Marriage & Divorce - 4 April 2007

i'm married to my love after so much of pressure and i am staying with his family i was feeling he started neglecting and not loving because he started abusing me infront of his family members he was not taking me out we dint celebrate our honeymoon so naturally i turned towards a guy and got a baby from him now my hubby love doesnot know this child is not his and he is really loving the child but same attitude continuing with me should i have to break the relationship or i should keep it for my babys sake

2007-04-04 23:52:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-04 23:45:44 · 22 answers · asked by 123 4 1

My ex was very controlling, smothering, he always accused me of things, questioning, jealous, and short tempered. When I had an issue he would be so impatient and get angry. Then when he told his friends or family he would only focus on my issues and claim it's all me . I ended disliking him because I couldnt talk to him as a friend or companion. It was the worst experience of my life. I felt trapped and abused.

2007-04-04 22:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by Smile 2

My husband wants to stay wit his parents forever. He has a younger sis( 20 yr old) but he said it's his responsibility to take care of his parents. I told him we can move out close to them so he can help them any way he wants. He answered" I'll never leave my parents".THey both working dad 55 and mom 46. I understand he's the only son but seriously I have no privacy. I want to be a mother and a wife but living wit his familyI feel we will never grow up. He always listen to watever his family said and want me to do the same thing. He paid off his dad's care, bought the mobile home, car insurance and take them to shopping. Ask for my help when he thinks his money is running out. I'm a stay at home mom with my 6 month daughter, I help them wit my foodstamp and sometimes help him wit my cash. I want to work again but wouldn't dare to leave her to someone else. My family is 6 hrs driving away.

2007-04-04 21:13:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lilly 1

ok lately my husband hasnt been spending any time with me. he stays out all night every night with his friends... and just a few minutes ago i got on the computer and was looking for a files on my computer and i found porn... tons of porn hes not home yet and its 12:30am here i dont know what to do should i say something or just prretend i didnt see any of this if i should confront him what the hell am i suppose to say??? should i ask him to not look at porn??? ive heard a lot of men watch porn should i just let this go or what???

2007-04-04 20:52:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

cooking,gardening,i pay all the bills,BUT we do have a low mortage or nearly own our house,and he surfs on the net,watches tv and also goes on holidays with his pals ,he also doesnt get on with my family,but yet he is a good person underneath it all,what should i do.

2007-04-04 20:42:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-04 20:35:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really love my husband and realized lately that for sure I will never cheat.

He is very difficult to deal with at times (please no 'just go talk to him' lines), but at other times can be the most understanding (although those times sortof feel like a trap).

I get depressed very easily and have no girlfriends or family where I live. Is it so totally wrong to go out with guy friends for dinner, or just to talk? I get along so much better with guys. He's very conservative and jealous, so I can't tell him, but I know that I nothing else is going on.

I just want to feel connected to people (real people, not online).

2007-04-04 20:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by mis_anona 2

I would really like to have a relationship with him and him with me. I'm 46 and he's 60 so it's not like we're kids.

2007-04-04 20:19:48 · 11 answers · asked by LJ 3

My husband and I fight ALL the time because of one of his exes. I'm tired of it, and I want to file for divorce. Any suggestions on the steps I take to do it? And does it cost money? If so how much??

2007-04-04 20:15:30 · 10 answers · asked by Jenn J 1

our marriage was love marriage, six years back, he is going U.S. for long period from office. does't want me to come along. fight with me everyday on small things. should i go for divorce. I am worried about my doughter. don't want to do unjustice to her. she is too small to understand all these. may be he wanted to marry someone (who is earning) in U.S. to settle down. I am not working , he is earning good and fight me for money. never give me money for myself. I am very upset what should i do? I am fed up from all these

2007-04-04 20:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by nicky 1

...honestly, there are a few good men like me (ahem) one of my friends is dating a single mum and when I ask him the reason, he says "she is LESS likely to dump him" so he's in a more, secure position. The only thing he grumbles well these women are a tad bit POSSESSIVE especially when they don't earn that well.

2007-04-04 20:14:02 · 11 answers · asked by dictator_cool 2

This couple have been talking for over a year. They have been knowing each other for 30 years. This couple have never had sex. After 30 years they both have families and good spouses. The fire is burning so deep with these two. Like the song kem sings they cannot stop loving and wanting each other.

2007-04-04 20:03:59 · 5 answers · asked by leeandaundrea1978 2

About 15 years ago when I was living in Florida, I got a Florida no-fault divorce, since that time I have paid all the child support to my ex wife. We are for the most part civil towards each other however I would like to know what are my rights. My daughter is now 21 but because she has a learning disability she is uncapable of making a major decision. We all now live on Long Island in New York. I was under the impression that my ex wife has to get my permission for anything that effects my daughters well being such as surgeries, doctor visits. I am not positive but I thing that my ex-wife is her legal guardian. Do I still have any rights as being her blood father if this is the case. My ex wife is a good Mother and she does look out for my daughter, I just dont like the fact that I am not involved in any important decisions. I love my daughter more than anything else. Any help or suggestions on these matters will be greatly appreciated.

2007-04-04 19:49:11 · 6 answers · asked by paul s 4

Most of my feeling for my husband have gone. When we were dating I love you to death then things turn bad in the end but we got married bcus I was pregnant. I hope we would start over again but our marriage made me miserable. He loves his family more than me but I wouldn't mind if we live separately. I have no privacy wit his family, his parents and younger sis still take control of him, they even tried to control me too but I showed them I didn't like it. Our sex life make me feel I'm a sex machine. He doesn't want to touch me but ask me to make you satisfy. Last time, he came to bedroom suddenly and pulled my pants down. I promised myself not to let him touch me again. I'm at my mom's wit my 6 months daughter, I told him everything, he afraid that I won;t take his daughter back but I told him, I promised to bring her back then I will but you have to promise me never touch me again" he promised. I took off once but can't stand seeing them apart (husband and daughter)
thanks

2007-04-04 19:46:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my case the dead beat father left me as soon as he found out I was having a baby. It was a 10 month relationship & we had talked about having children. He lied to everyone including me & has never seen his own child & never wants too. I have also worked & own my home, car ect. I have no debts. Last year however I was made redundant & I am now studying. He is now married with another child & is living a very good life. This is not about the good parents that pay for their children & love them this is about teaching the bad parents a lesson. My daugther will never know her father because he is not interested at all. I have been given full custody. And he gets away with not paying because all assets are in his wifes name. He has a child & should be made to contribute to her life, if not by love then by money.

2007-04-04 19:42:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started a new job a couple of weeks ago. An employee named Tammy started talking to me: At first I thought this was great I made a friend already. Well, to make a long story short. She started telling me about her life, that she is living with a guy named Mark. and she found out he is still talking to his ex-wife(she said alot of nasty things about this lady). The more I listened the more upset I became, when I realized that I knew Mark and his ex-wife. The more I listened to her, the more upset I became. I knew she was the one that caused the"ex" so much grief. I also knew something that she didn't....Mark was still seeing his Ex-wife. I didn't say anthing to her, I
just walked out....Now my delema, Mark's ex-wife was recently told she has a life-threating condition and I don't want to upset her. But i feel she needs to know. He has never left her alone since the split. And she thinks they are trying to work things out. She has no idea about Tammy....Tell her or Not?

2007-04-04 19:40:16 · 6 answers · asked by wildfire 1

My wife divorced me because after I discovered I had bisexual feelings, she could no longer feel attracted to me. I know what I want, and that is a wonderful woman who I can have a family with. I did not want a divorce. My attractions to some men are purely physical, and are not enough to make me want to be with them. A meaningful relationship with a women is much more important to me. My wife knew I would never cheat on her, yet still couldn't reconcile feeling unattracted to me because of my same-sex attractions. Am I doomed to be alone now?

2007-04-04 19:33:25 · 15 answers · asked by Joito21 1

i love a guy and we r in 2 different countries, we r gona get married soon. the problem is that almost 90% of the times i call him, he doesnt reply coz he is with his friends and doesnt want to talk to me in front of them coz we r still not official (this is our tradition in our country). but even after he is alone he doesnt call me back and it makes me feel hurt. we do chat alot. also sometimes he doesnt reply back to my sms msgs. i know he loves me but this thing hurts me when it happens. i told him about it and he said he wont do it again, but still he does. he has improved in this thing but not alot.

what should i do? i am sure he loves me and we r planning for our marriage. should i keep on insisting on this issue or is it gonna end when we get married?

2007-04-04 19:29:51 · 3 answers · asked by A 1

is windows live only for personal ads?

2007-04-04 19:11:47 · 21 answers · asked by kah 1

This is a little embarassing, but my husband is working out of town, and all i can think about is him coming home and me doing him a "Favor". I want to text him a message letting him know that im looking forward to that, but i want to say it in a sexy way that will turn him on, and maybe even surprise him a little.
I must be losing my creativity...HELP

2007-04-04 19:06:25 · 22 answers · asked by Kimberly G 2

2007-04-04 19:04:34 · 26 answers · asked by A Real Fan 2

Meaning, did you cheat emotionally with someone while you were married? For how long? How did it turn out

2007-04-04 19:03:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is great but i dont love him i dont know if i ever did, is it right to stay with someone because they are a good person, or because your scared that you wont find someone that will love you the same? I feel like giving up.

2007-04-04 18:54:45 · 16 answers · asked by sabrina 1

2007-04-04 18:51:50 · 5 answers · asked by sexy 1

2007-04-04 18:50:51 · 10 answers · asked by sexy 1

we have 2 children ...17 and 13 and in a few years they will be gone.

2007-04-04 18:28:50 · 14 answers · asked by luv.is.pain 2

people are always saying cheating is wrong and stop and they wouldn't do it and all that. well what I want to know is, why does it happen so much. If everyone had as many morals in actual life as they do in talk then every one's relationship would be fine

2007-04-04 18:20:49 · 28 answers · asked by june-bug54 2

Every so often, I get asked the question........."do you like being married?"

I always answer....yes! Oh, Yeah! You bet! Sure, It's Great! You should get married too!

I always think......hahaha another sucker!

I am happily married and wouldn't change my life if I could, but sometimes, (for everyone I know) marriage stinks!

Does every married couple do this to singles? Is there a reason behind it?

I also promote having kids to people, am I mean?

2007-04-04 18:19:24 · 9 answers · asked by GreekQT 4

I dont see any particular problem with a 39 year old man with a great personality spending some time with younger friends. He has been married for several years, and has two children and a job. His friends that are younger, work with him. It is innocent fun for them to get a kick out of hanging out with one another, but his wife throws a fit. She has no right seeing how her ONLY friend is much younger than her. It is unfair and unjust. She thinks the worst of her husband when he deserves the very best. She is completely out of line when she gets angry that he wants to spend some time away from her. It is unhealthy in a relationship to be with one person all the time. A little innocent fun is what keeps a busy man sane throughout the work week. Am i crazy or is she smothering him and being unfair?

2007-04-04 17:53:47 · 31 answers · asked by carry_needs_you 1