My wife does not like me to look at, touch, feel, kiss, lick or suck on her breasts.
Doesn't matter ANY time, any situation, any place.
She used to let me just to be nice.
Now she doesn't at all.
It doesn't matter if I am gentle, get her drunk, wine and dine her, buy her a car. She will not let me.
Just would like to know, is she in the bottom 20%, 10%,
5% or lower.
I have heard of women who it does nothing for them but still will let their man have his fun every once in a while.
So tell me where does my wife fall on the national average?
2007-06-18 05:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by Bob A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As for percentages I don't know. But here are a couple of other thoughts on the subjetc. I had the same problem for a couple of years and then found out that I had a slow growing breast cancer lump. After it was removed, the feeling that I didn't want to be touched went away. Maybe she needs to see a doctor about her breasts. There could be a physical reason for her discomfort. Also perhaps as a young teen someone she cared for (parent, sibling ect.) made fun of her breasts or even she could have been abused and she transferred her feelings of betrayal and shame onto her chest. This is alot more common that most people know. Teasing or bashing another person in teen years can cause life long damage to their self esteem for both boys and girls. They may not be aware of the source of their feelings. The human body is a beautiful thing and our society has done alot to ruin many people by holding up an impossible ideal for young people to live up to. Good Luck.
2007-06-18 06:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok that this is how you feel. Let your husband know that it's a bit rude to compare you to other women and each woman's different. Then challenge him to figure out other ways of touching you that you enjoy. (And do things to him that feel good for him too.) Also, figure out if maybe you touching your breasts during sex would be ok, he may enjoy watching you do this. Or if touching near them would be good...or if not touching them but for example licking would be good.
2016-05-18 21:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely love it! as it is one my favorite erogenous zones, but people are all different, your girl might like having her ears touched, or the small of her back rubbed, feet for some women, you just have to find her magic button. You didn't say how old she was but alot of women loose perkiness as they get older and are very self-consciouses of it, as they don't look the same as they did before. Comfort her and let her know they look good, and she may come around, but in the mean while be a detective and find out what really turns her on.
2007-06-18 07:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure where she falls on a national average, but it might be that she is self-conscious of her breasts. Maybe try in the dark or when she is wearing clothes? Women always feel that they are not good enough...not beautiful enough, sexy enough, etc. Your wife may just not want to disapoint you. Make sure to tell her and show her that you think she is beautiful and sexy...maybe that will help!
good luck!
2007-06-18 05:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've not known anyone personally who claimed that, but it doesn't surprise me that some wome just don't want them touched...for many handling them isn't a turn-on at all, so makes sense that there would be a few for which it was actually undesirable.
There are many other body parts to play with though...enjoy!
2007-06-18 05:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy answer to your question. Personally, I don't like having my nipples, specifically, messed with. There is no "feel good" sensation that comes with it. The rest of my breasts, Yes! Just not the nipples. It becomes annoying to have them rubbed.
P.S. If it does nothing for her, why would you want to do it? If you want to touch breasts "for fun", I say play with your own. If you are touching her then it SHOULD BE FOR HER.
2007-06-18 05:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
My wife has become the same way. She will never ever take her shirt off in my presence. Sad
2007-06-18 05:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is self conscious about them.
Have you been making comments about hers or other women's in front of her?
Also, maybe she doesn't like men anymore.
2007-06-18 05:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this!! I'm not a shrink so I do not know what to say for an answer.
2007-06-18 05:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of other woman on here not liking it. It depends how and when you do it.
2007-06-18 05:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋