when i started with him i was very much in love now i feel nothing for him, after i found out that he was having an affair with another woman, it hurt me so bad, i decided live him but i coudnt because of my son, although we did not wed in church like others do people told me that because im a christian i cant live him, i told them that we didnt marry in church but they said still im his wife since we have lived together for 9 yrs. so i decided to stay, but the problem i feel no love, im trying to lern to love him again but still nothing seems to work
2007-04-12 21:00:53 · 4 answers · asked by lonely girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, the adultery is grounds for divorce in a Christian family. You can't make yourself love someone it is either there or it is not. Obviously you have been betrayed and can't see past that. That is your right. The Bible Exodus 20:14 Says you must not commit adultery. Mathew 19:9 tells you that fornication is grounds for divorce. I hope this helps and I really wish you luck.
2007-04-12 21:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by lily_florance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what would make you feel loved, what you want. Then - do these things to/for him. You will find he will warm up to you, pay attention to you, and be there for you. Sometimes, getting what we want is easier than we think. It's just a matter of both of you being happy and secure.
2007-04-13 04:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by SandFam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do things that can make you happy.
don't listen what might other people say, it's your life
and you are the one who knows what's the best for you.
don't push yourself do things that you
know you're not happy with it.
don't put your life in sorrow.
be true to yourself.
I'm sure when your son is old enough he will be proud on you
not for leaving his father but being true to yourself.
because you know what you want in life.
2007-04-13 04:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by azumi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well being a christan as you stated. yes you can divorce him where he broke his vow that was made before god. which i [adultry]. this is the only vow in gods eyes that breaks the marrage covent in gods eyes. ref<<. bible.???
2007-04-13 04:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋