I recently began talking to a woman I went to school with. We both married out of school. I left my spouse, she has not. I am in love with her. She says he's scared and doen't want to hurt her husband. I think she does love me...
2007-04-14 12:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We haven't seen each other in over 20 years. We talk on the phone a lot.
2007-04-14 13:50:42 · update #1
she may be in-love with the idea of you as she may need a little excitement but love you?......it is likely she and her husband are comfortable to the point of boredom now she sees the passion you make her feel within herself.be careful here,,you could get hurt,you are free and single,she is not. in-love can hurt,,it can make us question,it can make us feel again but when push comes to shove she may not actually make any changes to her life as it is now.if she has issues she must sort them.
2007-04-14 12:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you even want her to leave him, this is another reason so many divorces. If she is scared it is her way of saying she's not sure if she loves you. I'm not being mean spirited, but to be honest with you if I loved someone who loved me and I wasn't happy in my marriage I would leave without any hesitation. Very rarely does it work after all these years of being apart, they change and you've chnage so what it sometimes is still thinking of them from all these years of who they were then. I do wish you luck and hope it turns out the way you wish for it too.
2007-04-14 21:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Let dead dogs lie" as they say. If she hasn't talked to her husband about the situation then she really doesn't want to leave him. I would suggest that you move on with your life, you would be amazed at how many people may actually get hurt in this kind of situation especially if kids are involved. Good Luck!
2007-04-14 19:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still married, leave her alone. If she loves you she will make a choice to divorce. Let it be her choice because if you are bothering her and she leaves her husband and decides it was a mistake she will blame you. If she chooses to divorce her husband herself and contact you she can't blame you in the end.
2007-04-14 20:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong!!!! she might be flattered but if she did not love her husband she would leave him..there are too many single people for you to even think about messing with a married one shame on you leave her faily alone get you own,you cant be that hard up
2007-04-14 19:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by pattialfy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont pressure her.. let her decide this on her own.. if she loves you she will leave her husband but that has to be her call not yours. if you pressure her to leave and you two dont work out she will hate you in the end and have regrets over loosing what she had
2007-04-14 19:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by nurse_driller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing, she's married. If ever she decides to leave her marriage you might have a shot with her. If not, move on to someone single.
2007-04-14 19:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion.. don't force her only keep in touch and let things flow. If you force her when she's not ready then she will blame you for her leaving her husband.
2007-04-14 19:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by MG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone
2007-04-14 19:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋