Marriage & Divorce - 14 April 2007

2007-04-14 23:51:34 · 12 answers · asked by MightyJoe1977 1

Don't tell me that they are all important ! Of course, they are. What I want is that you weigh them up and let me know who is weighing and taking the pains of answering me? Honest declaration of sex of the answerers will be welcome although not mandatory. Imposters will be understood and tolerated !

2007-04-14 23:41:19 · 20 answers · asked by nanhowala 3

2007-04-14 23:11:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

First I will tell the situation: My husband and I have been married for almost 20 yrs. About 5/6 yrs ago I went thru a terrible time in my life, my Dad died, my youngest son decided about the same time that he was going to live on the wild side, my Mother leaned on me to the point of driving me nuts (I love her dearly). My husband acted like I should be able to simply tune it all out, go on be happy. It was horrible so I go to my doctor, he gave adivan, I get hooked on em, began to take more and more, My husband had been saying bad things about me to his family but when I get on adivan he gets worse. He didn't ever realize that I knew he was bad mouthing me until recently. I stopped taking the pills about 2 yrs ago and finally blew up. He denied it on up until I finally told him that I had heard him on the phone/off ect.
This is long I know but I need guidance, I love my husband but I feel so betrayed and it is killing me. What should I do?

2007-04-14 22:40:35 · 21 answers · asked by lilAudrey 6

If you were in a great relationship with someone who treated you almost too good but the fights got frequent in a couple months...could you easily fall in love with someone else?

2007-04-14 22:08:25 · 14 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5

am 43 man looking for long term relation my x wife was 35 i was with her for 16 years now am looking for a women between 25 and 27 is it rong for me to think that way and tell me if there any thing wrong

2007-04-14 21:52:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-14 21:48:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

paying the man? Attached is a link to celebrity's most expensive divorces. That's what brought up my question. Why, ESPECIALLY if the wife is the one that wants the divorce, must a man split the money HE earned with his wife? What happen to equal rights?

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070414/ap_on_en_ot/expensive_divorces

2007-04-14 20:08:10 · 7 answers · asked by jninjacash31 3

my best says she love her husband but is not happy with their sex life. she says he is small, doesn't peform well. she not going to cheat, but tired of fakeing it .how do she tell him without hurting his fellings and what should she do

2007-04-14 19:00:21 · 16 answers · asked by scent_of_essence 1

Can anyone please tell me the details of court marriage in india?
I believe we have to book the dates 1or 2 months back.
Can anyone please tell me how long it take to get the machine certificate from court?
Also, what the procedure of getting marriage registration?

2007-04-14 18:25:33 · 1 answers · asked by sachin 1

he is such a moron most of the time. He does really careless things all the time and it is to the point that it seems really disrespectful. Tonight, as the list of rude things has piled up, i realized that he unplugged the freezer and unthawed easy over $100 worth of meat, when i was p*ssed and said something he just seemed so emotionless. He is now sleeping in his truck like a baby, he alway messed up and then acts like i'm just such a b*tch all the time for getting mad.

I'm am tired of being the one to make up when he pouts, but the thing is that its supposed to snow tonight, lol, and i feel bad leaving him out there, should i go get him....

2007-04-14 18:21:54 · 22 answers · asked by Heather 3

I am in an abusive relationship that I want out of, but unfortunately I'm scared I won't be able to afford to raise my daughter without him...I live in Charlottesville, VA, which is an expensive college town with 5 year waiting lists for public housing and 2 year waiting lists for rental assistance so I need some help finding the means to make it on my own...Can anyone tell me of an organization or something that can help me??

2007-04-14 18:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is there on business and all of his colleagues are cheating on their spouses as well. He says he did it because he had to close a deal and to be one of the boys. He did say he wanted to try it as well. He proclaims his love for me everytime we talk and says it is not personal it just a guy/business thing. He thought this may happen before he left so he talked to me about it. As he and I have a very honest relationship, he felt it important to tell me. Apparently, this is the culture and how business works there. When I talk to him at night, he is very drunk and tells me it is hard to resist girls throwing themselves at him and he hasn't YET because they are not his type. If he's going to mess up, he wants it to be worth it. I love him so much but I don't know if I can deal with this mentally and I kow if I get angry at him about it, it will just push him to do it further.

2007-04-14 18:03:34 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-14 17:56:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

and it had pictures in it and they wouldnt let you see the pictures...why would that be?
He says he wants me to trust him and that I dont need to look in his cell at the pictures...but I think if he wants me trust him he should have no problem letting me the pictures...who is right.

2007-04-14 17:52:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-14 17:50:52 · 13 answers · asked by oscarjohnemail 1

I cheated on my husband with my ex. I've never ever been unfaithful like this, but lately, the sex is just not pleasing me like it was before. My husband has also cheated before, about 3 times. Or so I know about. I forgave him, and since then he hasn't had any other sexual relations (well besides with me.) I love him to death and I don't know why I cheated like that. I guess it was just because the sex hasn't been as good and I guess I wanted something more or better. So the point is..I forgave him for his past sexual life of cheating... but he can't forgive me. What do I do ???

2007-04-14 17:31:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i work with a mobile doctor.
we work and drive all day together and have lunch every day.
we spend about 8 hours a day with eachother and have some personal conversations about personal intimate things like about my husband and his life.
he talks a lot about sex.
he is 20 yrs older than me.
also he pays for my lunch everyday
is this cheating?

2007-04-14 17:23:06 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I for one am so repulsed by it. Saying the wrong thing (going too far) can just shut down the entire operation.

2007-04-14 17:17:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My salary is deposited in a joint a/c every month. The primary owner of the a/c is my husband. He gets extremly irritated when i discuss with him about opening my own a/c in a bank. He and his family ( parents & lot of brother and sis)want that i should "contribute" to his family by my salary.The part that I don't like at all is that they don't want me to have any contacts with my own parents and my brothers(who are much younger to me - still in college). Even a small b'day gift to my brothers or parents makes my husband and his family very furious and they keep discussing my any such action for several days. I feel so trapped. It was an arranged marriage and I am scared that if I take any action my parents will be humiliated. Please suggest me what to do.....sometime I even feel like divorcing him. They don't have any love for me all they want is money.:((((

2007-04-14 17:17:20 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is at a family birthday party today and he talked me out of going. his mom and youger sister do not get along with me and say horrible things behind my back but i feel that it isint right for him to not want me to go. he took our 4 yr old daughter and told me i should stay and watch our 2 yr. old.
what do you think??

2007-04-14 17:16:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

has lived apart from his wife for two years, is it morally ok to date him.....

2007-04-14 17:00:10 · 17 answers · asked by Forsaken Rose 2

i'm doing research on divorce it's for a paper.

2007-04-14 16:59:32 · 8 answers · asked by Tracey Fahnestock 1

2007-04-14 16:59:00 · 32 answers · asked by dkersey 1

Ive been married 5 months. I gave my husband my password. But I dont have his nor did he offer. Yet, one day I didnt exit out of my account and he read everything. I didnt care. But I wonder if couples exchange passwords to build trust and protect the union. Do you??

2007-04-14 16:56:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have not made love for over 3 years. She has had medical problems of a personal nature which have caused her lack of feeling. Her libido is non existent; she is just 'not interested' in sex. I, on the other hand am going mad with frustration. I understand and respect her decision but am finding abstinence increasinly difficult. We still love each other and remain the closest of friends and I have not [yet] been unfaithful. I do, however, find myself drawn to internet sex sites and occasionally mastutbate. This is unsatisfactory and I am becoming more and more isolated; being with her is frustrating, being without her is unthinkable. We are both 55 years old and the prospect of never making love again is daunting to say the least.
Should I try to find a discreet partner? What other advice do you have?

2007-04-14 16:44:29 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-14 16:41:38 · 17 answers · asked by britney b 2

I have been with my boyfriend for 5.5years. we have been on again off again engaged for about 4.5 of those years...right now - we are "off again" in the wedding department. we have lived together for nearly all of the 5.5years (probably like 5years and 2months....). we seperated briefly in the summer for a period of 2months - coincidentally this was also while i was away on buisness in another state....but got back together - coincidentally when i moved back to the city to take another job (there for i never really moved out).

i am on his health insurace - i pay my share of all the bills and stuff - we love each other.... but - i am terrified of the actual "marriage" deal.

we are relatively young - i am 25, he is 31. i love him...and he loves me...but i cant seem to bring myself to take it to the next level...hes a nice guy - im a nice girl... but it sort of seems like there might be a possibility we might not be "nice enough" for each other?

What to do????

2007-04-14 16:31:44 · 24 answers · asked by massage_junkett 1

do you think that a mormon and a hindu would work out in terms of marriage?

2007-04-14 16:28:02 · 19 answers · asked by the ghoul 2

she says "sex" is a power thing to her, and she doesn't look at it as enjoyment (she hasn't had sex without a semi buzz or been stimulated by extra treats).... I guess - since, we're now married and have two children..... and she has all the power.

do I have any hope? or am I doomed?

how do I get my power back?

2007-04-14 16:22:08 · 42 answers · asked by toddhagen88 1