Marriage & Divorce - 30 March 2007

it is a mutual decesion. in INDIA what is the procedure for taking one...INDIA

2007-03-30 23:50:19 · 6 answers · asked by Excellent E 2

2007-03-30 22:44:49 · 4 answers · asked by Smile 2

and couldn't wait to see the sorry s.o.b.'s face when he heard he owed her child support. Why do women do this **** to us? Bring another life into the world so they can get child support? That's really scummy.

2007-03-30 22:24:09 · 3 answers · asked by Q.A. 3

i had a .std. and this married hick from w.va. kept on bothering me .she has.4. kids. and she.s married she was comming on to me all the time i had sex with her right in her home. while her husband was gone i was.19. she was.48. i hated her so i gave her the .std. i had. only to get back at her husband.she said that they never had sex. at all can i get in trouble over giving her it. i couldnt stand her she was no more than a tramp in my thoughts so i gave her the.std. to get back at her this .w.va tramp thought i loved her. no way she.s older than my mother. can i get in trouble over this after all she.s nothing in my thoughts really. but a tramp. i got treated but never gave them her name . i was a missionary . ?

2007-03-30 21:57:04 · 9 answers · asked by matthew v 3

2007-03-30 21:24:07 · 27 answers · asked by jean 1

My friends have many BFs,they will stay with them use his money,then leave him.Is it bcoz we remain with only one person honestly n love him more than life.my friends donot get any problems they still do same things as I told u before.Y does it happen with me only?

2007-03-30 19:13:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep picking a**holes since my divorce...scratch that...since I started dating. Is it possible to change what type of man you attract? I thought being celibate would help attract a different type of man.... IT'S NOT WORKING! Help!!!

2007-03-30 19:01:01 · 12 answers · asked by CottonTail 2

Frustrates me . . . People woo each other, date, fall in love, marry. . . then (not always, but often) complain and make ' jokes ' about marriage being ' hell ' etc. and remain married to that person that they complain about.

I was married for 23 yrs, now peacefully divorced 4 yrs. I support the idea and thought of marriage. Yet, if it's not good anymore, you've done all you can to ' fix ' the marriage and still unhappy...then why not divorce and move on to find peace in your life again ? I don't understand why married people ' joke ' that their spouse is ' terrible ' etc., or that their marriage is ' hell ' as I just read another expressed on this site. The question was " What is ' hell ' ". . . Someone replied " Being married ".

I really don't understand why ones who supposedly love each other say hurtful things of each other and their marriage...even in the guise of a ' joke '.

I really don't understand this. Any insight to understand this ?
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2007-03-30 18:53:00 · 14 answers · asked by onelight 5

U know me no? tulsi N here.they will not allow me to my music classes.they are not understanding that not for their sake atleast for his sake I'll stay faraway from him.yesterday one of his friend smiled at me first time after all these things happened with my love.I dont know for whose sake i am living.I cant share my feelings with anyone.please help me.

2007-03-30 18:32:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont even know where to begin, theres so much on my mind. im so hurt. i dont know what else to do. my hubby has done so many things in our marriage i dont know how much more to take.his lil ex girlfriend emailed me the other day claiming that my hubby has been trying to get at her. it hurts everyday. i dont know who to belive..i think in my eyes our marriage is pretty much over with.. i feel so emotionally detatched. i want to forgive him but i seem to cant anymore.. it stays on my mind more than anything and its buggin to the point where i want to hurt him back. i dont know what else to do. i have a 3wk old child and im staying with him to keep our baby happy. but its getting to the point where im lost in translation. im at an intersection in my life where i dont know where to turn anymore. a divorce costs too much, but im not even connecting anymore. whats wrong with me? whats going on in my marriage i cant seem to fix or why cant he be more honest with me? why does he hide 4rmme?

2007-03-30 18:29:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-30 18:23:21 · 9 answers · asked by Paradiddle 2

She left me after a 17 year marriage fot her coworker 5 months ago. We share our kids every other week. Well It was my week to take them and it was there spring break so I went to my familys. She calls them every night when they are with me. On our way back I stopped and took them rollerskating and she did'nt get to talk to them thaty night. Well she called the sheriff and wants me to be her fuc*ing puppit every time I hav our two kids. She cheated on me and left the family and she had the gambling addiction which bankrupted us and now she is making my life hell. I swear she keeps it up i dont know

2007-03-30 17:39:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you take your wife and kids to that GIANT WHAREHOUSE store...lets just call it WaLLYmart or did you go to the other slightly LESS TRASHY store called TARGEY?

Thats married life. Get used to it!

2007-03-30 17:29:42 · 14 answers · asked by Joe B 2

im 25 my husband of 3 years is 43 dont get me wrong i love him with all my heart, but lately everything about him has been buggin me especially his attitude, i was always chasing him for his love and affection as he is not an affectionate person so he was always rejecting me yet would flirt with all my friends, and now its at the point where I just cant be bothered fighting him for it anymore and i am at the point that i dont want his affection anymore either, i feel that it is taking a toll on our relationship. what should i do i have tryed talking to him but he always has excuses an never wants to talk about it.

2007-03-30 17:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by KYE_81 1

2007-03-30 17:13:49 · 60 answers · asked by dahlia76 1

She is a psycho. I feel sorry for her children. She takes advantage of the welfare system, and gets away with it. I want to report her to child services because her children are abused, mentally. The kids all have different fathers, and it ****** me off. I am afraid that one might wind up dead, because she don't know how to handle them. The COPS won't do nothing, because they don't want to get involved.

2007-03-30 17:09:21 · 15 answers · asked by Rouzer 1

Every few days I have this problem. First I don't have a checking account or bank card. My husband comes home drinking. I know then there will be a "hell night" after he spends his money. He starts on me demanding money this goes on for hours. "I know you have money" I just want to buy a beer I will be back in a little while". I save out less than $50 to get us thru the weekend just because I know the way he is. Finaly I just give in I work 12 hour shifts and need to rest for the long day the next day at work. I work in a hospital and have to work weekends. If you are going to tell me to leave he blocks me from leaving the house. He is not physically abusive and he is a good husband when he is not drunk. He does not think he has a drinking problem. I know he does. I am a nurse and am well aware of the signs of a addictive personality.. I don't want to leave him because this is the only real bad problem we have. Maybe some of you have ideas that I have not thought of yet.

2007-03-30 17:01:11 · 15 answers · asked by Janst 4

2007-03-30 16:58:32 · 26 answers · asked by dithu d 3

If you can pick a percentage, what woul it be? (Only for married couples)

2007-03-30 16:52:23 · 16 answers · asked by nath2g 1

drinking can be a problem but when some one you love is doing it it hurts in the moring thier ine person and at night thier someone else its driving me crazy she says she loves me but at night its different she yells fuss cuss and the whole nine yards even leaves out no where to be found even when she says she wont any more well tonigh made her a liar move on we have a child but loveing her is tearing me a part ive tried but i never know what im coming home to is it worth staying love is one thing but im getting abused when ever she wants the next day blames it on drinking i have a place to go but its not in this state my cousin told me im a fool but he also said he can not make the descison for me i have no family here just her trying to make it work and feeling like a jerk..

2007-03-30 16:33:04 · 9 answers · asked by CJ 2

I really like this man who is recently seperated from his wife ( not yet divorced)..how risky is it to date him? What did you all go through your first year of being seperated from your wife? He is emotionally unstable at times, is that normal considering the trauma of a seperation? I have never been married. Thanks

2007-03-30 15:58:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

t, my only friends are his and all he does is complain and he says I have it made..Thanks

2007-03-30 15:53:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband because he is verbally abusive and now he is telling me he wants me back because he loves me. I don't understand how he can love me and say the things he says to me. Do you think he can change?

2007-03-30 15:44:52 · 26 answers · asked by Paradiddle 2

Teases I don't know about all but my wife thinks it is all fun to get me going then she just shuts down is this normal for women to tease the crap out of there hubby's. This is just cruel most women know that us guys are just horndogs and well love sex so what they seem like to see us sweat and get all horny then it is like sorry I'm tired, or I got a toothache, or headache, it just seems to me that us guys get screwed over.
I love my wife with all my heart but she knows that I would have to be me on my death bed to refuse sex and I think women use that against us men! SO LADIES AND GENTS AM I WRONG?

2007-03-30 15:31:42 · 1 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

My friend does not trust women. He gives me all his paychecks to put into my account so his wife cant take half of it in case of divorce. He first turns his checks into cash and then I put the money into my account so they cant trace were the money went. He also buys houses in my name so if she ever tries to take the house, she will find that its not really his house. He does the same with cars. Now you may think hes taking advantage of me, but i get all the intrest that his money makes and because he buys houses and cars in my name, i have excellent credit and could get a loan for anything. I would not do it otherwise. Now i know he could get into trouble if he gets caught, but can i get in trouble???

2007-03-30 15:22:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-30 15:19:04 · 10 answers · asked by bafsaw17 1

2007-03-30 15:11:15 · 30 answers · asked by jan j 1

is it natural for the amount sex to decrease after you get married?

2007-03-30 15:03:25 · 29 answers · asked by LARRY74 2

I left my own country to move to one where I was happy, and to be with my boyfriend. I left all my friends and family. Since we started living together he has got progressively worse in terms of his moods and temper. He came close to punching me square in the face last night and knocking me out (or worse), yet today he is denying he was going to hit me and is trivialising everything - how was I to know - all I know is his fist was bearing down on me, inches from my face - and he had me pinned to the floor with his other arm.
I don't know what to do. I have a good job, I am 29, but have very few friends or family here. I am scared to leave in case I will be lonely (i know this sounds crazy but loneliness can be worse) - and I have no property and not much in the way of possessions here - everything in our unit is his. I dont want to end up on the streets and I dont want to stay with an abusive man. Any advice would be welcomed. Real answers please..

2007-03-30 15:00:40 · 47 answers · asked by Frankie 4

My husbands X wife says my husband can not have his son for his spring break unless my husband has a note noterized saying he will bring him back to his mom after the week is up...on his divorce papers it says my husband has visitation rights for every other weekend and every other holiday and 3 weeks out of summer so can she stop him from getting his son??

2007-03-30 14:58:53 · 19 answers · asked by country_chick_8292004 1