Marriage & Divorce - 12 April 2007

Guyz do you think cheaters can stop/change or is it a kind of disease. Am asking these cuz i still love her and i would very much like my daughter to grow up in a family of both father and mother. Even though am still hurting something in me tells me thats she can change and maybe still live together as wife and husband. Maybe am confused, maybe i need time, i really i am in a mess, life is no longer the way it was. But why did it have to happen when i had so much plan for both of us. Maybe the devil didn't want us living together. Should i give her a third time chance, for the sake of the feelings and the baby. Can love feelings over betrayal. Will she ever respect me again???????????

2007-04-12 23:52:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi

My parner (girlfriend) and I are splitting up and we have a young baby (who i look after as a full time dad). She wants to leave the house (which i have put most of my savings in) but doesn't want me to have it...she wants me out of her life so to speak. I myself want to be living near my son so want the house etc. Can she force the sale of the house???? without my agreement. we are both on the mortage.

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2007-04-12 23:19:29 · 17 answers · asked by mr g 1

my husband once said he would forgive me if I ever cheated because of the things he's done wrong in past relationships. my friend (his friend's wife) said he's fibbing and that he'd go crazy if something like that happened. why would he say that?

2007-04-12 22:07:02 · 8 answers · asked by Kisses 2

They loved each other from past 4 years.They can't live without each other.But the girl can't oppose her family,they have told her that they would die if,she does. What should my friend do now?

2007-04-12 22:02:13 · 14 answers · asked by Abhishek 2

The groom is not the father of her baby and they both don't live in Georgia. Is this underage law just for Georgia residents or can they actually go there and do this. Would he have to be the father of the child.

2007-04-12 21:10:16 · 11 answers · asked by the_jerk23 1

ok well my parents are divorced and my dad has a new wife and she is going to be pregnant. my mom has me and my 2 other brothers, but my older brother does not go to my dads house. now, to the question. my mom thinks that now that my dad it going to have a new child my dad will forget us, so she is mad at my dads wife for that. now one day they both got into an argument and we all were watching and my mom got mad that we didnt stick up for her, much less anybody in the arguement. so she tells me to curse out my dads new wife. now the question is, should i do it? i mean, it was their argument, and she is a really nice person and im the type of person that does not like to hurt anybody, but i also listen to my mom. and when i said no i will not do that she got mad and hit me and to me that i am going to tell her. should i? i dont know what to do!!! and if you have an answer then can you at least write why?? thanks it is sooo appreciated.

2007-04-12 21:06:23 · 18 answers · asked by johnnyd0513 2

when i started with him i was very much in love now i feel nothing for him, after i found out that he was having an affair with another woman, it hurt me so bad, i decided live him but i coudnt because of my son, although we did not wed in church like others do people told me that because im a christian i cant live him, i told them that we didnt marry in church but they said still im his wife since we have lived together for 9 yrs. so i decided to stay, but the problem i feel no love, im trying to lern to love him again but still nothing seems to work

2007-04-12 21:00:53 · 4 answers · asked by lonely girl 1

2007-04-12 20:59:23 · 30 answers · asked by deepend 4

2007-04-12 20:54:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been with my second husband for 5 years now & we often lay in bed & tell each other about our past sexual experiences. my husband is always fascinated by one particular story of mine that was very surreal & out of the ordinary involving me & total stranger(no details,its too naughty!!) & this really turns him on but if i ever mentioned my sexual past with my 1st husband he would go ballistic.
are you & your partners open about your pasts??

2007-04-12 20:37:09 · 27 answers · asked by debbie b 2

I found out my husband was cheating on me recently. It wasn't physical cheating, but emotional. Does it make it less "evil" (for lack of a better word)? Is it easier to forgive him for emotional cheating that physical?

2007-04-12 20:30:38 · 23 answers · asked by J 3

When our relationship turned serious and we were at the point of talking about marriage, my husband told me about his bad break up with his last serious girlfriend. He said they got in a fight and she had hit him, so he left her. Without any reason to doubt him, I said "OK" and haven't thought about it until recently. We've been married for six months now and his parents mentioned a battery ticket and him being arrested, none of which I knew about. It turns out that he was arrested for abusing her, not the other way around. I came from a very physically, and sexually, abusive childhood and this shocked and scared me. The fact is he lied to me about something I consider to be very important. Should I confront him? Do I have the right to be upset about something that happened in a past relationship? Why would he lie about something like that?

2007-04-12 20:09:59 · 18 answers · asked by J 3

People around me say he is smiley, charming, he respect people, he loves helping every one
And so on .of course this is who I am,
But I want also to be

a person who punish any one if he/she deserve.
a person who is sometimes very very cruel.
a person dare to say NO for even yes’s.
a person who sometimes doesn’t care abut any one
and so on

So can any one HELP me to develop multiple personality to easily switch between me and the cruel one

2007-04-12 20:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by yonas t 1

i had a full historectomy and now i don't have the feeling to have sex with my husband and it is really make us fight please help

2007-04-12 19:57:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just get frustrated most times expecially knowing what you missing plus the embarassment.

2007-04-12 19:04:03 · 8 answers · asked by lovely 2

2007-04-12 17:54:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

that you never wanted another person so bad you went for it, even if you are married. Live a little life is short take precautions and go for it.

2007-04-12 17:51:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is one suspension away from expulsion. We got him a new quad for Christmas, two years ago, and he flunked 7th. grade twice! I know what really needs to be done, but the Do-Gooders of the world would have me put away. Help!!!!!!

2007-04-12 17:50:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wont to no how long it takes to become a lawyer nd what unies and if you have to go to tafe i would like to know what pathes i should take to become a saliseter. I would like to be a saliseter in family law becaouse of past complications in my own family.

2007-04-12 17:45:35 · 7 answers · asked by Crystal_01 1

We seem to get along better now than we had, but i've moved quite a distance away in recent months to find better employment opportunities and her job will keep her where she's living now.

2007-04-12 17:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubsand has been cheating online (through email, AIM and most recently through our shared MySpace, which is how I found out) with a woman friend of his from his hometown. He's currently in Iraq and am not sure if I should confront him through email, wait until he calls, or wait five months until he comes home. I have already confronted the "other woman" and she denied it at first, then told me it was all "just a joke." Well, I'm not laughing. How should I confront my husband? And is there anything else I should say to the "other woman" other than it needs to stop and I don't want her to contact my husband ever again?

2007-04-12 17:15:54 · 23 answers · asked by J 3

My current wife and I got married, 5 years ago. She's 16
years younger than I. I'm 52. She's 34.
When we we first together, everything was pretty good between us as far as our sex life.
After a few months, my sex drive started dropping due to
health problems and stress at work. The health issues
are not going to get much better, as I have degenerative disc disease in my back.
My wife's sex drive has kept increasing. I've read that women don't reach their sexual peak until age 40 or so.
I know our lack of sexual activity is upsetting my wife a great deal. She feels rejected by me and hurt. She has told me this many times.
I love her a lot and I try my best to show her that. But, our relationship still feels strained, at best.
Is there anything I can do to help her deal with this? Ideas would be appreciated . Thanks

2007-04-12 16:49:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

For two years I have been telling my husband that there is nothing emotionally between us, and he wont talk about it. I recently started "chatting with my ex" and my husband found the e-mails, some with sexual content. I want to fix things and he wont talk to me he wants a divorce....this sitiuation is onlt 24 hrs old....I can't leave him alone. He can't fiancial leave. He is stuck and hurt bad. I don't know how to convice him that we should try to fix things...I was in the wrong but sex 5 times in 2 years makes a person look for attention else where.

2007-04-12 15:19:00 · 33 answers · asked by autumnstr7 1

My husband and I have been married 4 months. We were engaged year and a half and lived together. In total we dated five years before getting married. So ever since we got married we fight a lot about my family, his family, my weight. He says a lot of mean things about me and my family when he's mad at me, he also threatens me with divorce. He always does apoligize. What should I do? Don't want to get divorced.

2007-04-12 14:56:32 · 39 answers · asked by MTNS24 1

2007-04-12 14:52:38 · 13 answers · asked by VipsLove 2

...how is this going to happen?

2007-04-12 14:44:33 · 22 answers · asked by Chad S 2

the first couple of years i wanted to marry him, the next couple years i spent wondering why he didnt want to marry me. now that im newly engaged, ive gone crazy, im going out everyother night, staying out ALL night, never invite him, i just want to get away, anybody know what i mean? anybody know why? im meeting new people, and having too much fun. i feel a little bad, but a big part of me just doesnt even care.

2007-04-12 14:43:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He had a heart attack last summer. We had just moved to a new community. He didn't have hours for unemployment because he quit his job to move here. Eight weeks with no income. We took out another loan to pay bills and play catch up. He went back to work only to have more heart trouble.. more time off work. Then both our vehicles broke down, maxed visa.He is only working 4 hours 5 days a week. now its payday were over the over draft we have no money to by food or pay bills. we have three kids at home. I have minimal education and no real work experience. We live in a rural area where jobs are not plentiful. Any advice on what I should do. I am worried sick with no where to go

2007-04-12 14:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by seedyweedys 1

2007-04-12 14:24:17 · 17 answers · asked by sh 1

2007-04-12 14:22:33 · 24 answers · asked by hot cocoa79 1