Marriage & Divorce - 2 May 2007

I have yet to see the difference from 30 years ago, yet the people in th legal profession swear things have changed. I see it all the time where the man is beat up in every settlement even when the Wife has all the means to make a great living on her own.

2007-05-02 03:52:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What was your biggest marriage goof? What's the thing that you did which threatened your marriage? Were you able to save your relationship? Were you sorry for what you did? Tell me your story.

2007-05-02 03:51:18 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Grudge 5

What does this eventually lead to?(Lead the woman) how long should a woman take a man sweeping certain things under the rug and not stand up for her...should she stay with a man like this? Why would a man not stand up for his wife..

2007-05-02 03:51:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yeah...I know it is not in the right category....

A man and a friend are playing golf one day at their local golf course. One of the guys is about to chip onto the green when he sees a long funeral procession on the road next to the course. He stops in mid-swing, takes off his golf cap, closes his eyes and bows in prayer.

His friend says, "Wow, that is the most thoughtful and touching thing I have ever seen. You truly are a kind man."

The man then replies, "Yeah, well we were married 35 years."

2007-05-02 03:37:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone been through a mental evaluation for Child custody and if so what can I expect from these test so that I do my best?

2007-05-02 03:34:02 · 13 answers · asked by randall l 1

I am married for 10yrs now. In the ten years he has only worked for 3 the rest of the time he is sleeping or out with friends. We lived overseas for the first 2 yrs of marriage then moved back to the states. He has been abusive both physically and emtionally to me but only when we lived on our own. we now live with my parents and they support us in everything. He is a different person around them but is still very abusive but not as much physically as he is emotianally. Now he is back overseas taking care of his sick mother and wants me to bring the kids and live there. He has given me the choice either to go and live there with him or stay in the states with my family and end everything between us. I know it's a difficult time for him because of his mothers condition and he has said that maybe if she sees the kids it will help ease her pain and suffering. I don't want to deprive her of that and I also don't want to go back to living the way things were before. any advise will help

2007-05-02 03:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ve been married to my husband for 12yrs and my life has been a nightmare and i want to get away from him and find a better life, am 35yrs old and life has never been good, pls help!

2007-05-02 03:19:50 · 8 answers · asked by agatha stevens 1

I married my husband a little over two years ago and the entire time it has been a nightmare. He picks fights over the stupidest things, like if my daughter is skipping down the sidewalk or singing, or if we want to have breakfast and he doesn't he insists that breakfast is a waste of time and money.

I have given and given and worked and changed myself so much I can't recognize myself anymore. I can't be in a relationship where I am the only one trying.

We just spent a week at Disney and he found somthing to flip out about the entire time. I was miserable half the time, and it rubbed off onto all the people we were with. I finally blurted out at the airport that I couldn't do this anymore and that I would be finally for divorce when I got home. All I got was a "I don't care"

My daughter is from a previous relationship and thinks of him as Daddy. She will be heartbroken when she finds out. I don't know how to tell her. My biggest fear is that she will think it is because of her

2007-05-02 03:07:18 · 14 answers · asked by patti_jim_reynolds 3

2007-05-02 03:04:51 · 26 answers · asked by lisa d 1

Would someone explaine please how to get a divorce in NY and how long does it take?
Also, if we have beed married with my wife for almost 10 years - does it mean she automatically will receive 50 % of my SS benefits? Thank you!

2007-05-02 02:54:31 · 2 answers · asked by lostinny4life 1

Does this indicate that my suspicions are correct? Am I being unreasonable in wanting to know the truth? Can a court order be issued to make her get the dna test done?

2007-05-02 02:52:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been thru alot, but we love eachother. He is constantly being pulled in different directions mainly b/c his family begs him to leave me and I want him to stay. I believe he loves me so much, but we have been torn and broken. There has been much deception and cheating on both ends. I have been an angry wife and been mean to him, and in return my once loving husband has turned in to a selfish vendictive man. Why should we stay together, I know. But if two are willing to make it work, who is anyone to advocate our divorce? What I am asking is for suggestions on how things can be better. I am doing so much better with my anger, but he is resisting b/c he is used to the angry me. You the song Cater to you? Listen to the words. Thats the wife I want to be and so much more. But how can we rebuild trust and love and actually create a peacful loving home environment for us? I need to pick up the pieces but I am not sure as to how? He wants to stay and so do I but

2007-05-02 02:50:25 · 16 answers · asked by yougood 2

I am 7 months pregnant and was very much looking forward to natural child birth. I have done it many times before and have even inserted old umbilical cords into my uterus for my unborn babies to feed off of. Yesterday my ob/gyn told me that I am too stank for natural child birth. He says that he would prefer to give me a C section because he cannot stand the smell from natural birth.
He says that the bodily fluids are very disgusting and unsanitary and the thought of seeing them and smelling them turn his stomach. He says that it is easier for him and his staff to just give me a c section because my femail zone is gross and the smell makes him throw up. Is this right?? Should I really have to have a c section because my ob/gyn feels that I am too stank for natural birth??

2007-05-02 02:44:30 · 20 answers · asked by Flushing06 1

am a 26yr old lady i dont av a boy friend av always been dreamin on getting married in life, i dont av any potential man in my life wat do i do

2007-05-02 02:34:50 · 18 answers · asked by liakin 1

Indicate what breed is your favorite and why

2007-05-02 02:16:47 · 18 answers · asked by doglove4u 1

I have been divorced for one year. My cousin has also. We come from a close family and we grew up close. Since our divorces we have spent a lot of time together, just as company nothing more. But as time goes by I feel a very deep love for her. I can't tell what kind it really is I just know I can't stand to be away from her. We have never been intimate and I don't know how she would react to it. I do think our family would be very upset, but I can live without them.

We both can no longer have children so that is not part of the problem. Is it worse than being gay? Is it the same?

2007-05-02 02:12:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im thinking of putting my husband and teenage son up for sale on e-bay un less any one has any better ideas im open to suggestions, D oes any one want to adopt them? help Meeeee..... A Very desperate mother..... illl pay ill wash your car... ill make you a cake.... some one give me ideas

2007-05-02 01:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by robin 3

2007-05-02 01:38:25 · 4 answers · asked by Lively_spirit 3

My son has his first communion this Sunday and I have to do some serious cleaning around here. I've been playing too much on the internet. Help!!!!!!

2007-05-02 01:38:15 · 26 answers · asked by Lily P 3

2007-05-02 01:12:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need some help understanding.and i would like a womans side and a womans advise as to what i can do to work things out email me please i really need some help

2007-05-02 00:56:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have recently discovered that my husband is paying for a online mature dating sight and is talking to other females about having sex and fantasies and such! His profile is a lie his age is off by over 25 years and he has lied about his race. He has on there just looking or maybe more. I could care less if he looks at porn over the internet, movies, or in magazines but engaging in conversation with real women bothers me a great deal. what I want to know is do you think this is just playing games or could it be that he is looking for something on the side?

2007-05-02 00:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by shanessarae 2

I saw my wife's boss was kissing her after they went to the bar. When I confronted her on the same evening she told me: "Yes, I was attracted to him, I needed a friend and soul mate, but I did not cheat on you"
She bought new sexy closes, incl Victoria Secret etc.
Her phone bills got 100's min conversations with him till I discovered them.
It's been on and off between them (if there was anything serious at all)for one year.
She keeps saying I am "the man" of her life when I talk about divorce, but doesn't admit cheating very often she acts nasty and frustrated in our everyday routine.
I had a conversation with that man - he denies any sexual relationship but admits there was attraction and he is very sorry abou this.
Recently, I read one her e-mail to him - at the end she writes "I can't be without you"
When I demanded an explanation - she told me it's just a psyhological game with him kinda teasin.
Remember, he is her boss and about to fire her.
Q: Did she cheat??? I NEED TO KNOW.

2007-05-02 00:09:46 · 28 answers · asked by lostinny4life 1

his name is Arturo L Alvarado his wife's name is Rosalina Reyes

2007-05-02 00:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by ec 1