Marriage & Divorce - 14 April 2007

My husband and I let my brother move in with us in the middle of December. My husband told him he didn't have to work because he is going to go into the navy. Now my husband says he is getting in the way ,I don't see it. My brother is having a hard time getting around to leaving. He has no where to go. I look at him as a son. I worry about him like I worry about my own kids. Yes he is 20 but,he has no father figure, and my mom's husband treats him like crap. What should I do?

2007-04-14 08:55:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wonder why some men are reallay controlling and emotionaly abusive

2007-04-14 08:17:42 · 14 answers · asked by krashing_now 2

Hi I am software engg. currently working in mumbai. I love a gujrati girl but I am not gujarti. We both love each other. We know each other for last 1 year.I have also visited Ghandhinagar several times to meet her. My mother is agree wih our relaionship. But according to her my lover's family is very conservative. According to them a girl's life would be decided by them only. My girlfriend is very anxious about the future of our relationship. Her parents do not know about me. My girlfriend is still collage student. Her parents have started searching for her boy. Her father is also influencial. We are not sure even if my family goes with marriage proposal whether they will talk on that matter. My girl friend told me her socity does not allow a boy who is not gujarati. I do not have any connection in Gujarat. Even in this modern age peple only think about cast. We both love each other. Please suggest us. We are loking for ur advice.

2007-04-14 08:17:20 · 14 answers · asked by Arnab d 1

Here is the detail. I am 21, i have been dating the guy i love for 5 years and 4 months. We have been living together for a year in his father's house. When we were 18 he would talk about wanting to get married so i know he is not afraid of commitment. All my friends that have been with their boyfriends 1-3 years are engaged or married. I just wonder what everyone thinks, comment plz!

2007-04-14 07:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda R 2

Now that my husband has finally met my officemate (with whom i am carrying on a very sexual affair), these two men has become sort of informal friends (as my husband always fetches me from the office now that he is on a short vacation from his work abroad). The problem is, since my husband is the silent&serious­ type (the exact opposite of my lover!), he's becoming the laughingstock of the office as my officemates are having a good laugh whenever my secret lover pokes fun at my hubby's expense, often regarding dirty sex! I hate it, specially whenever i see my pitiful husband struggling under the weight of my lover's jokes at his expense... but i feel so aroused also by this kind of humiliation that my lover is inflicting on my husband. Yesterday, while my just humiliated husband waited outside, i have had the best sex of my life inside the office with my naughty officemate! (it was a quickie, but he gave me one unforgettable orgasm, that i thnk i gushed down there!). Is this normal?

2007-04-14 07:30:05 · 23 answers · asked by Len R 1

I fellso lonely, I need companianship.andlovely friend.

2007-04-14 07:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Aliya J 1

"You're just my wife,I don't have to tell you everything!"

2007-04-14 07:04:24 · 29 answers · asked by Direktor 5

I ve been in a relationship with my bf for 4 years now, I cant say were not happy but things just keeping getting more complicated, a lot of differences and the feeling seems more like a very good friendship than true love. But now i ran into an old friend and we seem PERFECT for each other, but the only thing that scares me is that he barely has a job, since he just moved to a different city and im afraid to give it all up and then regret it!!!! WHAT TO DO?

2007-04-14 06:11:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-14 05:55:12 · 24 answers · asked by casey308 2

2007-04-14 05:32:14 · 23 answers · asked by Sunny 1

This is lengthy but please read. Friend's newly wed husband is overseas. He is cheating on her, doing webcam chatting, wanting to meet for fun etc. He has job stability issues. She has stopped all immigration processing till things are clear in her head. Should he dump him? Is this workable? She feels mostly this is not workable and should divorce him but only fact that she is married, is stopping her.

She has been seeking god for guidance and going to a worship place to pray. This gets complicated. She has stopped wearing her wedding ring cause she feel her husband violated the marriage. Some guy there gives her stares, though have not talked. She has felt a strong attraction pull on one occassion while they were next to each other. She is shocked that that happened. Why would this happen? She had no intention of anything other than worship? What does this mean and what she should do? She is so guilty that this is so wrong morally. Please advise on both issues.

2007-04-14 05:30:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex is a child abuser and still got custody of my babies, the judge had that information and still gave them to him. What do I do?

2007-04-14 05:29:49 · 13 answers · asked by Trina B 2

My friends loser soon to be ex-husband wrote a check for $800.00 and then "forgot" to sign it. Meanwhile has not paid $1.00 towards anything since January. She was a stay home mom with 2 kids and the jerk has not given her any money. She gets calls daily from creditors asking for money and saying they are coming to take her car. He hasn't paid the mortgage, but refuses for her to sell it. She is having to live with no heat & eating with friends just to survive. So he dangles a check in front of her and "forgets" to sign it - so she forged his signature to pay the electic bill - Which was over $800.00 - they said they were turning off her power. He is a drug addict that has cleaned out all of their savings and makes good money - but is hiding it all from his soon to be ex-wife. But then pretends to miss his children - but hasn't given them any money since January. Now he tells her that he is pressing charges and she is going to jail for forging his name. What should she do?

2007-04-14 04:47:07 · 8 answers · asked by pounddoglady 1

I don't normally allow myself to get sucked into other people's drama, but I feel helpless and need advice.

In January my 28 yr old cousin divorced her husband because he cheated on her. My cousin and her ex have no children together, but they own a home. Their divorce papers state that she will occupy the home until it is sold, but that they will split the mortgage payment. They will slip the profits 50/50 when the house sells.

This morning at 3 am, the ex came knocking at her door and is claiming that he is having financial problems and plans to move back in to the house (they are legally divorced and he is now engaged to the other woman).
He has a key to the house and my cousin is afraid that he will start to move his stuff back in. She called the police and they say that there is nothing that they can do because the house is "comunnity property."

She lives in FL
Her ex has harassed her many times -cops say until it becomes physical they can't do anything

2007-04-14 04:37:55 · 6 answers · asked by Jester 3

I have been talking to this guy for a few weeks, and we went out on a great date. Over the next few days he stilled contacted me, but it kinda stopped in the middle of the week because he said that he had to put minutes on his pre paid phone. The last time he called was Thursday from his mom's house, and when my sister answered the phone she heard his back ground but then he hung up and has not called since. He told me whenever he is on the computer it's when he is normally at his sisters house and he was on this morning, but when I logged on for about 15min, he said nothing to me, and did not respond to an email I sent him yesterday just saying hi. He really went all out on our 1st date so besides my initial question, I also thought with him not having money to put minutes on his phone means he probably can't take me out so could embarrassment be a reason of not talking to me? I don’t care if he can take me out or not, but maybe he does not know that.

2007-04-14 04:32:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a daughter who is 18 months old. The most her father has contributed is about maybe 40.00 last month. And we've been seperated for about 7 months now. He uses excuses that he has to pay his parents money, etc. Pretty much every excuse in the book he's used. He's lost 3 jobs already this year and has just started his 4th on Tuesday (Wendy's) (We were together for almost 4 years and the reason we seperated is a) he can't hold a job obviously and he's very verbally abusive) So i'm just asking any other single mom's out there did you file for child support? Was it worth it if you knew that he probably wasn't going to contribute that much even if it's issued from the courts? I pay 340.00 a month just in day care alone and I have a great job but not enough to always pay bills on time. So it's been a bit of a struggle. Thanks to everyone who answers. Please no rude answers.

2007-04-14 04:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by ash 2

My previous question was about cheating and BAM, I got like 14 answers about I shouldn't cheat and blah blah. If anybody was paying attention I was just setting up my question which was
***How do married people find time to cheat when they got kids at home to take care of?***
I AM NOT CHEATING so get that part straight. I just have an online friend that I talk to sometimes. If you can answer my last question and this one there are double points for you if you care.

2007-04-14 04:19:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, Me and my husband have been married for 2 months. And the other day he woke up after having a BAD dream about me, (I've been married b4) he had a dream that I had kids but all by different dads...(dont have kids) I was at work when he woke up so he went to my storage closet and got all my pics etc out..(no pics of any ex's) only thing i really had was my prom pic, which he ripped up. And he wrote all these nasty comments on all the pics I had of me and some friends...just friends...so i had to throw them away because they were ruined...And of course he was telling me he wanted a divorce because he couldn't handle my past (bc i was married b4) So the next day he told me he was sorry and he didn't want to leave. And now he acts like everything is ok...and I act depressed around him I guess due to loss of respect. And he questions why I act this way...what should I do?

2007-04-14 04:00:34 · 24 answers · asked by Just here. 4

you hear a lot about his father but not his mother or wife or kids and if he haves a brother or sister, why is that is he not able to talk about them.

2007-04-14 03:49:33 · 5 answers · asked by sehoy 3

How would you react if
you found out your husband was flirting with the clerk at the corner store? Every time I go in there, she's always telling me how wonderful my husband is. She obviously has a crush on him. Last time I went in, she told me that she was outside down the street looking for her cat and my husband pulled up and said,"are ya looking for a date?" and she laughed and said, "no, for my cat" so he got out and proceeded to "help" her( cats hate him) and was joking around yelling,"*****?*****?"..I dont think this is appropriate behavior for a married man, do you? Would you be concerned? I have not said anything to him yet, because I am not sure if I am over reacting, or if their is cause for concern; I can say, I KNOW he would not have behaved this way, had i been there.

2007-04-14 03:47:36 · 35 answers · asked by Erin 3

2007-04-14 03:42:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-14 03:34:48 · 34 answers · asked by Robin L 1

2007-04-14 01:40:44 · 29 answers · asked by free_gary_glitter 1