2007-05-02 12:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
did you hurt him in anyway? maybe the reason he won't speak to you.
you can't make your (ex) husband talk to you.
2007-05-02 12:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give no reason why your husband doesn't want to talk with you so my answer is very general. You have no control how others will react or behave towards difficult circumstances that happen whether it involves you, both of you or not. Time heals all wounds however it doesn't guarentee that the outcome will be as you wanted.
2007-05-02 19:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're separated for a reason, Hon. It's a time out for both of you to decide if you really want to do this. Because you're chasing him around, I assume you want it to work out, but he needs to determine that for himself as well, and he can't make an honest, uninfluenced decision if he talks to you, because perhaps you're reminding him what you have, that you love him, that you don't want this. Back off. If he's going to decide it's over, it's best you get used to not talking to him now. By the way, you're showing yourself as clingy and needy, and that sends some guys packing even faster.
2007-05-02 19:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that although you are separated, he is still an important part of your life, and that you would miss the open communication of your relationship if he continues to ignore you. Let him know that when he's ready to talk to you about anything, that you'll be available via any method he feels comfortable with. Good luck!
2007-05-02 19:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by chermoe06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's pretty well much nothing you can do. I can tell you from my past expeirence, when my exhusband was that way, I found out that the reason he wouldn't talk to me is because he was with another woman. I'm not saying that maybe your husband is with another woman but maybe that might be the case.
2007-05-02 20:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying too hard, you might look "needy". Stay strong, hang out with friends and families instead and let time heal whatever caused you to separate.
2007-05-02 19:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by pathak_surendra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am separated from mine too...do you have kids? are you still living under the same roof? why do you need to talk to him? The only reason I need to talk to mine sometimes is to get his share to pay the bills (we are roommates) and I e-mail him everything...
2007-05-02 19:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter.
2007-05-02 19:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people would say you are lucky. Hire an attorney to talk to his attorney.
2007-05-02 19:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya ...i say ask him to write a letter to you ....maybe email him and ask him to do that ....hes acting like a baby for some reason...maybe he cheated or something and he feels quilty ..you never can tell nowadays...i would be concerned!!!
2007-05-02 19:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by luv.is.pain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋