2007-04-14 05:55:12 · 24 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THE BIGGEST MISCONCEPTION ABOUT MARRIAGE IS THAT IT IS ALL PEACHES AND CREAM. IT TAKES ALOT OF HARD WORK AND LOTS AND LOTS OF PATIENCE'S. REMEMBER ITS NOT ABOUT WHAT CAN I GET OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE ITS WHAT CAN I GIVE. IF BOTH OF YOU HAVE THIS ATTITUDE I FEEL THAT THINGS WILL WORK OUT. DONT GET ME WRONG THERE WILL BE HARD TIMES BUT IF YOU REA LY LOVE EACH OTHER THINGS WORK OUT.
THERE IS ONE BIG FACTOR IN A MARRIAGE "GOD" WITHOUT HIM IN THIS MARRIAGE THERE WILL ALWAYS BE CONFLICT.
2007-04-14 06:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by godson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest misconception is that it will be wonderful all the time and that there will be few problems. The nice thing is that if the couple really love each other, love will conquer most things. I often tell my husband that I married for better or worse, not for stupid or criminal activity.
2007-04-14 06:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by OTOTW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you watch any best time television in any respect you're specific to work out the "commonly used" family contributors setup. interior the final 10-15 years this setup has consisted of a b*tchy overbearing spouse, a retarded husband, and a couple of toddlers who're incredibly interior the photograph (think of all people Loves Raymond, King of Queens, Jon and Kate plus 8....oh wait....that one is genuine) Too many human beings think of that's what marriage relatively is. A egocentric, sexless, pointless existence. interior the genuine international, people who've efficient marriages artwork collectively to realize their targets, they love and appreciate one yet another, and that they the two make a contribution to the marriage.
2016-10-22 03:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you will live "Happily Ever After". I'm not knocking marriage just that some people believe after marriage the hard part is over. So wrong. Its harder because now you have a commitment to think of someone besides yourself. That's not always easy.
2007-04-14 05:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by a j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That once your married you dont have to try anymore that the relationship is there and everything is going to be rosy marriage is work and you have to still do things you did while dating like flirting and dates with just the 2 of you and talking about stuff more than just mundane stuff.
2007-04-14 05:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by hmsmomof6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That it's a horrible rotten thing after the googley eyes and butterflies have died down. Marriage is what both partners make it out to be. It's like anything we do in life, if you half a$$ it and aren't committed to it then that's what you'll get out of it.
2007-04-14 06:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by thezenfulclover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfulness to yourself. Most people go into marriage with expectations, which is normal. But these expectations are usually not discussed before the marriage takes place. Most people go into marriage not being honest with their partner and telling them exactly how they feel about things, usually due to "fear of losing them". If we are honest with ourselves about marriage and what we expect out of it and our partners, more marriages would stay marriages instead of divorces.
2007-04-14 06:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by swilson_lewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That a happy marriage happens on it's own if you Love each other.
2007-04-14 05:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That we 'know' the other when we marry.
Falling in-love depends more on our own illusions about someone we are attracted to than on any rational understanding of that real person. If it didn't, I really doubt that any of us would ever have married.
2007-04-14 06:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sultan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not at all like "dating forever". It's sharing a bathroom until you can afford a home with an extra shower.
2007-04-14 06:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋