Marriage & Divorce - 3 April 2007

my daughter is getting married & she is doing a slide show with pictures and music. she does not have a lot and i was going to give her a gift in money. how much do i need to give her? i know she will not want to take it but i will insist on her to do this.

2007-04-03 07:55:03 · 12 answers · asked by mimi27962 1

After a night of drinking and partying we went to bed, fell asleep and In the middle of the night woke up and had the most amazing $ex that i've had in years! And I was half asleep during the whole thing, which made it all the more intense. When finished, I turned over and kissed him, and said "That was amazing _ (name of ex husband here)_!" then I said it again, "Oh __" I woke up half way through the name and nearly fainted, neither of us said anything, just went to bed. The next morning he didn't say anything about it, and I could vaguely remember it happening, until he asked me what was wrong, and I told him I thought I had a really bad nightmare! He smirked, I then knew that it had happened. He was totally calm about it, he only asked me one question "Who do you really want to be with" I answered "YOU" of course, because I do love Him, and My ex and I broke up 2 years ago, and I haven't talked to him in months.

I feel so embarassed. Any advise?

2007-04-03 07:54:17 · 21 answers · asked by UNeverKnow 1

I'm going to get married in 3 mths to a guy I've been in love with for 2 years. I'm Asian and we had a big e'ment in our country and after we came back to the US, things got bad- once he twisted my arm in a public parking lot at night and two weeks after that, he hit me on the shoulder twice, his hand bouncing off and hitting my jaw. I got angry and confronted him and he pushed me back violently.The first time he touched me violently was a year ago. I almost broke up with him then. All was fine until after the engagement when this happened. Again I threatened him and he's being wonderful, but I'm not convinced it won't happen again. He's only 25 (I'm 27) and I wonder if its immaturity.He's an amazing guy otherwise, very warm and loving, sensitive, caring. He loves me a lot. We've had fights over his need to control though. I'm independant and he can be controlling. It drives me nuts and now I'm really worried. I love him very much but don't know if I should marry him. Please help!!

2007-04-03 07:46:54 · 28 answers · asked by star 1

There's this girl who works at a restaurant my husband and I have been going to for four years. She started working there about a year ago, and she's totally trying to steal my man right in front of me. I've talked to my husband and he told me "don't worry". She's not ugly, but she's not the most attractive person. Anyway, she's always sending my husband emails and text messages -- he shows them to me and thinks they are funny. I'm not really worried about him, but what should I do about her? This girl is like 8 years younger than us so she's pretty young. What do you suggest?

2007-04-03 07:46:08 · 27 answers · asked by Jamie T 2

Okay it's been over 3 months now since I found out the affair of my so called husband soon will be my ex This ***** who is married as well, still trying to harass me. Let's see, he hasn't seen or talked to her since last December when he asked her to apologize to my 3 kids,I already called my two cop friends, talk to her employer and she got fired, her husband filled for divorce, I met with her thought it will be my husband that will meet her in Temecula but not, had fun messing her face.
With all the things I've done to ruined her face and her life, she still trying to fight what she thought will be her's,the love of my dear husband. I've changed my number(home and cell),and now calling my kids cell? The police says she's not sick in a head but what is wrong with the picture here??

1) What will you do if this is your case?
2) Will you let your spouse fix his mess even though that you've done all the things to scare her?/

2007-04-03 07:44:00 · 12 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5

me & my bf are in luv with each other for abt 2yrs.earlier that is in the begining of our relationship he was very caring.he still is but nowdays he has changed a lot. earlier he used keep his temper in control.he used to seldom get angry and if when we did fight, we used to make up very soon. but nowdays if he gets anoyed (which happens a lot nowdays, it seem that i irritate him a lot) he never calls to makeup.even when it is his fault 7 i complain he is ready to tell me that i too did something like that 11/2yrs ago to him.it always me who says sorry and makeup.it is i who always call after a fight no matter whos fault it is.on top of that he will not talk to me properly for a day to tell me he is talking to me but is still angry.i have tried to tell him how i feel but he is ready with an answer that how i hurted him 1yr ago on some ocassion.i know he luvs me.but what did i do to change my prince into a monster.any suggestions how can i get my prince back

2007-04-03 07:42:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 07:34:18 · 53 answers · asked by ladybird 3

I am looking for great stories from women who were proposed to, backed out on, and wanted to get even. (Looking for stories/ methods of revenge only, if you have a nice story about a clean break, please answer elsewhere!)
This happened to me and I'm thinking about sharing my story and stories from gals who are hurt just like me and smart enough to make him pay!

2007-04-03 07:33:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am perplexed. We have been together twelve years and just had a son 7 months ago. He just re-did our house and he is finatical about it. I feel like I can't live normally. If I open up the new cabinets wrong it ruins the wood. He doesn't want to hang anything on the new walls. I used a container last night and apparently I used the wrong one and now the refrigerator smells, according to him. He says I do not care about all the work he did and that is just not true. It is like he went nuts on me, he is not the same person at all. He nit picks on me terribly and I can't take it anymore. He fights with me everyday! I can't figure out if he hates me now or is jealous of me with the baby or is he just not happy..
Any suggestions or comments?

2007-04-03 07:31:51 · 28 answers · asked by qpook 3

Everytime i take a shower it take forever to dry my hair!! it's always so wet!! ....... LOL....... (get your head out of the gutters!!!)

2007-04-03 07:31:50 · 14 answers · asked by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4

people will not understand that you are in love because tyey think tyey love you than the person

2007-04-03 07:30:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 07:23:04 · 22 answers · asked by Chris S 1

2007-04-03 07:22:07 · 19 answers · asked by A C 1

I have tried everything I can to get her to come back, but she disregards me like I'm dirt on her shoes. I know she won't come back now. I have no friends at all (due to a life in the military where I moved often and had no chance to form real friendships) and I don't know what to do. I contacted my wife via letter to ask her just to come and talk to me as I have no-one else and it's killing me, but she said she can't help me.

We were together since we were 17 and everything I see and hear in the world has memories of us.

I am close to suicide every day and I am terrified that I will just give up one day soon. Is there anything I can do?

2007-04-03 07:14:12 · 29 answers · asked by fallingdespairhelp 1

My mother in law who was renting moved in with us when we bought our home. During the first few months she made up with her married boyfriend (who went back home to his wife) and whated him to move in with us as well. My husband didnt allow this and now she doesnt talk to us. She does nothing around the house (but she does cook for herself). I hate this woman. I cant decorate my house as I wish because she moves everything and puts up all her old outdated stuff. Give me some ideas on how I can get her to move out since my husband wont put her out.

2007-04-03 07:13:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

the father is absent and i havent been able find him... also, is this a long process?

2007-04-03 07:09:09 · 4 answers · asked by tasha 1

How should I intervene when both think this is normal. I tried to tell he and his mother that it is time to stop but they won't. What should I do now?

2007-04-03 07:08:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my husband have been apart for 2 years and only communicate on chats and emails daily. we have been girlfriend/boyfriend for only 6 months then he got me pregnant, left him and go back home. we saw each other again when i had my baby he came to be with me for a month then he went back to mexico. the thing is, i have known him only for few months, now il go there and settledown to be with him i even give up my career to be with him cause i wanted our child to have his father as well. i do love him and he said he loves me.... but im scared il be on another country which i dont speak the language and knows nobody except him. i need advice.... we might be leaving by this month if everythings fixed

2007-04-03 07:05:18 · 7 answers · asked by Caviar O 1

me and my husband have been apart for 2 years and only communicate on chats and emails daily. we have been girlfriend/boyfriend for only 6 months then he got me pregnant, left him and go back home. we saw each other again when i had my baby he came to be with me for a month then he went back to mexico. the thing is, i have known him only for few months, now il go there and settledown to be with him i even give up my career to be with him cause i wanted our child to have his father as well. i do love him and he said he loves me.... but im scared il be on another country which i dont speak the language and knows nobody except him. i need advice.... we might be leaving by this month is everythings fixed

2007-04-03 07:04:02 · 17 answers · asked by Caviar O 1

When i came home early today . I found my husband trying on panties . Some actually belonged to a freind of mine , There was lots of pretty panties all over our bed . I dont know what to do , I know he likes women only . But I think he may be a little on the sissy side . I have taken all the panties and hid them . I feel like i should make him return my friends panties to her? and tell her why he took them . I feel like he should be Spanked ? should he be forced to wear panties every day , even to work? What do other women think ? what would you do ?

2007-04-03 07:03:08 · 21 answers · asked by lisa s 2

my friend in her 40's just got divorced last year, she is meeting men on the internet and going on dates and sleeping with some of them, she's not a bad person, she was married for 23yrs, I'm just afraid she is going to meet the wrong person or end up with some type of disease, do you think she is going hog wild because she was married for so long?

2007-04-03 07:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by tamilynn 3

2007-04-03 06:48:19 · 21 answers · asked by thelma s 1

I've posted many questions pondering if my relationship with my husband is worth it or not. We've been together for six months, and I'm only 18. He has told me before that he loves me but not enough to work on the marriage. He has also told me he loves me tons and it's enough to work on the marriage. We fight a lot depending on the week, some weeks we don't fight at all. But most times it's over petty crap that is pointless like he should of done the dishes while I was at work instead of leaving them for me when I get home. I know he loves me more than anything but it's so hard. I believe that our relationship is equal so he should meet me halfway (9/10 times he doesn't). For instance I believe housework is 50/50, he believes that I should have a job, (which I am fine with, I love working) but I should also have his supper cooked when he gets home and ALL of the housework done. How do I tell him how I feel without hurting him? How do I show him these things without causing a fight?

2007-04-03 06:43:12 · 35 answers · asked by Amber R 1

Today i was ready to go to the bank and my husband asked me if I added the check up, I said no, I'll do it at the bank he then got so angry and started yelling at me in the car he got so mad and I started crying, He then yelled at me and told me to stop crying that he hates it when people cry. We got home and he told me that when he tells me to do something I should do it right away, he broke the lamp started beating the wall yelling I was so scared that I started shaking, his mom was there too and she started crying and he blamed me for his mom crying, he blamed me for him getting mad because he says that I cry all the time, But I really cant help it when he screams it makes me so sad & scared. Now I feel like all this is my fault I feel horrible for putting up with this but I love him and now I feel like I have no strenght. Im so sad and depressed! Im even taking depression pills because of him & his mom that treat me bad and blame me for everything. I feel horrible!!!

2007-04-03 06:41:49 · 71 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1

My husband wants to live there, but I like trees and water and seasons......

2007-04-03 06:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

repairman. I build those closet space savers. She thinks I'm an attorney. I hate lying to her. I'm so sad.

2007-04-03 06:34:12 · 53 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I just want to know what people think about this age old question. If yes, why? If no, why? If you don't mind, could you please include your age with your answer. I am 22.

2007-04-03 06:29:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it depend on the state they were married in? What if the new marriage involves children? If the new marriage is not legal, does anyone know if the military recognizes it still?
Any info appreciated...............

2007-04-03 06:21:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am not sure what to do
if i should tell my mom?i

2007-04-03 06:08:20 · 13 answers · asked by zigarat w 1

He has two kids, I have 0. We're both celebate until marriage. He wants to wed right away, and I want to wait. I want to have the engagement, experience the joy of planning a wedding, and most important, get to know him better so I'll know I made the right decision! He says I'm being selfish because since we know that we're gonna get married ANYWAY, why not just do it now? So that we can start "doin what married folks do", as well as so that his children will have a mom. I know he's motivated because of those reasons, but I just don't have that same motivation. I love my life as is (quiet and drama free), and I dont feel the need to rush into anything so quickly. He's becoming increasingly impatient with me. Hes a GREAT guy in all other ways, and I dont wanna lose him, but then again, I dont wanna rush either! Am I the selfish one???

2007-04-03 06:04:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous