we just start going out and we been married going on three years and i dont like how i look after my baby but he thinks i look hot what could be going on
2007-05-02 06:30:41 · 16 answers · asked by maria p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A baby changes everything! And don't complain about him liking your body "as is", all of us women would love to have that. This all just means that he is deeply in love with you and sees beyond your body, and you are the mother of his child. Don't get all paranoid over him acting like this. Be happy that you have a wonderful man.
(reminds me of my husband, we're two lucky B****es!!)
2007-05-02 06:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by BamBam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No woman likes how she looks after she has a baby, but I think your hubby is a dream, since he's said you still look hot. He probably believes that as well, because your body looks the way it does because you carried and delivered into the world HIS child. He's probably emotional because he's become a father, and the responsibility and the huge swell of love you feel for this tiny little person is really overwhelming. I know my husband cried when each of our children were born, and then when he put them in my arms, we both cried.
I honestly don't see what your question is, and what you're worried about, unless you're dealing with some post partum issues. Just relax, enjoy that precious little baby, and thank God you're married to a good man who obviously wants to care for you and his child.
2007-05-02 06:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be lucky that you don't have a husband who constantly says you look like crap after having a baby. Sounds like you have a good man. You shouldn't question being treated good.
2007-05-02 06:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like having a baby reminded him again why he loves you to begin with. Enjoy his new enthusiasm in the relationship it sounds like he loves you very deeply! As far as trying to raise your baby, its all trial an error. It may sound silly but its a bit like riding a bike. Its hard to get at first... but then you never forget.
2007-05-02 06:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to improve how you look to yourself, go for it since you obviously have a problem with it. But be happy that he loves you, doesn't see anything wrong with you and you are married to a man that can be that decent to you.
2007-05-02 06:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your husband loves you for yourself get some one you trust to watch your baby go jogging or join a exercise club to lose weight just so you will feel better about your self esteem i know its hard after you just had a baby and when your older its hard like I'm in my fifties its very hard to lose
2007-05-02 06:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be he fell in love with you all over again, and you did create a new life. You gave him a child, now he looks at you with awe and wonder.
2007-05-02 07:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband loves you, he's going to think you look hot no matter how you see yourself.
You just gave birth to his child, he probably feels even deeper love for you.
Just sit back and enjoy it...
2007-05-02 06:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? that sounds like a damn good man to me. stop whining. if you don't like how you look, don't complain to him because he loves you and sees you for you. just go out and fix it. put the baby in a stroller and go walking.
2007-05-02 06:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it sounds like ur man is deeply in love with u .. enjoy it while u can ..
good luck
2007-05-02 06:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋