2007-03-30 21:24:07 · 27 answers · asked by jean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My MO depends on whether I'm attracted to him, too!
2007-04-07 15:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by ~RedBird~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be yourself. If you aren't attracted back be pleasent to them,but explain that you aren't looking for a relationship or to become involved with anyone. Honesty is the best policy. Tell them the truth and be friendly, but tell them you aren't interested. If you are married or involved the simplest answer is, " I am flattered, but married or involved with someone". They should take the hint and if not, be harder about them leaving you alone. There is a stalking law.
Isn't is tough to be good looking; if you are young and new to the game, you will learn fast. Good Luck.
2007-04-04 18:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by hazel a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful women start getting attention right in their school time so by the time they turn 25 they are quite used to handle guys in a subtle manner
Use yur experience lady :)
2007-03-31 05:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by funky_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are not attracted to them you should be honest and tell them if you like them as a friend that that is all you want and nothing more. If you don't like them you should still be honest and tell them that it won't work out and for what ever the reasons you think it won't . What i am trying to say is be honest and nice about it,Don't be rude or arrogant it is the best way for all involved. They might even respect you for it .
2007-04-07 23:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by dave l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a compliment!!! You want to treat all men equal and honest. Treat them just as they have treat you. If it made you feel good then say something nice or flattering to make them feel good. Some men are just motivate by beautiful women.
Example 1:
Guy: "Baby, you sure do look good tonight"
Girl : " Why thanks you look nice yourself"
Always, always return the compliment. It increase their self esteem and it doesn't make them feel like a looser. (Keep our men feeling good about themselves- no offense, but it keeps them straight)
Sometimes men aren't trying to hit on you and sometimes they are. You can determine that easily. And from that point you take control if needed.
My advice: Be a lady, be lovable, be nice, be beautiful, and just be you, 'cause no one else can.
2007-04-07 22:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Destiney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handle them with care or you will not have them to handle with at all anymore.If a guy really likes you then you should like them back or tell them you dont care for them.He may be talking to another women as we speak.We are devils and should not be trusted
2007-04-08 00:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handle with extra care to avoid separation and sadness of loss of love.
2007-04-08 02:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Neutral. If you are married, just be yourself but do not cheat your hubby. if you are single/ divorcee, you may consider getting to know the men if you have a good impression of them.
2007-03-31 04:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by TO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty hard cuz sometimes u got2 tell them that u are not attracted 2them without hurtin there feelins.sometimes its probly best jus stay away or avoid them as best u can so they can get the picture.
2007-04-07 12:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go into it thinking you can 'handle' a man in the first place. To thy ownself be true.
2007-04-04 14:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by urban guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋