When i came home early today . I found my husband trying on panties . Some actually belonged to a freind of mine , There was lots of pretty panties all over our bed . I dont know what to do , I know he likes women only . But I think he may be a little on the sissy side . I have taken all the panties and hid them . I feel like i should make him return my friends panties to her? and tell her why he took them . I feel like he should be Spanked ? should he be forced to wear panties every day , even to work? What do other women think ? what would you do ?
2007-04-03 07:03:08 · 21 answers · asked by lisa s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would ask him why he had them on and spank him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-03 16:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by enchantrix 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You would be surprised at the number of men that wear panties.
I don't think there is any harm in your husband wearing panties.
As long as his panty wearing is just between you and him and it is not interfering in your daily lives it is okay.
Giving your husband a spanking could turn him on and lead him to sexualize his panty fetish (wanting to be spanked all the time while wearing panties).
Not a good idea to tell your girlfriend about her panties. You might as well keep them.
I would let him pick out the panties he wants to wear or even go shopping with him to pick some out. It could be fun and adventurous in the bedroom for you!
2007-04-03 07:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
one of my exs was into wearing womens panties and I hated but I came to the conclusion that that's just the way he is and will always be it doesn't mean he's gay...don't worry about your husband but if I were you I would want to know how long he's been doing it and why you are just now finding out about it...you need it figure out how you feel about this. good luck
2007-04-03 07:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has issues & not good ones. First off, what his he doing stealing panties from your friend?? It's not just the panties thing, but what about the morals or stealing. Get him couseling.
2007-04-03 07:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by shameless412 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd find guys trying on women's underwear more common than you think. I read somewhere that 1 in 3 guys have tried on women's underwear.
It seems like not that big of a deal, and he was probably just trying them on. However, its important that he keeps this under control. I've heard stories of people "collecting panties" by stealing them from places they go (friends house, etc) and that can lead to criminal charges.
2007-04-03 07:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by Austin R 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Bring out that side in him. Sp ank him if he needs it. He will probably like the public humiliation of having to return the them to yor friend. Make it part of your thing. You can have fun with it while he does what you want him to do.
2007-04-04 06:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by WOW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cmon this can NOT be a real question. There is something terribly wrong with him if he thinks that men should not only wear panties, but other people's at that! Ewwww......Yes, he may need some counseling, though getting him to admit that will be the real task. Good luck!
2007-04-03 07:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by Keetta 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
bigger question, how do you know some of the panties belonged to your friends?
to each his own
2007-04-04 14:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you should look at getting into couples therapy with a non-judgemental therapist to help you and him deal with these issues.
2007-04-03 07:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by TantraGoddess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys do. It has nothing to do with his masculinity. If he wants to be spanked, go for it. If you are into spanking go for it.
2007-04-03 07:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Bigger question is why is your girlfriend giving your husband her panties?
2007-04-03 07:08:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋