if you found yourself single for what ever reason. would you marry again. i myself had a bad marriage and wouldnt do it again but i have many friends who have no intention of divorcing but say they wouldn't do again. i think this is because humanbeings are not, by nature, monogamus.
2007-06-18 04:53:02 · 26 answers · asked by pfc123darkknight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was married to the same man for 33 years, he died last year. No, I will not marry again..it takes too long to train them(men). Seriously, no I don't think I will marry again, I'm not entirely sure why not, but I don't think I could ever find another person who could complete me as well as my husband did. We were complete opposites, but created a wonderful life together my alloying each other to be themselves, in this way we grew as a couple and as individuals. We chose to be together, not just because we were married, but because we made a conscience decision to act in a loving way towards each other by putting the relationship ahead of the individuals need to be declared right by the other person. How could I possibly find another person like that? It took many years to even realize I had found the 1st one!!!
2007-06-18 05:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first marriage was, as far as I was concerned, for ever. Things happened and she left because she felt she was no longer in love with me. I had no intention of marrying again, certain that the pain would never end. Then, after I had even given up on dating, 'she' walked into my life.
I now understand what the wonder of love is really all about. Even with the downs which come with two personalities spending so much time together, I cannot help but see that the ups are far more precious and present. We dated for almost a year before I was able to stop being afraid...and now after almost ten years marriage, I have absolutely no regrets over allowing her in. I cannot believe that my love for her could be any stronger, yet every day, I not only fall in love with her again, but it grows every single day.
Never discount the power of love or the human heart to overcome pain. To do so is to deny yourself the opportunity to find true happiness, even if being 'alone' is what makes you happy. Life can be 'funny' at times...
2007-06-18 05:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I re-married after 9 years of marriage and the second one lasted over 22 years then divorced again. Now I'm with a wonderful man for almost 3 years, we live in separate apartments but not in the same apartment housing and who knows what the future holds for both of us. He was married for 37 years when he left his EX. There are tough times a couple goes through BUT when the couple quits communicating how can a relationship survive without that AND the passion for life? So the answer to your question is:
Maybe third time may be the final answer. Been there, done that and with the right person in my world all things are possible especially with God.
2007-06-18 05:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Human beings are wired to reproduce just like the animal kingdom. We instill religious, cultural and political beliefs along the way we have our own rules (vs animals that reproduce within the same family). Therefore, if the persons are still young and their hormones fully functional (not steadily declining), their urge to reproduce is strong.
But marriage is not just about reproducing and raising children in advanced societies. There is complex social dynamics, earning a living, and the most important of all, humans are engulfed in strong emotions. These emotions cast a lot of doubt in humans about their roles.
2007-06-18 05:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being monogamous is one of the oldest debates in human history. The question is whether one has the willpower to resist temptation. Everybody looks and I mean everybody. The prospect of divorce is very frightening. It opens up old self esteem and insecurity issues. One may tend to think marriage is not an option anymore. I have learned literally to never say never. Once you get to know the person and grow with that person, you will ask yourself whether or not you feel comfortable with him or her. IF you do you won't be asking questions on whether they are monogamous or not
2007-06-18 05:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm on my 2nd marriage and I swore that I wouldn't do it again. If my hubby and I split 4 whatever reason, I would definetly marry again. I like being in a monogamous relationship-I DON'T miss the dating scene at all.
2007-06-18 04:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my mind I dont think I could re-marry. I have a happy marriage and I don't think that anyone could ever replace my husband. In other words fill his shoes or live up to his standard and because I would compare to him I don't think anyone else would like that either.
But I guess I wouldn't really know what i would do or how i would react if this were to ever happen.
2007-06-18 05:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by m b q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married (not that happily) for 8 years now. If I was to find myself single again, I would re-marry, but this time I would open my eyes and use my experience to find the right match.
2007-06-18 06:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Elliem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was married like you and had a bad marriage. Would i do it again? Personally yeah but for the right reasons this time.
2007-06-18 04:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by joseph c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 28 years, since I was 18. I would marry again if I fell in love again. I love being married and sharing my life.
2007-06-18 05:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Schwinn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋