Marriage & Divorce - 14 April 2007

we have 5 kids but we set tuesday night as "date night" but he would rather play video games. he works 3rd shift so i sleep alone, but on his day off he would rather play games till 2am and i'm out by then.. any other day it's a chore to get him up, he's too sick or he says he just can't keep his eyes open.. i would like to hang out and watch tv or something. and i am always going to bed alone. i feel like my kids are the only ones who want to be w/me, but it's not the same.... how do i get his attention or do you think that after 5 babies he just doesn't like me no more, or does he have another woman????? help please, i need to talk to an adult that doesn't love doodlebops!!!!!!

2007-04-14 16:19:14 · 9 answers · asked by amber l+5KIDS 2

I have been married almost 8yrs and ever so happy. I was just wondering if other's out there believe it is awesome to have found someone to love and live with for life if possible. I ask this just to cheer some of us who keep trying to help others that seem to be going through crap and well we can just say heres something that we can be positive on.

2007-04-14 16:16:36 · 13 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

what can you do when the child doesnt want to see the other parent?

2007-04-14 16:13:03 · 8 answers · asked by tori 2

I know arranged marriages are the rule in this religion, my thing is why are Sikh men dating American women if they cant marry them?A Sikh guy that I met about 8 months ago at a store he works in across the street from my apartment wants to date me very bad!He is extremely attractive & his family has a lot of money.He lets me drive his car & gives me money and told me I can have whatever I want.His uncle noticed that he has become quite fond of me& told him that if he didnt stop talking with me so much that he would call his parents in India!This guy is 24 years old!He said he doesnt care about what his uncle thinks. I like him a lot too because he is a total sweetheart & he spoils me rotten. I am also Black & I know a lot of people are prejudice against Black Americans.I know in the long run he will probably have to go by what his family wants unless he is willing to put up a fight, but I dont know if I want to go through all the rejection. By me being Black, I'm tired of that...

2007-04-14 16:06:55 · 1 answers · asked by Wisdom 3

We want to get married but not have it legal - pretend. Due to social securitiy reasons (reduction in benefits if we are marreid) we want to go through all the ceremony with marriage certificate and everything and although not legal-we want to say vows to each other to commit. I will also be changing my name to his last name.

2007-04-14 16:05:24 · 6 answers · asked by deborah s 1

living with a 17-year old, i have two wonderful kid's of his and he refuses to support one of them, he is practically under this girls total control and rather raise her and support her then his own kid's. he is dying of Aid's and this girl does'n tgive a crap about it whether she gets infcted or not, he's 36 and says she hasnt gotten pregnant yet, but they'r trying and its none of mb. I give a rats hoot what they do, to prove im not jelous. my prob is he refuses to be a responsibl father and she liks to get in bewtwn decisions. I know he can end up in jail for living with somene underage for knowing his past history with viol& the law hes not to be with anyone underage. He is also not to be driving without a license, since he's been caught several times without including stealing vehicles, stickers and plates around bc and changing vim'ss and has a long history of fines, he is not allowed a legal license. Should i report him? I dont want trouble, but want to prevent her fr medlin

2007-04-14 16:04:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

35 years ago I belived that all you need in life is love. Now I am divorced, old, no money and I am not so sure that all I need in life is love. They say that with age comes wisdom I think that I reach that point that I have the right age but I am not so sure were to look for the wisdom ? Imagine this .....

2007-04-14 16:00:55 · 9 answers · asked by JAY 1

I dont really want rice thrown at me on my big day. Any other alternatives?

2007-04-14 16:00:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Friend's newly wed husband who is overseas is cheating on her. He is into nude webcam chatting etc. He doesnot admit he is married so that he can have fun. She removed her wedding ring. Is it ok to do so? When does one remove the ring? with no ring, is she deceiving men that she is not married?
A guy at her place of worship gives her stares. (they have not talked yet) Is she at fault at misleading him?
Please advise on both questions.

2007-04-14 15:59:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

boy friend to be charged with sex abuse. by statements from daughter who at the age of nine was cofused and repeated verbateim what her father had programed to say., out ocome was that the plan backfired and the husband was charged with sex abuse, served 70 months, but he has tons of offences that are listed and he does not fit a profile of a sex affender, and has no charges like this listed NCIC and does not do anything i would say that would be sexuly devent.

2007-04-14 15:51:13 · 10 answers · asked by feather 1

I have read and actually answered some of his pathetic remarks more then questions, and it just sounds to me like he wants sympathy for getting dumped or he is hiding in the closet?

2007-04-14 15:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

My wife recently went to visit family and while there decided she wanted to seperate. She left all of her belongings here, and my mother in law thinks I should have to pay to send my wife her things. I don't feel I should have to because she made the decision to walk away from this marriage and now should suffer what comes along with that. Mother in law tried threatening me with court. What should I say/do?

2007-04-14 15:45:59 · 20 answers · asked by Jon 2

We are married for 3 years, dated for 3 years before getting married. no children. I feel that somehow i'm no longer in love with him, but i do love him. Do any of you also feel this in your marriage at some point in time? how do you deal with it?

2007-04-14 15:34:05 · 25 answers · asked by isabella 2

were was my wife november 24-2004

2007-04-14 15:33:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my husband live with my brother his wife and two kids. me and my husband constently fight . my sister in law says things to my husband that i didnt even say and he believes her more than me.Then when my husband comes home from work she tells him that i didnt do anything in the house but watch tv. I work everyday but one day a week. i would come home and clean the house. she works but she dont work that many hours a week.i do so much for them and they dont appreciate it. i just feel that me and my husband need a place of our own. i tried to explain that to him but he wouldnt listen. we fight every weekend when my husband is off work and half of the fights my sister in law starts. i finally got fed up and left my husband. now he wants to work things out but he does not want to move out of my sister in laws house. i want to work things out with him but i dont want to be back in the same hole that i was in. i dont know what to do. i just need some advice. could you give me some?

2007-04-14 15:07:06 · 16 answers · asked by sugar3 1

2007-04-14 14:43:08 · 12 answers · asked by mds1126 1

I have this issue were the place I was last employed I was a security guard. The employees inside of the factory needed a way to contact me in case of an emergency so I gave them my cell number considering I would be outside and only entered the building once and hour. Now I have this wife from one of the men who had my phone number, accussing me of sleeping with her husband. Which I never have and never will. But the way she contacted me is funny because with her having my phone number she felt the need to contact me on Myspace. THe accussations she is claiming are all false and I would never cheat on my husband. So why contact me on Myspace instead of calling me like a grown woman with accussations may do? Any suggestions on how to deal with this and why she may have contacted me this way?

2007-04-14 14:39:22 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2

he is 42 she is 60, they are together more then 3 years, he said he like and love her and sent love messages to her everyday, can it be for real?

2007-04-14 14:27:57 · 11 answers · asked by sska 1

she would rather see her daughter miserable and stay with him than get divorced. he tells her mother all kinds of bad stuff about me and brings her kids to see her all the time. the worse thing is the mother believes him. my girlfriend has told her mother how she feels but that doesnt matter to her. i talked to the mother let her know how i feel and how much her daughter means to me and how unhappy she was in the marriage and she still sides with him. she won't come to our house and she will only email her daughter.

2007-04-14 14:14:07 · 9 answers · asked by johncris17 2

2007-04-14 13:58:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Question: What do you put on a application if it asks if you're single, married, or divorced?

I lot of applications asks if your singled, married, or divorced and sometimes i put that i'm singled because right now, at this present time, i am but i've been married before and my divorce was about 13 years ago. Would i be lying to them if i say that i'm singled even though i've been divorced?

2007-04-14 13:13:58 · 20 answers · asked by B. Gregory 2

My spouse has a my space page on that page alot of porn & stuff for single people came in. Even though the profile said married. Now my spouse has set up another page for just music. What is the point of having two myspace pages?

2007-04-14 13:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by good-n-plump 1

trust and respect go hand in hand in a relationship...true?they worked together.. with out one the other falls apart.how can i give her respect and respect?.. any examples?i am open minded

2007-04-14 13:07:47 · 7 answers · asked by country4skot 1

i got married in 2001, we hve not been living together for the
past 2 and a half yrs as my husband is in jail. I would like to knw how do i go abt getting a divorce as i do not want this relationship anymore. From wht i hve heard whn u r separated for a while u r automatically divorced...is it true. I really need help with this

2007-04-14 13:01:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really dont know what to do we are supposed to be getting married soon but im starting to really not want to everytime we have a problem instead of talking between us he calls his mom and dad and tells them everything i will go to him and tell him how i feel about a situation and he just blows me off ignores me then calls his mom and tells her how i feel i hate this and i cant live with it but he tells me to deal???what do i do it seems that he is unable to keep anything between the two of us????hes even went as far as going to my parents and telling them are whole life stories i hate this because hes always putting me down in the process?heeelp

2007-04-14 12:37:17 · 27 answers · asked by mel 1

My mom's been divorced twice, the most recent one is almost 1 year ago. She's been dating this guy for 4 months. I'm 16, my sister is 13 and she's never home. My mom isn't either. She's gone from 10 AM-1 AM on the weekends. I only see her for 3 hours a day during the week because of schedules. She used to be at his place all the time but now, even though she said she wouldn't, she's bringing him here all the time and tells me to introduce him to my friends. I won't, because its too weird and then she does it. It's too cliche. I've talked to her but she says I'm trying to dictate her life and getting in the way of her happiness. I've confronted him too, but he doesn't care about me because my mom's sleeping with him and he's old, like 55, and she's barely 40. He barely leaves my house anymore and my mom forces his company on me. Took him to my job interview, they drop me off with my friends. And she makes fun of me when she runs out of subjects with him. And once she hit me. Not herself

2007-04-14 12:36:42 · 5 answers · asked by Erin Prophet, 16 1

I noticed that a lot of folks would suggest "read the Bible", "go to Pastor", "Lord will save you". I respect peoples' beliefs, but how exactly does it help? How would a pastor be better than a professional counsellor? Personally, I am not religious, but I have a faith, and I don't understand how could believing in God help sort out your problems this very minute. If someone feels bad, they should take a phone and reach a friend or take a bath. Would it not be better, than praying?

2007-04-14 12:26:21 · 15 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3

I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter, and am in an abusive relation. Verbal, & Physical. He keeps threatening me and calling me names, and he pushes me around. I'm unhappy, miserable, and depressed. And I feel that things are only gonna get worse. He has flipped me of matrasses, thrown a pair of steel toe boots at me and busted open my ankle. And just recently (still have the bruise) he shoved me through the house with force, and down the steps. Almost causing me to break my tail bone. My dog has the really thick ceramic food bowls, and I fell into that, and now I have a bruise and a knot on my butt. I couldn't sit down for a week, and it still hurts and it's been a little over 2 weeks I think, if that long. Should I leave when he's not here, or what I don't know. I appreciate the help. Thank you. I do have somewhere to go. I'm gonna go to my dad's.

2007-04-14 12:22:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this issue were the place I was last employed I was a security guard. The employees inside of the factory needed a way to contact me in case of an emergency so I gave them my cell number considering I would be outside and only entered the building once and hour. Now I have this wife from one of the men who had my phone number, accussing me of sleeping with her husband. Which I never have and never will. But the way she contacted me is funny because with her having my phone number she felt the need to contact me on Myspace. THe accussations she is claiming are all false and I would never cheat on my husband. So why contact me on Myspace instead of calling me like a grown woman with accussations may do? Any suggestions on how to deal with this and why she may have contacted me this way?

2007-04-14 12:18:12 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

My husband and I are both almost at 30. We've been together for 6 years and have a child in elementary school. He goes out with his friends to be out in the "Club Scene" (he calls it "networking" ), go out to drink at his buddy's house, or met up with his Aunt at a bar she is a regular at. He knows I don't approve of the amount of times a week he goes out. Especially coming home at unacceptable hours, but he doesn't take me seriously. On top of all of this I've been carrying the household for 60% of the time that we've been married. How do I get him Grow UP and to take me seriously in the fact that I'm not going to be taken for granted anymore???

2007-04-14 12:17:44 · 8 answers · asked by MG 1