Marriage & Divorce - 14 April 2007

I recently began talking to a woman I went to school with. We both married out of school. I left my spouse, she has not. I am in love with her. She says he's scared and doen't want to hurt her husband. I think she does love me...

2007-04-14 12:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This does not include family, but your husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance/financee (get it)...

2007-04-14 12:12:38 · 13 answers · asked by J 3

I had such a laugh today with my friend, who is much older than me. I sort of was hoping she would be wiser too. In two words, she is being a bit pessimistic about men and says that they are simply driven by genitals, that women only care about their children, not men, etc.:) I know she's had a hard life and made a bad choice with men in the past. My own mom too does not give much of a credit to a male population. Anyway, what does that make you think?

2007-04-14 12:10:59 · 13 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3

2007-04-14 12:07:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

In life

2007-04-14 12:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 6 years recently ran into an old girlfriend. He told me that they ran into each other, but he didn't tell me that he swaped email addresses and gave her his cell phone number. I found out about it a few weeks later when I came across the emails where he's clearly flirting with her. He also mentions in his emails that she can call him late at night. I confronted him with it and he thinks I'm overreacting. The way he told me the story was that they simly ran into each other and that was it, but clearly they are still in contact with each other. I think that by omitting to tell me they are emailing and talking to each other is lying. What do you think? Is he being dishonest, or am I just over-reacting.

2007-04-14 11:56:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are trying to look into ideas to do together. He wants to go paintballing but I'm not a fan. I like to work out but he doesn't. We both like to go mini-golfing and bowling but want a few more ideas.

We're both pretty young (I'm 22 and he's 24) and relatively active. Thanks for any ideas.

2007-04-14 11:56:06 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will steam work?

2007-04-14 11:54:33 · 10 answers · asked by travbar 1

2007-04-14 11:44:57 · 19 answers · asked by RICK 1

And how many would rather Never marry unless the love you feel is deep and profound.

2007-04-14 11:38:27 · 26 answers · asked by Eudora 4

I have a free day, the kids are at their grandparents and hubby is out all day. I should really catch up with housework and ironing. has anyone got a better suggestion ?

2007-04-14 11:32:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres are always worse. Dont you hate that?

2007-04-14 11:24:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're all aware of the general question "Do I see myself with this person in 20, 30 years from now?" The question I ask myself is "What is it I can offer to this person/this relationship, to make him a better person, a stronger relationship?" and I also ask vice versa "What can this person offer me to make me a better person/a stronger relationship?" I want to know what your question is. Thank you.

2007-04-14 11:17:09 · 16 answers · asked by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5

I have four girls between 1-6, two cats who love knocking things over just to do it, three outside dogs and a husband who just sits back and does nothing...usually asleep in the glider rocker while the house gets torn apart.
Long story short, if I leave him in charge when I leave, I have to remodel the house when I come home... ha ha.
What are some ideas to get things more in control in the house? Is there a way to teach my husband to help? He used to be very helpful with everything...dishes, picking up, and he also used to cook!
Any and all ideas get a thumbs up.

2007-04-14 11:17:01 · 12 answers · asked by Star 5

2007-04-14 11:10:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

10 years ago my friend and lover left me for a girl he'd known in highschool. He called and ended our relationship of two years over the phone. I was devasted and couldn't function for months. After a year, I moved out west and rebuilt my life. Meanwhile, he married that girl. I eventually made my way back to my home town about 4 years ago now. On New Year's Day he called me - he had finally gotten ahold of my number. He had been looking for me for the past couple of years since he left his now ex-wife. He tells me he has always loved me. He still had the ring he had given me years ago. He still had some of my things. I have always loved him. He is my sole mate. Things have been going well for us - too well. And now the past is haunting me - I trust him, I always did - I'm just so afraid of losing him again and suffering through what I did all those years ago. Is it possible that a relationship can work after all that has happened? Are happy endings possible?

2007-04-14 11:08:29 · 10 answers · asked by d-d 1

If you and your boyfriend had been dating 5-6 years and he proposed to you and all, then stood up and told you it was a joke after you got all excited, how would you feel? What would you do?
This can be for both men and women.

2007-04-14 11:00:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

don't close the other lovechilod67_church cause this my daughters

2007-04-14 11:00:14 · 3 answers · asked by babydoll93_church 1

I dated an Indian guy for almost 2 years. Before me, he was with an Indian girl who loved him like anything. He promised her and her family marriage, had sex with her, and then came to the U.S. and cheated on her a lot. She never knew the truth about what he did, and he made her think that everything was all her fault. The poor girl still cries for him years later.

After I had been with him for almost 2 years, I found out he was a cheater and how he would meet girls online, become friends with them and fly to see them for the weekend for sex. He's been doing this for years. I'm the only one who knows. His family has no idea. They arranged a marriage for him at the end of this year, and I don't want him to get married! He doesn't deserve it. He's already hurt enough women in his life.

What should I do? I could write a letter to his parents but I don't want to hurt them. They didn't do anything wrong. But I think they are the only people he might listen to. Please help.

2007-04-14 10:52:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the details:
- Caught my wife of 7 years cheating on me with a guy she met in her college accounting classes.
- No kids
- We rent an apartment.

Problem is, when I marry again, I will probably buy a house. If she's a gold-digger again, can having a pre-nup agreement prevent her getting 1/2 the house, or should I just rent a house for the first 10 years of marriage, till I'm sure everything's safe?
Also, should I open an offshore account for my investments?

My ex is SO DARN angry that she's getting ONLY $50,000 and a brand new car! She says that "its less than minimum wage!" (What? she thought of our marriage as a job?).

Now you may ask: why am I so generous? The fact is, she's turned into a crabby angry lady and gets fired from every job she gets. She's REALLY going to need this $50g to live on between jobs. Also, because I sponsored her to immigrate to Canada, I'm responsible for 10 years, so $50g+car for 3 more years of support seems fair to me.
Pre-Nup?

2007-04-14 10:52:30 · 15 answers · asked by honesty_counts 1

we have talked and she is not stressing.we havent had sex yet..i was wondering..she isnt the kind of mushy and romantic ... what can i do to intice her?i do chore around the house and play with the kids and do the yard... i do want to spoil her.. she never was spoiled like i want to.i know that she lloves me much....any suggestions??

2007-04-14 10:30:21 · 3 answers · asked by country4skot 1

um a divorced woman getting in aseriuos relationship with aman and i dont know what to advice him to deal with my little girl 4 yers old to gain her love

2007-04-14 10:20:55 · 4 answers · asked by nounyg 1

2007-04-14 10:18:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it would be somewhat more expensive, but not much. Have you done it?

2007-04-14 10:17:09 · 8 answers · asked by greenfrogs 7

If you found you had apprx 1yr or less to live what would you do for the next year

2007-04-14 10:12:19 · 16 answers · asked by nfn3vet 2

If you have how did it turn out and if not not what stopped you?

sometimes marrige is so boring....

No smart a** answers please......I am in the middle of a personal crisis

2007-04-14 10:10:14 · 20 answers · asked by Alaina1988 1

I do believe that women tend to be a little less shallow then men. But then there are the women who claim that they could care less whats on the outside. They claim to only care about whats on the inside. Even women have to have limits. I mean, would you date a guy if he was 100 pounds or more overweight??? Would you date a guy if he dressed like a complete slob and never shaved his face??? Would you date a guy if he was broke???? I bet anything that the women on here will all lie and answer yes to everything.

2007-04-14 09:39:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine is when I see my husband interact with our children. I love to see him on the floor with our kids and wrestle and get into tickle fights with them. He doesnt leave any of them out. It makes me feels so much love for him. I dont know why I just do.

What are some of your reasons you love your spouse?

2007-04-14 09:23:19 · 24 answers · asked by momof3 6

So anything tragic that happens that results in death... God is behind it because it states that he "knows" when you are going to die"

2007-04-14 09:14:07 · 37 answers · asked by ry s 1

I have been engaged for almost a year and getting married in November. I never asked her parents for permision prior to getting engaged because I never got the chance to get to know them, and they were a little discouraged because of this

I am 25 and my fiencee is 31. Now I have gotten to know her parents and they seem to welcome me right into the family. I was thinking of now asking them for their blessing just as a way for them to still feel their respect as her parents.

Should I ask, and should I talk to the father or both the father and mother?

Thanks

2007-04-14 09:09:23 · 10 answers · asked by russell97yzf 2