i want to have sex with this guy i have been talking to on Myspace,...we have been talking for awhile now ...and hes driving me crazy ...what should i do?
2007-05-02 12:14:32 · 33 answers · asked by luv.is.pain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are married, if you want to have sex with someone else get a divorce. If you have sex with someone else while you are married you are committing adultery and turning both yourself and the person you are having the sex with into whores...do you WANT to be a whore?
2007-05-02 12:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
You know what? I understand. My husband and I have been together for almost 9 years since I was 16 and we have a child. He is the ONLY man that I've ever been with, and I have met men that drive me crazy because I want to be with them so badly and it's okay to feel that way, but it is NOT okay to act on your feelings. I read your profile, and I get it about being bored but still being in love, I've been there. If you don't want to be with your husband then you should stop wasting his time, and yours and move on. However I would not suggest having sex with some random guy that you met on myspace. That is an immature decision. If you do still want to be with your husband then you need to cut off ALL contact with myspace man, and focus on your marraige and kids, and the feeling to stray will pass. Trust me.
2007-05-02 13:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple. Do you want your husband or not? Do you have an open marriage or not?
If you do not have an open marriage, and you don't want to get divorced, then you can't sleep with the other guy. It sounds to me as though you have already crossed the line. You are probably in the midst of infatuation. It is hard to think straight when you are infatuated with someone. Your body becomes flooded with chemicals causing you to only think of him and your sex drive skyrockets.
The only way to end this feeling for him is to stop all contact with this man. I mean cold turkey. You can't email, text, or call him. You certainly can't see him. This is the only way to keep this situation from escalating.
If you no longer want to be married, then let your husband go first. After you get divorced, then you can have sex with the other guy.
2007-05-02 12:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Those vows are more than words. You need to seperate from your husband before you do anything. If its that important to you to experiment, you don't need to be in a marriage. Your husband deserves some respect, and has promised you forever; how can you even think about doing this behind his back? Think about how you would feel if you found out he cheated on you. You need to be honest, upfront, and adult and make some big decisions before you hook up.
2007-05-02 12:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're married you should not be having sex with anyone but your husband. Drop your myspace buddy. You are marrried and unless you want to be unmarried (your husband WILL find out), I suggest you think this over throughly.
2007-05-02 12:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sabina 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
NO. Stop talking to him and grow up. Be faithful to your husband. If you feel that you can't be faithful to him, do the guy a favor and leave. Or get counseling.
2007-05-02 12:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by cs_ds_02 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just read your profile - it sounds like you are still 15.
Get a divorce, let your husband have custody, and live happily ever after with your myspace loser - who is probably banging 5 other treacherous wives like you
2007-05-02 12:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
girl if you are married u cant commit adultery...and the temptation needs to get away too u will ruin you r marriage if u sleep with this person besides you r husband...if anything get a divorce an then make that happen
2007-05-02 12:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by BOOBOO 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you love your husband and value your marriage? Leave this other guy alone!!! Concentrate on the man you vowed to be with the rest of your life.
Besides, this other guy is likely not what he seems in cyberspace. Liars abound on the net.
2007-05-02 12:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by TroothBTold 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Close your MySpace account. Push yourself away from the computer. Work on what's broken in your marriage.
2007-05-02 12:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Grow up if you want to be married then be faithful...stop talking to dude on myspace and give your real life husband some lovin'...idiot
2007-05-02 12:19:02 · answer #11 · answered by Cara and Dave 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋