2007-05-02 05:47:51 · 18 answers · asked by yp_pete_kitchener 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To all that answered my question. My ex is a female. She took almost everything that wasn't bolted down. Along with the car i signed to her she also got $. So now what would you do?
2007-05-02 07:01:32 · update #1
Tell them to get a job you don't owe them anything. What do you want to do?
2007-05-02 05:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by stormey_84074 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The emphasis here is on "ex." It depends on why you two are no longer together. If the relationship ended amicably and you both mutually decided to move on with your lives, it is understandable if either one of you feels comfortable enough to ask favors of the other. However, if the end of the relationship was not an agreeable one on both sides, maybe you need to let sleeping dogs lie, so to speak. Don't start something that you don't intend to see through until the end. I read somewhere, I believe in a book by TD Jakes, that you nurture what you want in your life and you starve what you don't want in it. It's up to you...if you want this person, with whatever comes with them back in your life or not. It's easy to say, I'm just going to help them out this time, and they're going to pay me back. You've just opened a door. Decide what it is you want. Money always carries an attachment with it...because you're always going to be communicating about the return of it.
2007-05-02 06:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mahtwo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, are there any children? If so, then you need to be supporting them. Get an attorney and get that hashed out.
If not children, then it doesn't matter if you were comon law or not. If you two didn't have any bills together, then just walk away. If you did have bills together, then I hope to God you put into writing what you would pay for, and what she would pay for. If you didn't, then your credit rating could be taking a serious nose dive.
Sorry, that's all I've got.
2007-05-02 08:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by sharbsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do they need it? Are they really in trouble or are they just looking for some money? If you think they really need help, I might give them a little bit to help them get by (but I wouldn't make it that easy for them, because you don't want it to become a habit.)
2007-05-02 05:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by hellolacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! My ex was always around when I had money and always with someone else when I didn't. Sometimes when we are caught up in a situation we are blind! Keep your money!
2007-05-02 05:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by QuantumB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi nice to see you and goodbye, the common law husband bank has closed!!!!unless you have kids together, then you should be paying child support for the kids.
2007-05-02 05:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to consider giving you ex money?
2007-05-02 05:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all states have common law marriages anymore, you might want to make sure yours does before you get a lawyer!
2007-05-02 05:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he is looking for money:
A. he should get a job.
B. he should get a lawyer if he thinks he has justification.
C. you should just ignore him, and if he harasses you more then call the police.
2007-05-02 05:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your ex some money. What do you think?
2007-05-02 05:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋