Marriage & Divorce - 18 June 2007

2007-06-18 09:13:41 · 19 answers · asked by michellegprix99@sbcglobal.net 2

I mean, I have my home exactly the way I want it and it is always clean.....I have seen so many married people where the homes are disgusting and unkept.....The only way I see ever getting married is if we lived in seperate homes......what say you?

2007-06-18 09:06:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a difficult stage in my marriage. About a month ago I found out my husband was cheating on me with a co-worker. I asked him to leave the house. He insists on moving back home and try to work things out. He is willing to go to counseling. I was at a point were I just wanted to get a divorce and start a new life, because it is not the first time he has been unfaithful. Before getting married, we had an on and off relationship for about 8 years and he was unfaithful a few times. We got married a little over a year ago and had a baby – who is 10 months old right now. This makes it a little harder to let go of him. Besides him being unfaithful, he is a wonderful man. I am still deeply in love with him. I don’t know if I should give this another try or let it go. Please advise …

2007-06-18 09:06:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello, I'm 18 years old and have been witnessing my parents gradual seperation; it all began when my mother cheated on my dad 6 months ago. My father did get upset but later forgiven my mother but the relationship isn't recovering ever since. I can't possbily describe their current feelings for each other but it seems that my mom wants to move away and my dad wants her back. And of course, I want everything to return to normal.

(if this helps)
Mom is extrovert
Dad is introvert
I'm ISFP

What can I do to restore their relationship?

2007-06-18 09:02:43 · 14 answers · asked by pixarkid 3

Why do men have to lie????????And when they get caught, why do they want you to just forget about it, like nothing happened?How can a woman show that she is serious about it?I am sick of being trampled on, and it has forced me to become as hard as a rock...HELP!!!

2007-06-18 08:58:20 · 13 answers · asked by Apie 2

He has been separated for well over a year and he and his ex agree on the terms of the divorce. They are both ready for the divorce but remain on good terms. The problem is that she does not have the $ to pay for the divorce (about $1000) and he has some of the $ but is paying child support and other bills which means that it will take a while to come up with the rest of the money.

He and I want to get married later this year. I have the $ to give or lend him to pay for the divorce but I dont know if it would be right for me to lend/give it to him. He is a really great guy and Im not even sure if he would take the money if I offered it because he does not like hand outs. Should I help him out?

2007-06-18 08:55:18 · 29 answers · asked by Kelly 2

I have a daughter from a previous relationship, and I was hinting to my wife that it is fathers day. I told her about my family wishing me a happy fathers day. She wouldn't wish me one. She said that since my daughter is not her flesh and blood, she had no place wishing me a happy fathers day, and she would not. I was so angry with her, not because she didn't say "happy fathers day", but for her reasoning for not saying. Am I being petty, or is she right?

2007-06-18 08:53:38 · 36 answers · asked by I wanna talk to Samson 3

Hey, don't just cop out and say soemthing like "enforce the current laws" either. We know that is not going ot happen.

2007-06-18 08:46:01 · 12 answers · asked by Too Curious 3

men and WOMEN!?

2007-06-18 08:45:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

a broken engagement, she moves south 3 months ago we're now communicating better than we ever have and I'm going to visit her with her blessing. we've made a lot of progress the past 3 months

2007-06-18 08:44:51 · 4 answers · asked by Frankie G 1

I have realized with time that being cheated on is a terrible experience that deeply changes us and alters the way we view relationships and other ppl I would love to know (for those who have been cheated or and those who have cheated) how that experience was for you and what you did learn from it?

2007-06-18 08:41:39 · 19 answers · asked by ericktravel 6

My husband and I are having real trouble. We argue quite a bit and here lately it's even been in front of the children. Which I know is unacceptable. It's really gotten bad here in the last month or so.
To give some background info. we have two children and we both work full time jobs. I take care of the household chores and children completely. My husband goes fishing, works out and basically does whatever he wants. He comes and goes as he pleases. I do all these things for my children not so much my husband, because I'm fed up at this point. Relationships are 50/50. Now on top of it all he accuses me of cheating on him, which I'm not. How would I have time? To make matters worse he puts me down pretty often. Calling me names, saying I'm fat, washed up, and that no one else would want me because I have stretch marks and two kids. Still yet he expects me to have sex with him at the end of the day. To me this is just rediculous. That all he cares about. Am I wrong?

2007-06-18 08:30:09 · 19 answers · asked by Madmas 3

I have caught him looking at porn of large women. The catch 22 is that I am thin. He only looks at porn with very big women. This is a serious question by the way. What should I do?

2007-06-18 08:25:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother and his ex-wife have Joint custody. She lives in California, he lives here in Arizona. A week ago they agreed that he would pick them up today and keep them for two weeks in az. Well he drove up there last night, and she said no, you can't take them, after he drove all that way, to be a Biotch.
Can she do that legally? Can he take them for visitation anyways to AZ, they have joint custody?

Please let me know. Proffessional opinions please

2007-06-18 08:24:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

His best friend and I fell in love much before i got married with my husband now... but I got pregnant so i stayed with him now i want to leave him cause i don't feel anything for him, but i can see that he really loves me.. and the worst part is that i love his friend and I would look really bad waht should I do I feel awfull to even see them together talking and his friend and I faking that we son't even like each other!! wahat should i do!! I'm tired of pretending I love who I don't feel anything for him and pretending I hate someone I really love!!

2007-06-18 08:16:22 · 35 answers · asked by sexymamma 2

He says his job is on the line- so why take the day off? He goes to her house by himself a couple times a week, and once a week he takes me and blows off date night.

2007-06-18 08:16:07 · 8 answers · asked by northville 5

a woman (not my wife, but a freind) places her foot between my legs on the seat in a booth at a resturant while her husband sits right beside her. this has now happened twice.

2007-06-18 08:14:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My finacee is a great guy who is very loving and caring but can also lose his cool and verbally abuse me. We are due to get married in 3 mths but I am not sure if I should. he has hit me once in the past and even twisted my arm. I told this to my parents who want me to call off the wedding, then his came to know and they were very upset with him.
Now that he's accountable to his parents and mine, and has wept and promised to change can I/should I trust him? He says he lived 24 yrs without me so obvi it will take him time to change. I'm so confused because when he talks in that crude, derogatory manner it is very painful and I feel small (among other things, he has called me a `liar' for petty things; threatened to `smack' me etc.). He has promised to control his language as well and treat me with more respect.
Does anyone know if thats possible? Can he really change? or is it likely to be superficial? Please help! He says he loves me more than life. We've been together for 2 yrs.

2007-06-18 08:04:04 · 46 answers · asked by star 1

Ive know him for 8 years....but i wont take a shower with him...im self consious. but im know im not ugly but i just cant do it

2007-06-18 08:00:13 · 30 answers · asked by ~Blondie~ 2

I'm married for three years. But me and my husband always have an argument about his money and assets. He got kids from ex-wives. My mind is already full of his disrespectful words to me like we were just watching t.v. or going out his mind is always about his house when he die his life insurance, money, and house and everything that he owns are for his grown kids and nothing for me. I told him it's okey. I might as well do a post nuptial if the person always torturing my mind and very worried about his assets I might as well give it to them all nothing for me. Now my problem is I found out that he bought family plan life insurance for me. I don't want him also to get anything claims that I don't know that he bought family plan life insurance. I want to void all of them just in case something happen to me I met an accident he too will get nothing from me. It's better equal he told me I won't get anything, he will get nothing. My question is I want to file a post-nuptial agreement

2007-06-18 07:59:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex husband and I were divorced in 2001 and I gave up any rights to his pension or Alimony because I was being harassed by his girlfriend and just didn't want anything to do with that whole mess anymore. The problem that I have is that my ex-husband did not mention his life insurance as an asset nor did he mention his military benefits (BAH, BAS, COLA, Special Pay, etc) as part of his income. Courts don't really know about these benefits so they over look them. I knew nothing about military pay, so I was ignorant to those benefits as well. I didn't care for his money but he did promise me that he would keep our kids as beneficiaries of his life insurance in the event of his death, though it was only a verbal agreement. Well, my ex husband passed away last month & I just found out that he removed our kids from his life insurance policy. Do I have a right to dispute who his life insurance is paid to? Can the divorce decree be modified to include the life insurance? Thanks in advance!

2007-06-18 07:58:48 · 3 answers · asked by skar 1

lately i have been getting very explicit unwanted disgusting porn pop ups on my computer. Question is, can these pop up even if someone has not visited those sites?

2007-06-18 07:58:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should i do, i found a 1994 and a 1997 version of porn magazines in my dads room.

2007-06-18 07:43:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 29, married and with 3 children. the relationship with my husband is allright. i wish a few things were different, like his attitude towards things, being more gentle, i knowwhe loves me,but he is a builder, very strong an when he touches me it feels like a slap, that i am avoiding him. he doesnt talk much, cos he says he is not as eucated as me. i love him, but there is not that much of a passion. sex is good, but i think cos we know each other well. so i have learned to accept this, as the rest of our lives is allright. the thing is a i met a man, who the more i know the more i like. he alreay told me he likes me and wants to go out with me. i dont know what to do. in one side i will love to know him better and see what happens, on other side i m married so i shouldnt meet up with him. also i think that if i have this feelings towards this man, maybe it means i dont love my husban as before. what would you do? please need help and advice. thank you

2007-06-18 07:30:28 · 19 answers · asked by kiki 1

I can't help but think that it is. There are so many questions on here (from women mainly) about it.

2007-06-18 07:29:35 · 22 answers · asked by Ronin 4

My friend's ex-husband's new wife called child services and claimed that she(my friend) does not see to her son's needs. Her son is 10yrs old. The claim is that he is never bathed and wears the same clothes. This is definitely untrue. This claim was filed because my friend filed a petition to have the boy's father produce a passport(for his son) before taking the son to Canada. The father who has 6wk summer visitation was going to permit his new wife to take his son to Canada 3wks before the father would arrive.

2007-06-18 07:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by d j 1

has been viewed on your computer?

2007-06-18 07:16:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-18 07:13:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has asked me to make numerous changes for our marriage, home, children, as well as for my own good. I have only asked him to take a bigger interest in the emotional aspect of our marriage but he won't keep it up but for more than 2 or 3 days. He says he just can't make me happy anymore-he's tried. I told him that he does make me happy, but it's only when he reverts to his neglectful ways that I become unhappy, lonely and feel very unloved. He says he just doesn't need all that. I told him that's because I meet all of his needs before they are realized. I am a very loving, supportive, dedicated, hardworking mother and wife. I take my job as a wife and mother VERY seriously and I do not allow myself to neglect any aspect of those jobs. So why is it that he is allowed to choose which jobs he would like to be responsible for as far as his duties as a husband? However, he is a wonderful provider and keeps our yard beautiful and our children happy. What about me-it's all I ask?!

2007-06-18 07:12:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my gf says says she needs space after 4yrs together she says shes not happy not just with me but everything life,work,herself we talk a little and says shes lost and confused. i told her if shes not happy about anything in life that the problem is bigger than both of us maybe depression. when we first seperated she'd have nothing to do with me now we talk a little. now she says we can work on being friends first i love her more than anyone ive ever had in my life. the problems she has with me are things i can fix and honestly want to. i use to smoke weed everyday...now i dont touch it i would like to be better off financially too so i have to stop. i love her and do not want to lose her shes evrything to me im hurting over this so please help me should i be there for her or just let go?

2007-06-18 07:09:24 · 13 answers · asked by legs2556 1