Marriage & Divorce - 2 May 2007

i had to buy my own engagment ring and pay for the wedding and i feel i can do better but i love him to much... i deserve more i grew up in a house hold of being able to shop in nice stores and now im shopping at walmart cant get my hair done or nails and i dont know what to do? any help

2007-05-02 12:15:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to have sex with this guy i have been talking to on Myspace,...we have been talking for awhile now ...and hes driving me crazy ...what should i do?

2007-05-02 12:14:32 · 33 answers · asked by luv.is.pain 2

2007-05-02 12:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 12:02:44 · 7 answers · asked by anc 1

today i overheard someone talking about it.

2007-05-02 12:01:53 · 5 answers · asked by holla 2

2007-05-02 11:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

You walk in somewhere with a date, girlfriend, wife and you notice some chicks checking you out but then you go somewhere alone its like you dont exist......

2007-05-02 11:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by Hammer 2

are there some guys that don't have a sex drive? we have intercourse like once a week. he tells me that it has nothing to do with me. he says that that there's something wrong with him, but he doesn't know what it is. what confuses me is that he had a "normal sex life" before me.

2007-05-02 11:34:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my guy have been through some tuff stuff that no one else (I am possitive) would do for me ever. He has stuck by my side through all and all. Do you think he wants to marry me. He has brought it up a few times, but it was before all the bad stuff started happening.

2007-05-02 11:31:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girl friend and I have been dating for a year and living together for 7 months. I'm a busy person. A full time job,two kids and I play music twice a week. So I'm usually tired at the end of the day. She's been complaining that I don't spend enough "couple time" with her. She gets real upset on the nights I have band practice because she tells me it takes away from time we could have. I've beenplaying music for 30 years and I'm not going to stop now. So she says I'm chooseing music over her. How can I get her to stop complaining about the time we don't have together and start enjoying the time we DO have?

2007-05-02 11:23:14 · 19 answers · asked by joeysdudes 2

2007-05-02 11:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this girl since middle school. We used to be really good friends, but kinda drifted apart when we each got married and had kids. We do still talk occasionally. She is married (has been since 96) and has 2 kids. My mom was eating at a restaurant @ 1 am and saw her husband there. He did speak to my mom and then sat @ his table. Then the waitress from the bar upstairs came down and sat next to him, rubbed his back. When she did this, he turned around to see if my mom saw him, which she didn't, but my mom's friend did. I don't know if this was a "Hi how are you?" rub in the back or what. But, my question is....should I call my friend and let her know? My may not talk to her very often, but I still care about her as my friend and don't want to see her get hurt. What should I do?

2007-05-02 11:07:41 · 17 answers · asked by Candy B 2

is there anything we can do to make anual sex not hurt me as much. to wear it still fills good but doesnt hurt as much

2007-05-02 11:05:39 · 13 answers · asked by allie laught alot 3

When you see a gal at the store and you can see her nipples through her top (not trying to hide it), what impression do you percieve?

2007-05-02 11:03:39 · 21 answers · asked by The Central Scrutinizer 3

I have been living with my boyfriend for almost a year. Every once in a while he doesn't do his own grocery shopping and eats my food. When I try to talk to him about it, he freaks out. He says he has been lazy?? He does buy other household supplies once in a while............He does have money. I am worried that he is using me. Need HELP!

2007-05-02 11:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by Sally R 1

2007-05-02 10:50:50 · 47 answers · asked by tastetouchtantalize.com 1

For those of you that are happily married--when deciding to marry, were you COMPLETELY sure that he was "THE ONE" and if so, what made you so sure? Thanks!!!

2007-05-02 10:44:01 · 14 answers · asked by GG 2

My (now Ex) Fiancee told me she didn't want to see me ever again, On top of that she told me, "Oh,...by the way I aborted the baby." I didn't know she was pregnant. I loved her very much, and I never treated her badly. She stormed out of my live killing our baby, and I can't get a hold of her. I'm wondered if it was something I did? But I can't ask her, I mean she didn't even take the time to lie to me. I'm wonder how you would tackle something like this so I could move on?

2007-05-02 10:42:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 10:32:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin married a white girl. They had alot of problems and their marriage didn't last long. He regrets marrying her and said, "Asians should stick with Asians, Blacks with Blacks, and Whites with Whites, Hispanics with Hispanics." How can a couple overcome cultural differences? Is it possible to have a happy relationship despite the barriers?

2007-05-02 10:32:37 · 24 answers · asked by krazyflip 1

Been with my fiance for 4 years.

During the first year he cheated on me. He acted indifferent towards me for about a month - eventually I caught him on a date with another girl. I confronted him, we had massive arguments, I tried to end it.

But here we are 4 years later. He had to work VERY hard to get me back on his side - it was probably a year before I trusted him again.

We're extremely happy now and I've had to accept what he did.
He has grown up enormously over the last 3 years and done a great deal to gain my trust back. Our relationship has been a lot stronger since his infidelity.

However, as much as I love him - it's still always there at the back of my mind. Even as we plan our wedding,......

Has anyone been through anything similar? Do you ever forget?

2007-05-02 10:32:27 · 26 answers · asked by Clare 4

He lies mostly about small things, but has lied about bigger things in the past. His first version of the truth is never the real story. For the last 4 years, our biggest fights have been over his internet porn habit. I never had a problem with my self image until I met him, because he is always online looking at "something else". Recently, I have had some issues with fertility and have felt very un-womanly. His porn habit makes me feel even worse. He has promised over and over to stop. I have always been a laid back person regarding sex - but his continued visits to porn and "hot girl" sites are really taking a toll on me. It's so disrespectful at this point. Worse yet, when he gets caught, he gets pissed at me and doesn't talk to me for days. Shouldn't he be apologizing for being so untrustworthy? Aside from the porn issue, he is just always getting caught in little lies. It concerns me because I think to myself, "if he lies about this, what else is lying about?"

2007-05-02 10:23:08 · 18 answers · asked by blue eyes 1

2007-05-02 10:20:36 · 20 answers · asked by J 2

Isn't it bad enough that they are doing it?

2007-05-02 10:20:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 10:17:48 · 18 answers · asked by tr 1

2007-05-02 10:17:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Question: in a relationship: husband, wife, and kids…..Say that the husband and wife do not share there income they have different savings account. And say that the man is making way more money then a woman should it be right for both of them to go half and half on everything?
And say that the woman buys the kids some clothes and the husband doesn’t think it is necessary and she asks him for half of what she spent (and remind you that she makes ok money but he gets more) and he says NO the kids didn’t need clothes so I wont give you anything…Is the Fair that things like this happen not only with clothes but with other things like food, ect.

2007-05-02 10:16:45 · 12 answers · asked by Eve 2

My ex-husband used to compare me to his sisters all of the time. Its hard because one of his sisters is born on the same day and year as me.

In his eyes, she is a better mom and career woman and basically a better wife to her husband.

My ex-husband yelled at me in front of his sisters and praised his sisters. He also ignored me when his sisters were around. If I complained, I would get in trouble with his mother.

2007-05-02 10:12:05 · 17 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

When I was with my ex-husband and daughter, I found that I did not feel any happiness. I gave up my happiness for my ex-husband and child. Is this normal?

I could not buy things for myself freely within our means or keep in touch with my family or relatives. I was also compared constantly with other women of my age and his sisters. They were always better than me.

2007-05-02 10:09:48 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

My fiancee and I have been together for almost 6 years. We lived together for more than 4 years, but split up and moved apart more than a year ago. Since that time we have been trying to work things out. But the same issues that broke us up are still there. He is a heavy drinker and smoker, I am a light smoker and like to drink only occasionally. I can hear him opening up beer cans at 5am before he goes to work. There were some mental and emotional abuse issues going on as well. I do loive him, and we share the same goals, I just don't know if I can deal with his habits, and I am very afraid that the emotional and mental abuse will; resume if I were to move back in with him. He is not willing to stop drinking, although he talks about quitting smoking. I am very torn as to what to do. Help!

2007-05-02 09:57:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous