Marriage & Divorce - 8 April 2007

2007-04-08 23:58:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

but i have a feeling that partly he's using me, financially.

2007-04-08 22:32:28 · 44 answers · asked by yel 1

2007-04-08 22:28:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 23 and will get married in 13 days time for god sake is it too early for me??!!!

2007-04-08 22:21:40 · 24 answers · asked by gigabuts 1

Hi, I m recenlty married and my wife gives a psychic behavior.Though ours was aranged marriage but it's she who first met with me first and we decided to go ahead. About her psychic behaviour she closes her eyes in bedroom and doesn't show any interest in physical relations and doesn't show any attachment for me. Before marriage, i felt that there is something wrong(bcz of less communication from her side) but could not conclude anything because we had met only 2 times before the marriage was fixed and I got to move to Australia. Till the time, marriage was fixed things were normal and now right after 1 month of marriage.... things have become destastrous. I didn't had word with her since 1 month and 2 months have been passed since our marriage. Her family is full-fledged under her control. I wonder how a newly married girl can have zero sentiments for her husband. There could have been only 2 possibilities -first she has mental problm and second she has some affair. somn pls. suggst

2007-04-08 21:20:17 · 14 answers · asked by hitemeha2 m 1

I got married 3.5 yrs. before, I found my wife very hyper & hash to everyone
In my family. So many times I tried to make her understand but she refuses to listen to me
As her stubborn nature. I’m a social businessman but she never understands my problems
& difficulties.Becase of her this aggressiveness I lost my newly born baby.
Now she blames on me for this accident every time. After this I underwent to depression.
But still her behavior is same. (After 2 months of my marriage we found she is suffering from psoriasis so I took her to Doc.he told us the treatment will start after pregnancy
Then after all these I took her to Doctor He said while the course of medi. We should not try for baby, but even she does not take the medicines)
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Once I tried to tell my in-laws about my problem but they
Again blamed me for these all.
These all happened 2 yrs. back, after these all her mother got sick seriously (she loves her widow mother lie anything)
She stayed couple of months with her. When she came back again she is behaving same.
Kindly help me How to solve this problem as I can't discuss this with my mother-in-law & other relations.

2007-04-08 20:55:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-08 20:33:02 · 18 answers · asked by AmBroSia 1

i am just curious about this just because i think it's kind of funny..
ok when my x husband is over to visit his daughter and were talking he will touch my hand or my leg while he is talking, like "hey" (touch hand) "whats the blah blah blah".
if he knows i loathe his very existance why would he do that?

2007-04-08 19:51:54 · 13 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

why doesn't my soon to be x-husband stop lying to me! he has been lying to me since november about why he cheated on me. i know he is still seeing her and he just tells me some BS lie. "we put or relationship on hold till the divorce paper work is done" he says.
what a crock! he's all clean cut, shave chest, wears cologne, new clothes.
why cant he just tell me the truth! AHHH!
is this some sort of game or what... why wont he stop lying?

2007-04-08 19:38:41 · 25 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

Me and my husband quarreled last week.I told my parents about this. They told they will solve this. So, they called my husband 2 days before and they tried to solved it. I told them that my husband never gives times to me. He is always busy with something or the other. He does not take care of me and i told my parents that i need some time to think over this matter, but yesterday they threathened me. My father told me that i should go back and live with my husband otherwise my father will kill himself and mother is also supporting my husband only. They told me to give him a chance. so i went back yesterday, but he has not changed. he is the same as before. so please advice me on this issue. I want to be a good mother. so i went back to my husband's house. please help me??? I promised my parents that i will never fight with my husband nor try to kill myself which i had done before. I cannot live like this. I do not understand how to handle it. Please help??? Give me some good suggestion

2007-04-08 19:18:46 · 11 answers · asked by kashifunnisa k 1

And at what age did you get married?

2007-04-08 19:18:27 · 16 answers · asked by Virginia 3

Beaver, sausage, come on people! Get a life! This stuff was funny up to about senior year of high school at the latest!

2007-04-08 19:17:49 · 15 answers · asked by cs_ds_02 3

2007-04-08 19:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Yvonne Cesaro 6

my bf and i have been together for 2.5 years now and have a great relationship. it started out a little rocky only b/c i was super clingy and used to moving in w/a guy right away (this is why i divorced twice). we've talked about moving in together and someday marrying. i have 3 little girls that i have part-time that he loves very much. we always go out and do things together. we're both 28 and done with college. he's never lived with anyone let alone someone with kids but has told me before it's what he wants-he just has to get used to it.

we've looked at rings on the internet for me and for my birthday he bought me a 1500.00 diamond necklace. he also just gave me the key to his house.

he tells me i'm his best friend and i'm always the first person he tells his problems to or asks for advice from. he just told me on fri that he's in love with me and he made the decision a long time ago that i'm the one he wants.

is there a marriage in the near future or not for a while?

2007-04-08 19:03:44 · 6 answers · asked by prncessang228 7

I'm 27 and have been married for 3 years. We both have very well paid jobs and would be able to give any child the best of everything. Problem is I don't like children, never have never will and my husband knew that from the start. He told me he was more than willing to give up having children if it meant spending the rest of his life with me. We’ve taken every precaution possible short of doing something permanent which my doctor said was out of the question given my age and the fact that I haven’t had children, to make sure we don't get pregnant but here I am 6 weeks pregnant. I don't want this baby. It’s going to ruin everything, all my hopes and dreams for the future going down the drain. I feel like I'm being punished. He told me that me aborting would be the one thing he would never be able to get past since he considers this baby a miracle given that it was conceived against all odds. What happened to for better or worse? My parents and my best friend who's been trying to conceive for the last 5 years think I'm being incredibly selfish, but they're not the ones who'll have to deal with a screaming baby when it arrives. Adoption is out of the question because my husband refuses to let someone else raise his child when he’s perfectly capable of doing so himself. Having the baby, divorcing him and letting him raise it is out of the question for me because of the way everyone including my friends and family will look at me for abandoning my child when I never wanted it in the first place. Why can't anyone accept my decision? Why should I have to lose everything because of a baby I never wanted in the first place?

2007-04-08 18:51:41 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do women want out of a marriage?

2007-04-08 18:49:06 · 14 answers · asked by John or jedi 1

We were together for 5 years, she started ignoring me, 2 years ago, for someone else, and didn't tell me anything about his new bf. She started affair with new bf. For him, she ignore me, and also don't want to talk me, and didn't want to see my face. She never told me about her new bf. But Now she come back to me, by saying that she was with him, just as a good friend, But her friends are saying that they are in love. Now she wants to with me. What should I have to do. I am really guilt of myself that I have trust her, She was my first love, How did she cheat with me, that type of game.

2007-04-08 18:10:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help my bezzie is getting hitched!!!

2007-04-08 18:04:19 · 7 answers · asked by charlotte m 2

I am 80 years old. I have been unhappily married for 62 years. Is it too late to get a divorce? Is there really no point?

2007-04-08 17:53:56 · 7 answers · asked by M.G.G. 2

I don't have a job, I am eight months pregnant, I can't get a job. I let my husband pay ties we have not been blessed by it. The other people in church that have moeny that could help us out with our job situation won't yet I do not blame them because my husband is a chronic complainer and I think his complaining has brought a curse upon our family. He thinks everyone else is the problem and even if he might be educated no one would hire him because he is unproffessional in his attitude. The church is my only outlet away from him, but it reflects badly on me and my family when my husband act like a jerk in front of other church members. Yet he says he prays and he does everything he can, but if he really acted like he really should toward his family and others people in church we could have gotten some help. I think the reason we have not been blessed is his attitude. But what can I do about it when he affects the whole family and he is suposed to be the spiritual head?

2007-04-08 17:48:18 · 15 answers · asked by Vivianna 4

I am a stay at home mom who has not worked outside the home since our three children were born. My marriage is on the rocks and my husband has become increasingly verbally abusive and is threatening me w/ finances as a way to control me. I feel divorce at this time is my only option. We are currently seperated and have sought no legal counsel up to this point. However, with everyday that goes by he is more controlling over finances and I don't feel safe in the house we own together. He acts like he can barge in at any given time noon or night as he sees fit raising all kinds of hell! How do I go about moving my children and myself out of the house and to a place I could afford after the divorce since I have no means of income not controlled by him? He has a very sucesssful company but I am not involved with it in the least.

2007-04-08 17:46:52 · 3 answers · asked by wwjdintd 2

I would like to hear from men and women who are or had been married to a person who had or appeared to have had Histrionic Personality Disorder. Even if you have not been married to such a person, but know someone like that, I would like to hear your observations.

2007-04-08 17:45:39 · 2 answers · asked by krsh28 2

that when it's over,it means over. His the one that had an affair with a married woman, and yes his getting what he supposed to be getting from home (his not that good) He was the one that told that his having a deep feelings for this woman,so with all my blessing and my kids the love that we have for him dissappear. And when we let him go and yes divorce is in the process,that's when he said that his feelings for this married woman was only Infatuation??I forgive him with his first affair because we didn't have kids then, but second affair can not justify his excuse...........

p.s.
Yes i was a devoted wife, never complain about anything,and always there for him........

2007-04-08 17:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5

2007-04-08 17:30:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it all my fault that i picked the wrong person to marry? i really loved him and he no longer loves me. we have a newborn together. he cheated and abandoned me at 7 months pregnant for a 17yr old high school girl. now hes is back to get visitation to his child.
im losing everything. i lost him, im losing time with my child, i lost tons of money and some friends due to our divorce.
i don't understand karma, i havent done anything wrong to deserve this did i just marry the devil?

2007-04-08 17:09:06 · 29 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

i met a guy...we're dating for almost 5 months...i found him interesting...he's smart...the thing i really like for a guy.... i fall in love with him...so he is...when everything between us was turning out so great..he admitted that he was married with one child...they're not together...since they did not live up as a couple cuz the girl left her after getting married to him... but still they have communications...my guy was planning to get divorce with her...cuz he thinks everything between them does not work out and he wanted to work it out with me.... i love him so much....i dont want to lose him... but he's married... probably he loves her coz they been to a relationship for so long... but i can feel he loves me too... should i wait until he's clean..or should i forget him and move on?.. i was really kind of disappointed with him coz i made plans of getting marry with him.... unfortunately he was already married with out me knowing i was so stupid...i jz dont knw till wen i cn w8

2007-04-08 16:51:10 · 26 answers · asked by crazy4bess 1

I am a stay at home mom so my husband is the only one that works. He has to ok everything I buy, but yet he spends money on whatever he wants and says it's ok because he makes all the money.I don't think it's fair but he doesn't care. Anyone have any advice?

2007-04-08 16:42:29 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

do i tell her

2007-04-08 16:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

how would you deal with it in a mature way?

2007-04-08 16:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by shakti 1

I would ask him, but he is a very traditionalman, and would not have It.......

He tells me all the tiome that he wants me to be his wife and wantsd me to have his children, but he wont take the next step of asking me. its not money, we have enough. I ask him why he hasn't, but he jiust laughs me of and makes a joke about me being clucky etc. We hav ebeen together on and of for 9 years, and Im getting a little tired of waiting. What do I do? I couldn't be a more loving and well behaived g/f

2007-04-08 16:28:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous