is it natural for the amount sex to decrease after you get married?
2007-03-30 15:03:25 · 29 answers · asked by LARRY74 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Natural? Not sure!
Typical? Yes! What you have to do is lick her where it counts each and every night. Soon, her body will have a natural craving for what it expects every time she crawls into the sack. NEVER ask for sex. Be VERY generous. Sometimes talk to her in your soothing voice, but don't touch her - she'll come to you. GOOD LUCK! - OOGABOOGA37
2007-03-30 15:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by oogabooga37 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases yes it is normal for sex to drop after marriage.
In most cases it seems the wife gives you more before your
actually married but once the knot is tied it appears at times that the mood is never there. Not to say that us guys don't try hard to get it as much as we can but when the wife puts on the red light you might as well stop cause nothing is going to happen.
2007-03-30 22:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is natural. Think about it, when you were dating and not living together you would have sex and go home. You would have sex cause who knows if you would be over there the next day. When you are married you know you are always going home to the same person in bed, so it will always be there tomorrow.
2007-03-30 22:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately yes. Some people feel like they've done what they had to to get you to marry them so why "keep up the good work"? Sad but true but it doesn't happen to everyone. If this is happening to you, it's better to discuss it now before it gets out of hand and trouble starts.
2007-03-30 22:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by MissLady_0318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's really considered natural.
It's normal to have a healthy sex life and if the amount of sex is decreasing and you have a problem with it, you should seek marriage counseling.
2007-03-30 22:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Esteban D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because when you're not married you want sex because it seems like you can't have it... but when you get married and live in the same house it feels like you already have the person so you don't need to "chase" them for sex.
2007-03-30 22:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sharpie211 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi , and yes it is!! When you were dating it was sex alllllllllll the time but then you said i do and now you don't !!!!! It has something to do with that paper you sign !! I have been married for 5 yrs now and if we have sex once a month we are doin good ! So good luck and if you find away to get it more with out cheatin please let me know !!!!!!
2007-03-30 22:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by mrr09016340 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always we still do it 2 or 3 times a week and sometimes twice a day hehe and we are over 40
2007-03-30 22:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah very normal, when you get married the bride orders this special cake.. and in this cake there is a chemical that kills the sex drive.. stay away from the wedding cake it is dangerous...
2007-03-30 22:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the couple. My husband and I have more sex now then we did before we were married and it's gotten better to. Spice things up and don't lose the spark.
2007-03-30 22:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋