped him. One nigth, he called me very depressed and tearful. At first, I didn't want even to listen to him, but he almost crying asked, me to be compassionate and just listened to him.
we had some very good conversations.For sometime things went fine. The third time he asked to come back, I said yes but under the conditon that he will respect me as his wife, being completely honest, and open with me. he agreed, but I felt that was not a 100% sincere. Eventhoug I came back. for a while things were OK, but last week I started noticing a change on him. he mentioned that he had to travel and I asked him about details. about when he would come back, I asked him about that and he said don't worry. (???) I asked him again, who's gonna pick you up and he said the same, don't worry. I got pretty upset, but he didn't discuss further deatail and just walked away.

2007-06-18 06:17:40 · 6 answers · asked by wrkgmom 1

married 7yrs,2 young children. I have a dream house/life and should be happy, but I am not, inside I dont feel like this is me. malcontent has followed me for yrs. I have 2 parttime jobs right now. wife has great desk job. good kids but stressful, I just get angry at them all the time.My wife resents me for not cleaning/helping around the house, Its hard, I grew up not really having chores. So she isnt doing chores as much and no intamacy for months. "your not doing anything so im not either" attitude which created a bigger divide. We talked about divorce,she doesnt want one, she loves me and is happy if I help out. I'm still not happy. I'm a loner and Im happy when im doing things not involving the family, I am probably immature and selfish but thats how I am. I can change but I feel like I'll act out somewhere else.I keep thinking that I am the problem and its better off if Im not there being unhappy. maybe I am not cut out for this family life thing,to much stress and responsibility

2007-06-18 06:01:20 · 23 answers · asked by stealthy 2

My husband has cheated on line with me a few times. We are trying to work though these things, however every time he acts nice or dose something sweet (wich isnt alot) to me it is fake..so is it me or is it really me picking up on how fake he is?

2007-06-18 05:51:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do we start over?

2007-06-18 05:47:35 · 20 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3

I am currently in the middle of a divorce of my wife of 4 years and my stepson refuses to do anything I tell him, he purposely breaks my possessions when I am at work and threatens me under his breathe. His mother is aware of it and she either acts dumb or denies the whole thing. Rather than have a confrontation with him and possibly getting me in hot water, I would like to have him removed. My lawyer hasn't said anything about it yet, but i wanted to see if anyone out there can suggest something. The house is 100% in my name and I pay just about all the bills.

Also, what if he does assault me, what rights do I have?

Thank you

2007-06-18 05:44:30 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-18 05:40:30 · 23 answers · asked by Bryan B 1

when you even have bad relationship with people in working place...meaning you just have conflict means you you cannot be a an advance and forwarded person in life ..but then you just felt that people are just provoking you no matter what you tried like get in your way..........

2007-06-18 05:37:40 · 10 answers · asked by truth set free 1

we have no court ordered custody papers, i knew this would come sooner or later thats fine, im not scared to go to court n battle for custody, but i cant go another week, probably more without seeing my son he is my life, any advise?

2007-06-18 05:34:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

For me the most important thing in my life is my career. So much that I chose a rich guy who loves me instead of an ordinary guy whom I love. Don;t get me wrong, I like my husband a lot and am really attached to him. But recently he hit the ground hard. I can't stand that. I was always involved in his work and I know he will make a comeback, eventually. But wasting that much time is not a good option for the future. He says he cares only about me and not the money. And that if I wasn't bothered about the success bit he wouldn't even consider it a loss given I remain by his side. I feel obliged to stay, but I don't want to. It seems he really wants me there and looks to me for some consolation. Twist is my previous lover says that he know I love him so he will pay my husband the money to start over again given that he gives me a divorce.
What would be more important for my husband ? The money now or the money eventually with me by his side ?

2007-06-18 05:30:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

A USA Citizen Marrying an Immigrant! What do we need to do an?
Ok im 23 an a USA citizen of MD, he is a immigrant an resides in california. We want to get married July 4,2007 in california. What all do we need to do. Marriage licenece, filling citizenship for him etc etc etc an how much will it all cost? What are the legal issues we will need to deal with an what all will we need to do? Ty so much for the help information an advice im me with more info qtdiamoniqueluv!!!

2007-06-18 05:25:49 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle W 2

Guys describe the sexiest outfit your lady can wear in public.

2007-06-18 05:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by Heather 2

I believe my husband is suffering from depression. He has moved out of our house and claims to not be feeling the same way for me anymore (we have been married 20 years). He is not happy but he admits that he's not happy anywhere. He wants a "break" but not divorce. I have pushed for things like for him to see a counselor and to get on anti depressants, which he does in an effort to keep me hanging in there waiting for him. I want to know what are reasonable expectations of him. How long before he can come home, can he ever come home, is depression the reason he doesn't feel the same for me any more, is spending time with me and our children (which he seems to avoid as much as I let him) detrimental to his recovery or is it helping him? Any help from someone in my position or someone suffering from depression would be greatly appreciated!

2007-06-18 05:23:24 · 6 answers · asked by confusedtiredfrustrated 1

My wife does not like me to look at, touch, feel, kiss, lick or suck on her breasts.
Doesn't matter ANY time, any situation, any place.
She used to let me just to be nice.
Now she doesn't at all.
It doesn't matter if I am gentle, get her drunk, wine and dine her, buy her a car. She will not let me.
Just would like to know, is she in the bottom 20%, 10%,
5% or lower.
I have heard of women who it does nothing for them but still will let their man have his fun every once in a while.
So tell me where does my wife fall on the national average?

2007-06-18 05:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by Bob A 1

I would like to see my children without having to go through the courts.

My Ex-wife and I tried getting back together about 3 years ago obviously with no success. Since that falling out I have been arrested by the police for harrassing her under the harrassment act 1997 for writing to her asking for her forgiveness and the oportunity to see my children. There is obviously more to it and I do not want to make out she is the bad person just interested in whether this has become a modern trend.

2007-06-18 05:21:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-18 05:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by teresita w 1

And...are you bored and wish you had a boy toy to come visit you?

2007-06-18 05:18:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

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That's the little lady's post. (I hate giving 1 side). So now I'm back in the house living with her. She said she hates me when we broke up. And I'm back living with her. I understand her issue with me. I have not been motivated for awhile. Getting fired, quitting one for her, and a series of temp jobs is just not working. I have a degree in computer science and 12 years of exp., but can't get a perm. job. I didn't look after my last job, but I was bring her grandmother to cancer treatment. Away this is the 3rd or 4th break up this year. Even with me changing my actions, the cycle is about to repeat and she most likely will hate me more. Now what?

2007-06-18 05:00:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you found yourself single for what ever reason. would you marry again. i myself had a bad marriage and wouldnt do it again but i have many friends who have no intention of divorcing but say they wouldn't do again. i think this is because humanbeings are not, by nature, monogamus.

2007-06-18 04:53:02 · 26 answers · asked by pfc123darkknight 5

Are there things that you like, but you just haven't told him?

2007-06-18 04:41:24 · 11 answers · asked by shannie 3

have you heard a person is actually having an affair with their siblings`s spouses?oh my god isnt that terrible?why would you even do that to your own siblings?cant you have your own partner and just mind your own business?

2007-06-18 04:32:57 · 13 answers · asked by truth set free 1

you think mom is wrong for bringing up her son and daughter as nudists?

ps: She left it up to us, she did not force it on us.

2007-06-18 04:30:21 · 28 answers · asked by Trey J 1

I chatted, I shared pictures, I got busted. I didn't sleep with anyone and this was over a year and a half ago. I can't say anything without him getting bent out of shape. He called me a whore.

2007-06-18 04:23:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

check this out been with my girl friend for 17 yrs took her out last night and she told the host that i was her best friend and lover and she would not know what she would do with out me and that was the first time i ever herd anything like that comming from her what should i think of that im just stuned

2007-06-18 04:22:25 · 13 answers · asked by troy m 2

What shall i do if i found out that my female best friend is having an illicit affair with my married brother? it really shocked me when i discovered that she is dating with my brother. My brother and his wife are leaving separately because of separate jobs but they are not divorce. When i found out the affair i was raging mad. I can't be a good friend to her anymore for the sake of the wife.I not talking to the girl anymore. She comes in the company where my brother and i together in family business and she wants to be part of the business of which i not happy at all. I cannot be working together harmoniously with her. I need help because i not happy with this kind of situation because i feel for the wife and i feel for our business and i don't understand my brother's decision its his personal life but my family is involve. I don't know what to think anymore.

2007-06-18 04:06:17 · 16 answers · asked by Angelique 4

I didnt marry her before because im waiting for the result of my annulment. Now that i am annuled and free. My mom and my gf already is trying to rush me into marriage. Honestly I already have fallen out of love because of qualities I dont really like. My previous wife cheated on me and got pregnant by her co worker while working abroad. What do i have to do? Marry my gf now although i dont want to? Because thats what my mom and my gf want and because we already have a kid. Or should i run away? If i dont marry my gf my mom would definitely disown me and also i may not have a chance to see my daughter again. So confused... Pls help...

2007-06-18 03:47:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband went on a bender again this weekend...consuming about 6 gallons of wine (and no that isn't a typo)....we had a terrible fight last night where he said some really awful things to me (which he does every time we argue drunk or not) and this morning he was a total jerk...then I called him at 6 am to make sure he was ok and we had a long talk and he apologizes but you can tell he is still upset and then he sends me a text and says "is our marriage doomed"...I am depressed and confused...what do i do?

2007-06-18 03:32:48 · 27 answers · asked by Notagain 6

My wife is already seeing another guy and our divorce will not be final for another 30 days. My wife and I are still very good friends and our divorce will be uncontested. We have a 13 year old daughter that she will have full custody of but I can visit her anytime I want.

What really sucks about this entire situation is I can't confront my wife about seeing that other guy. If I do I fear I'll only upset her and she will make the divorce get ugly. We've already agreed to a child support dollar amount that I'm obligated to. I'd hate for her to change her mind and make me pay the full amount because I pissed her off.

What should I do? Please understand I can CARELESS about her seeing the other guy. We're getting a divorce remember? What I what to know is if I can use this to my advantage in the event my wife wants to screw me over at the last minute. I'm in Texas and we're still legally married. There's is no separation law here.

2007-06-18 03:30:32 · 15 answers · asked by kimchee_boi 3

Think that you are a very ambitious person and what matters most in ur life is ur career. So u fall in love with this guy but since he is not THAT successful u don't marry him. Instead u go and marry a VERY rich businessman so that he can aid in ur success. He however marries u because he loves u.
Then one day ur husband suffers badly and is broken and looks to u for support and says he doesn;t care about money as long as u r there with him. U like him a lt and u have grown quite attached to him but u want to leave him because he is worthless now. I left him. So why is everyone so mad at me?

My reason _ He is supposed to love me so why does he want me to share his misery with him and suffer ?

2007-06-18 03:23:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous