Marriage & Divorce - 3 April 2007

i always dream my ex husband lately i dont know why? im still care of him and love him..his living with someone else right now because i cant take him for cheating me and so much to pain he gave to me.we have two kids and he doesnt give any child support and never say hi or hello to our kids...i can say i forgave him already but the fact the pain still here...i dont know how heis right now his in america right now and me and kids in other country...thanks

2007-04-03 23:13:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 23:05:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 22:29:38 · 14 answers · asked by don_9310 1

2007-04-03 21:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by flopguru 1

Do man really fall in love in their 30s - And if they do - how different is it from when younger man. What makes them fall in love with a younger woman? Examples?
What makes them fall truly in love with a younger woman

2007-04-03 21:30:29 · 20 answers · asked by priyasham 1

It all began when i clled my saas for the delivery of my first baby(un aware of her motives) we are living in a foreign land. my husband used to leave for work and she used to harass me by abusing me very badly, compelling me to give her son divorce and also made attempts to beat me . As a result i ran away from home to road sides with my 11 days old baby and i returned only when my saas return was confirmed. All her grown up kids (including my husband) and her RELATIVES are favouring their mother and they all think me a bad woman bcos they don't know the truth..
on the other hand my saas is gathering GOLD Jewellaries from my hsband by making demands from time to time---thus we have no savings also.
now its my saas's youngest son 's marriage abd i don't want to go. Please tell me what to do ???

2007-04-03 21:29:44 · 12 answers · asked by saara 1

My husband and i have been married for 20 months,no children.i don't feel like i love him anymore.he has said during fights that he regrets marrying me but later apologised.he rarely helps out around the house unless i fight him about it.we both work long hours.he suggested getting help but we haven't been able to find any.we spend less time together.i suggested counselling but he bluntly refused.i have started individual counselling,but i feel like it's a waste of time cause of his refusal to work with me.should we end things now we're still in our twenties?

2007-04-03 21:16:56 · 15 answers · asked by mallamO 1

2007-04-03 21:08:56 · 20 answers · asked by trouble 1

My man is really mad at me and I do want to get married! we are just broke how do I get to ATL fast? He asked me to learn Italian so havent learned enough.

2007-04-03 20:32:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I quarrelled over small matter. After then, he did not look me up for 2 months already (I'm staying at my mum's place now). I did called him up one month ago, asking him what he actually want. He did not say much and hang up the phone. I start paste thinking guessing during these 2 months did he ever betreat me. What he want now? A divorce? or want me to call him again? I dont know what should I do now. I keep thinking our problem day and night. I couldn't fall asleep. I intend to file a divorce but i scare will hurt my son. How? What can I do now?

2007-04-03 20:02:31 · 11 answers · asked by hbg 1

recently my husband found out that his life long dream of getting into vet school is not going to be a reality. What other jobs can you get with a BS in Animal Science and how can i make him feel better about the situation?

2007-04-03 18:54:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year, I quit my job in the corporate world & went into business with a friend.
My wife was totally cool with this decision, she knew I was unhappy & needed a change. She was very supportive & thought it was right thing to do.
I was really enjoying not being in corporate world & being my own boss.
Then a few weeks ago, I decided on the spur of the moment that it would be cool to pierce my left ear. I went out to the mall & got it done. Then, I walked by a shoe store & threw away my New Balance shoes & got a cool pair of vans slip-ons.
I made the mistake of not telling her about it at first. The new look is causing a lot of friction between us, Am I being selfish or is she being too rigid?? Any thoughts???

2007-04-03 18:43:30 · 22 answers · asked by oklastguy 1

2007-04-03 18:30:10 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 18:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by little one 1

I have a question or two.. I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, and just recently we've established careers.. well he said he did want to get engaged once everything settled.. well lately he's been hiding text messages, and calls from me. He texts right in front of me but NEVER lets me see anything. He says it is a surprise and that I will really like it and that he's getting advice from his best friend on what to do. I keep bothering him about it because it makes me angry but he says "your going to ruin it... or why would i text another girl in front of you?"

On the flip side.. he says is scared that when everything settles down that I won't wanna move in with him but I tell him why wouldn't I after 4 years?

Anyway.. am I paranoid, or is he cheating?

2007-04-03 18:15:06 · 17 answers · asked by jenna d 1

Why would a 50 year divorced male old get involved with a 23 year old work collegue, when he has children living at home?

2007-04-03 18:07:21 · 15 answers · asked by Liz G 2

I first fell in love with my husband when I was sixteen. I was visiting the States during a holiday, and we had a crazy summer romance. After he had left for college and I had gone home to France, I found that I was pregnant. I had an abortion and never told him. We lost touch over the years, but a few months ago he came to find me again. We are now married and trying to have a baby.

We love each other and we're so happy. Everything should be perfect. But I know he hates abortion and it would kill him to find out what I did. I don't want him to hate me. I can't sleep because I killed Clara, and I'm terrified that something bad could happen to our baby. Should I tell him what I did or just pray he never finds out?

2007-04-03 17:58:51 · 34 answers · asked by pyretic_pixie 2

What would be some reasons for a guy not to be ready for marriage?

2007-04-03 17:51:12 · 15 answers · asked by rkopsco1030 1

we have been married for five years and have been together for about 11. we had some differences in the past which caused both of us to go astray. now that thing s have calmed down a little bit we decided to give it one last try. it's been 6 months now and we both have been 100 % faithful but now I am having second thoughts about staying in this relationship. i dont want to seek the attention of anybody else but I am still unhappy. even though i can forgive what she done I don't think I want to continue to pursue this marriage. I know I still love her but I want to be by myself. We have three children and I plan on taking care of them one way or another. what do you guys think I should do?

2007-04-03 17:42:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We will be going to her grandparnets anniversary from 2 to 4 them we booked a hotel. I want to do something great besides just diner and sex. Hey its 10 years!!!

2007-04-03 17:41:30 · 7 answers · asked by doughboy0022000 2

2007-04-03 17:36:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

In today's fast living and materialistic world it is hard to find a committing and long lasting relationship. What kind of woman believes in old value like building a family and future together and have a life long relationship. Where can I find?

2007-04-03 17:31:48 · 13 answers · asked by Ronaldini E 1

at times he gets so busy with his kids aging from 16 to 42 years old.....4 girls an 1 boy. He makes good money as a civil engineer if he travels by contract jobs. alot of his money is spent on the children for cars, rent, telephones, etc. Is he worth it?

2007-04-03 17:13:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

exchanging nude pics with someone on the net... she even sent some of me...I am totally freaked and pissed...what should i do???

2007-04-03 16:52:25 · 52 answers · asked by donnie b 2

Did others try to convince you that "he's not the type to cheat" or "You're just paranoid" only to find out that your gut instinct was correct?

2007-04-03 16:47:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been having an affair with a guy for 6 months. We work together and keep it very professional at work. We're both married and I'm worried it will become more than just sex for him. When we meet up we have a lot in common and enjoy our time together. For me it's just sex but do you think he'll develop feelings?

2007-04-03 16:39:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

think that a boy love a girl for 3 years and wants to marry with her and the girl is 4 years older.

2007-04-03 16:29:16 · 22 answers · asked by ali m 2

Okay, yes I know it's oh so biblical, but is it just that way because it makes it easier on you? I mean, instead of having to listen to your wife or finding a compromise the husband can say "No. Last word."

I was raised in a Christian enviroment. The whole the husband is the head of the household still exists. My sister in law does everything my brother wants and would never disagree with him on anything because she is his wife and therefore must not even when what he is saying or doing is absolutely wrong. I can't wrap my mind around it except that it's just easier than compromising and working together because if that fails or if they don't bother the husband can just get the final word in as the head of the household. Am I right?

Clearly, I don't agree with this sort of mentality or the gender bias that it requires, but I'm looking for some sort of rational to this. Faith, stereotypes, prejudice of women ect. are not reason. What is your reasoning?

2007-04-03 16:21:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My neighbor is a single female living alone. She is always asking my husband to do house work for her. (MANLY things)! She hardly ever comes over to talk to him when I'm home, only when I am at work!! My husband ALWAYS tells me when she has been there!! Could she just be pretending to be my friend to get closer to him?? (She was fired from her last job for having an affair with her boss - who is married!!)

2007-04-03 16:20:04 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-04-03 16:07:59 · 10 answers · asked by kasper k 1