Why do i feel so aroused with my lover whenever he's making fun of my clueless husband?

Question

Now that my husband has finally met my officemate (with whom i am carrying on a very sexual affair), these two men has become sort of informal friends (as my husband always fetches me from the office now that he is on a short vacation from his work abroad). The problem is, since my husband is the silent&serious­ type (the exact opposite of my lover!), he's becoming the laughingstock of the office as my officemates are having a good laugh whenever my secret lover pokes fun at my hubby's expense, often regarding dirty sex! I hate it, specially whenever i see my pitiful husband struggling under the weight of my lover's jokes at his expense... but i feel so aroused also by this kind of humiliation that my lover is inflicting on my husband. Yesterday, while my just humiliated husband waited outside, i have had the best sex of my life inside the office with my naughty officemate! (it was a quickie, but he gave me one unforgettable orgasm, that i thnk i gushed down there!). Is this normal?

I know i'm playing with fire, but i love my husband very much... although my lover is far more superior than him in all aspects. How can i retain both in my life? Is penis size really important? (i think it does, as my horny officemate reaches so deep inside of me because his penis is so much longer than my husband's.) Serious answers only, please...

Answer 1

You are living in a fools paradise. Just ask your office-mate that you want to marry him and you will come to know who is making fun of whom. Your office-mate is using you to satisfy his sexual urges and making fun of you and your husband to satisfy his ego and show his supremacy. A long penis do not make a great man. It is proven fact that orgasm and sexual satisfaction is a purely mental state and are not dependent on size of the penis. The level of sexual satisfaction is directly related to the liking you have about your partner. Your husband is living abroad and you are not able to spend enough time with him and your urge for companionship is dragging you into this meaningless relationship with your office-mate. Just ponder for a while and find out what is it that encouraged you to like humiliation of your husband and then try to overcome that situation or forgive that incident and you need not ask this question again. You must satisfy your sexual desires but not at the cost of your self respect.

Answer 2

You cannot sit here and ask for a serious answer given your lack of morale here.

You're disgusting. First of all, to allow your "lover" to humiliate your husband in front of other people, then have sex behind your husband's back? Let me tell you one thing, your officemate sees you as just a toy, someone he can use for sex because I seriously doubt he loves you. Soon, he'll get bored of you and move onto something younger and better, and your husband will also find out. Then you'll be left without nothing.

I also hope that your lover gets tired of you and trashes you, then holds the affair over your head as blackmail.

Let's just say the possibilities are unlimited here for the many ways you're going to get your just desserts.

Answer 3

You're an abusive wife that wants a cuckold husband. Real power trip isn't it. You married him, now you can be the cheater and so far, only secretly enjoying the pain he doesn't know yet. Sooner or later, you'll get around to telling him to see if he will be your cuckold slave. You should not be married, ever , to anyone. If he stays with you when this is out in the open, then you deserve each other but it won't last forever so get a stable of cuckies lined up. This will be your life from now on. Don't it feel good to be inhuman to another?

That or you are just a guy trying out some porn ideas on yahoo A.Either way Len R, you are weird

Answer 4

Poor man, this is sick! You need to end it with your husband right now because he deserves much better than you. You are just turned on by the fact that you are carrying on a forbidden relationship with someone other than your husband. Is that feeling normal? Yes. Now let me ask you something, what if it was your husband who was having the affair and you were the laughing stock of his co- workers, would you feel good about that? What goes around comes around!

Answer 5

You are turned on by the forbidden. This is common enough. The "bad boy" infatuation. When your lover pokes fun at you unknowning and therefore deffenceless husband, he is re-enforcing the bad boy image. You are arroused.

If you still love him at all, seperate from your husband. Show him that much mercy at least.
Tell him why. Your officemate has not been half so cruel as you.

Answer 6

U know its so weird to actually hear u talk like this, my ex was having an affair, his so called ladyfriend spoke just like u, u know in a kind of chilled and relaxed way!!

secret sex affairs dont last long, what will is ur regret that u have lost out on a trusting husband, in this day and age a trusting partner is so hard to find, and its cos of ppl like u!!

Answer 7

if your lover is so great, why aren't you with him and not your husband? probably because he is just using you for sex. which is fine, as long as you don't let that get out of hand. and you should leave your husband because if you really loved him, you wouldn't be treating him like this. give him a chance at being happy- it'll never be with you. obviously you have some insecurity and self esteen issues and i would suggest seeing a therapist, eventually actions like this come back to bite you in the ***.

Answer 8

I would like to meet your husband. My fiance cheated on me which makes him as careless, disrespectful, moraless, immature and ridiculous as you. I don't know why people like your husband and myself end up with persons such as you, my fiance and your immature office mate. If you want to make fun of someone, I would suggest you turn that on yourself. You are a poor excuse for a human being (and by the way......you do NOT love your husband......you have not even BEGUN to know what the word love means.) Won't it be funny when your office mate is done with using you and makes fun of you?

Answer 9

You cannot be serious.

You cannot be asking for serious answers either.

The serious answer is , you are a lying cheating whore.

When in fact the imagery of you cuckold husband being humiliated is quite humorous.

Perhaps you should invite your lover to join you.

Talk your husband into being tied up in a chair and then bring in your lover to bang you in front of him.. That should push his butt over the edge.

Answer 10

Your husband may be looking like a fool cuz of you. But to all your coworkers you are looking like a slut. THey are not laughing with you, they are laughing at you!!! Karma!! One day you will be on here asking for advice about the same thing happening to you. Dont wonder if you will be cheated on, YOU WILL!!!!