Marriage & Divorce - 2 May 2007

she found this man on line. and now she wount talk to me about anything and i am stuck with all the bills and she didnt work before and i cant stand this anymore she was talking to the man on line from 8am to2pm m to fri when i was at work

2007-05-02 06:45:17 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have a disagreement about pornography. I think that they can be a valuble marital aid, and I don't think that there is anything wrong with it. I am not addicted or anything, and I do not wan't to watch it all the time, I just need to have time to blow off steam. She won't let me watch anything on tv that may have women in bikinis or anything, or have friends, or go to stripclubs, etc. I think that these things are important for a guy to blow off steam from the rest of the week.
My wife thinks that a married man should never watch, or wish to look at another woman, and if he does than there is something wrong with him. She thinks that these things are ok if he is single, but should immediately stop when married.
What do you think?

2007-05-02 06:42:42 · 28 answers · asked by Aaron 3

we just start going out and we been married going on three years and i dont like how i look after my baby but he thinks i look hot what could be going on

2007-05-02 06:30:41 · 16 answers · asked by maria p 1

During a divorce, is a vehicle and the joint incumbrence therein considered both community property and community debt? Can it be listed as community property only, with a notation of the incumbrance to be included with possession of said vehicle, without listing it seperately as a community debt as well? The vehicle is my spouses, but we both signed the loan paperwork. I want him to have the vehicle and be responsible for the payments going forward as well. I cannot afford legal counsel and am filling in the paperwork myself and do not want to delay if I make an error. So, list it seperately even though it pertains to the same item, or as property and the incumbrence therein only? Thanks

2007-05-02 06:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 06:22:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been married for 15 yrs. we have 5 boys together. His drinking has gone from occasional to practically daily and drunk every weekend. He recently passed out in my brothers back yard and is having slight black outs. He has refused to see he has a problem for 2 yrs now. I cant live like this anymore and am worried about my boys seeing alot of this. they hate it. I cant financially affford to kick him out til he gets help but it may have to come to that. He thinks he is fine. I am having heart palpatations and have recently started getting miagraines. Any advice? I have tried Alanon but it didnt help me much. Any advice at this point would be great.

2007-05-02 06:22:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is Mexican, and she wants me to be like a Mexican Soap opera star and fight with everyone who has a disagreement with her. Recently she was arguing (civily) with my brother over how a relationship should be (she thinks that she should be in control of an entire relationship, and the two should be together always, ignoring everyone else including family). Anyway, she thinks that any time that someone argues with her over something, then I am supposed to act all macho, and punch them in the face or something. I don't understand, because I was always taught to be calm, and not to fight. Clearly if she was in physical danger I would fight for her. But she says that I am a traidor, and not doing my duty as her husband. Keeping in mind that we are not talking about strangers, we are talking about arguments with family. What do you think? Women's opinion is valued in particular.

2007-05-02 06:08:54 · 31 answers · asked by Aaron 3

2007-05-02 06:00:35 · 15 answers · asked by Beka 1

I have seen on here about how many people are getting divorced or already divorced. Just wondering what everyone else thought!!

2007-05-02 05:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by jbe2176 2

2007-05-02 05:54:45 · 17 answers · asked by missbarbiemiller 1

Mine doesn't ride a broomstick or hang with flying monkeys anymore.

2007-05-02 05:51:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 05:47:51 · 18 answers · asked by yp_pete_kitchener 1

This place has more drama queens then the audience of "Dr. Phil"

2007-05-02 05:47:49 · 21 answers · asked by rands67217 1

I have no children so that's not a factor. Is it worth changing back, or should I just leave it?

2007-05-02 05:45:15 · 18 answers · asked by Roland'sMommy 6

my mother is afraid that i will be mad at her for devorcing her husband...my stepdad...i am not...how do i show her this withouth being straight with her? I relly want her to know that i support her very mch and will love her no matter what

2007-05-02 05:41:54 · 7 answers · asked by grrrr. 2

I am planning my bridal shower that will be for couples and I do not know if children should be invited. I have 2 younger sisters, 13 & 11, and many relatives have children between the ages of 5 & 13, should I allow them to come? If so, do I need to put anything extra on the invitation to make sure they know that children are invited?

2007-05-02 05:38:47 · 22 answers · asked by Bride915 1

how do i keep my account secret?

2007-05-02 05:37:37 · 35 answers · asked by zz73 2

With the birth of our first child my husband has ended a 3 year affair with his mistress. However it has been 5 months and she continues to send e-mails and air our dirty laundry on her my space page. Of course she does this all without using names, but everyone is painfully aware of who and what she is talking about in our social circles. And it is fuel for the gossip mongers. How can I get this to stop so we can get on with our lives. My husband says to ignore it but I can't take the public humiliation much longer. Any advice would be greatly appreciated

2007-05-02 05:32:37 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wouldn't get involved except that I feel she really needs to know. He is not being safe.

2007-05-02 05:31:29 · 30 answers · asked by sweetie 3

I am separated from my husband and it is breaking my heart right now that we are having so much trouble trying to get things working again.....he is the love of my life - and I his - yet we're on the verge of a divorce. I guess the saying, "sometimes love just ain't enough" is the truth....and you know what? The truth does hurt. Any advice?

2007-05-02 05:20:51 · 17 answers · asked by Virgo 4

2007-05-02 05:15:53 · 15 answers · asked by Susu 3

I need an outsider presective on my relationship. Here it is in a nut shell....ready?! I have been with my bf on off for about three years after my divorce. We meet while I was pregnant, and lived together for almost 2 yrs, then when my daughter was born and around 6 mo, we had issues seperated, and I started dating my daughters father. ( I have two kids prior marriage) and my youngest from ex. So me and her dad start dating for around 9 mo and we break up, due to his temper, and drug use. Then a while down the road I start seeing my bf again he moves in with me. tells me he loves my kids, and they need him and we can just be friends, because after my ex and I broke up there was physical violance. So now I am with my bf and all we do is fight. He is constantly accusing me of sleeping with someone else, or telling me I am crazy if I want to leave him. He tries to tell me I am not normal because I wont give him what he wants...which is sex everyday, even tho I take care of three kids..

2007-05-02 04:58:38 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4

Must a husband or for that matter wife reveal all to his/her partner?

2007-05-02 04:57:46 · 25 answers · asked by Nilutpal Gogoi 3

at age 4 of cancer...She took care of him and her husband worked...but had to block it out ...temporary...in order to be able to work..and to tell people that would ask...How's little Johnny doing?'''...he would just say..."Oh, he's doing the best that he can"....(they got the hint)...ANYWAY, a year after he died...the mom felt the marriage was over...and filed for divorce...NOW I CAN UNDERSTAND THAT...BECAUSE OF THE STRESS THE MOM WAS UNDER CARING FOR A CHILD IN A NO-WIN SITUATION...But at the funeral home people were criticizing....and after she left...which i am glad she did not hear it....but they were still critizing her for leaving...why is it their business what she does????

2007-05-02 04:48:45 · 16 answers · asked by sweet 4

2007-05-02 04:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by mary 2

I have three kids and my husband and I obviously don't feel the way we used to, I miss the old us sooo much we had so much in common, and we never fought, we still love eachother but not the same way. Now we fight everyday literally which is odd considering we both hate to argue. I don't get it we are still so young I am 20 he is 24 what happened, how can two people change so much over the course of 3 years, Help........ I don't want my marraige to fall apart.

2007-05-02 04:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband very much this is why I married him. Be4 we got married we were pretty happy together. We lived together & it as great. We had been 2gether 2yrs when I found out I was pregnant. It was the happyest day of my life. He was there 4 me when I was really sick and went to most of the doctor apts. when I hit 6-7 mths things began 2 change. We argued alot we didn't spend time 2gether. He never wanted me around when he would throw partys. I was pushed 2 the side. Around this time he was on the computer alot & I found out he was talking 2 other women & he lied. We got married when I was 8 mnths & I had my daughter alittle over 9mths. After she was born I found out he cheated on me a month after we got married & rite be4 our daughter was due. We talked it out & I forgave him. Things changed 4 awhile now things are different again. He isn't cheatin he is always out with friends, working all the time doesn't act as though Im equal, & we never talk, our flame seems 2 have gone out

2007-05-02 04:09:28 · 15 answers · asked by The H 3

Spouse saw calls that I made to another man, but now when I asked for all of his itemized cell phone calls to see who he has been talking to,he says he has nothing to hide and would get it for me to see, but it's been 2 months and he has not gotten anythin..why is this the case? Why does he not want me to see his cell phone bill.

2007-05-02 04:02:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 03:59:46 · 17 answers · asked by Aseel 4

he finally was divorced in December. His divorce was very messy and ugly. We broke up last month because of trust issues and lack of communication due to the struggles of his divorce. I now I have heard that they are getting back together...He told me that he didnt love her and she was the last woman he wanted to be with. So, why is he getting back with her? Was I just a fun for the moment relationship? I am so confused...They do have children and so maybe that is a factor.

2007-05-02 03:58:34 · 19 answers · asked by sara d 1