Marriage & Divorce - 13 April 2007

2007-04-13 23:29:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have for a long time now thought that my dad's been cheating on my mom.I wasn't sure if I was thinking logically or just being paranoid.Now I am almost sure that he is cheating.

I asked him if I could play games on his phone, he said yes, but he picked up the phone first and started doing something (I found out later, he was DELETING messages).

I wondered why he had grabbed the phone so quickly, so I got a bit nosy and after I had played a few games,I went to his messages...there was nothing in his inbox or his sent messages, but there were tons in his deleted messages.

I went to them and saw that alot of them were from, or to, the same woman.I opened a few.

I wish I hadn't, they were these messages about closeness, and sex, and love.It kills me that he doesn't have a relationship with my mom like he does with this other woman.

My question still stands, Should I tell my mom, should I confront him? This is hurting me so much, I have cried every night since I found out

2007-04-13 23:22:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-13 23:21:14 · 5 answers · asked by butch 1

2007-04-13 23:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by bam 1

I truly have! 21/2 "GREAT" years ago! She's amazing,and it's everything I dreamed I't would be!

2007-04-13 21:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by Clark in the City 4

After marring most of the girls change?Sometime boys.Why is it like that?My friends are act different after marring.Are there any physiological thing.

2007-04-13 21:01:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend just informed me yesterday that she was 13 days late with her period. The first thing that came to my mind was pregnancy. Which was OK with me, since I’m in my 30’s and seriously thinking about marriage and raising a family. Here is the problem. I know that I didn’t ejaculate into her since I’m REALY careful about that. However there’s one time that I got a drunk as a skunk and me and the old lady had some fun in the bedroom. But that was about two weeks ago. She called me yesterday that she was late as I mentioned above (13 days). I got really worried not because she was pregnant but maybe that something else might be wrong with her. She told me that she was going to get a pregnancy test and find out. I said fine but I also told her to go and see a doctor to make sure that everything was OK.
Today she called me and said that she just got her period and that everything was fine.
Here’s my question. Is that normal for a woman to have a late period; should I be worried about her health or was she just saying that to obtain more attention. I live in China, I’m an American and she is 10 years younger than me. Is it possible that she was just seeking extra attention or wanting to know how I felt about her?
If she was, then I’m quite livid, because that’s not the way to gain attention or love from someone.

2007-04-13 20:48:20 · 5 answers · asked by swegricht 1

2007-04-13 20:05:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my standards are so high now since i was lied and cheated on that i don't think i will be able to find anyone new.
does anyone else feel this way?

2007-04-13 18:33:10 · 12 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

I am not there yet cause i have a new born but how long does it usually take for lonelyness to set in?

2007-04-13 18:23:02 · 16 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

2007-04-13 17:52:51 · 18 answers · asked by icecreamheadache420 2

basically this is the situation with my bf/father of my child...he wants to marry me but im not sure which is more important to me. he hasnt proven to be much of a provider, well not as much as i would like him to be...in his defense he is still very young...hes not a bum he has a job is going to college he just doesnt show much ambition in my eyes. if something seems too hard he shuts it down and doesnt try.
were not struggling (were not SUPER comfortable but were not on assistance or anything), we have money, hes not a dead beat, he takes care of his child.
meanwhile.....
me and his child are the most important things in his life he would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship he is totally in love with me. i love him too i doubt i could find someone that puts me on a pedestal like he does...
i just dont know if i have my priorities straight.

2007-04-13 17:35:05 · 48 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5

I was thinking about marriage and divorce. I would like to know from those who are married if the decision was worth it. Is marriage all that different from a seriously committed relationship? And from those who arent married, and dont plan on getting married...Do you really see a point in it? I have been in a committed on again off again relationship for the past 3-4 years or so and I dont see marriage more than just a leagal bond. Although... sometimes I do have the urge to get married.... Am I going crazy!?

2007-04-13 17:30:29 · 20 answers · asked by motreystyle23 1

I HAVE HAD SEX OUTSIDE AND IT WAS GOOD

2007-04-13 17:30:20 · 20 answers · asked by Mz.peaches 1

We are going thru a divorce, she decided to get a new boyfriend (which she has moved in with my 2 kids along with another couple) and her dad. All of hem smoke dope, and snort coke.
My kids tell me they are made to go to their room all the time. my guess is that they can smoke their dope. My kids tell me everything. This new boyfriend and her are sleeping together. My kids do not like this.or them.

I can not afford a lawyer but learned enough to file a petition for divorce and custody. I will be representing myself. I have learned a lot. Since she was served papers, she has called me threatened me on the phone which I recorded and reported to the police. They arrested her. How can I get my kids out of her possesion? since we have no legal custody yet, I know I can go pull them out of school (Would I look bad for doing this) I am trying to do everything legal. I still would have to bring them back to school. Then it just puts the kids in a worst situation. What do I do?

2007-04-13 17:29:50 · 17 answers · asked by Bones 5

2007-04-13 17:29:32 · 12 answers · asked by Rosie 1

I've been split up from Mrs. J for about 3 years, but she likes to interact with me sexually. Is it wrong, cuz it don't feel that way. I got my place to myself and get more than I did when married

2007-04-13 17:25:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He gave excuses saying that its because of past arguments that hindered him from making love with his wife.

2007-04-13 17:23:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my ex a couple of months ago and is it shady or stupid to get back two items that I gave him as a gift?

2007-04-13 17:22:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

A question for all you married ladies out there -- what makes your wedding ring special/important to you? If lost or destroyed and an identical replacement were available would such a replacement suffice? Why/Why not?

2007-04-13 17:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anon E Mouse 1

Am i not good enough for him or i'm just not a good mother that he really wanted.Thanks god that my parent really support me but this kinda thing just make me tired of being alive.And i'm so upset think bout my son,is he going to be just like me coz i'm from broken home and this is what happen to me?

2007-04-13 17:11:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My situation: my husband doesn't desire sex-- ever. It came kind of suddenly and drastically and when I ask about it suddenly I am a nympho, I don't want to insult his "manhood" or accuse him of something completely false, but I feel entirely horrible emotionally and I don't know what to do. At first I thought maybe it was me, perhaps not attractive to him anymore, but now I am at my optimal health and I take pride in my appearance. I don't want to be that psycho girl who checks his phone and stalks his every move, but I am getting nowhere with trying to talk it out. I'm getting very antsy, someone please help! Personal stories a plus :)

2007-04-13 17:11:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I discovered Yahoo Answers about a week and a half ago. I love it. I sometimes stay on it too long. My husband gets really agitated with it. Anyone else out there run into this problem.

2007-04-13 17:09:12 · 20 answers · asked by pollywog 6

MY HUSBAND IS ON HIS SECOND TOUR TO IRAQ AND YES NOW HE HAS OT STAY THE DA** EXTRA 3 MO I NEED SPECIAL THINGS TO SEND HIM SWEET AND MAKE HIM FEEL SOME WHAT PART OF OUR FAMILY STILL I HAVE A 6, 4, AND 1 YEAR OLD ALSO ONE DUE IN JUNE SO I WANT IT TO BE STUFF THEY CAN HELP W/ OR DO AS WELL BUT IF YOU HAVE ANY ADULT I DEAS THOSE ARE WELCOME AS WELL THANK YOU SO MUCH!

2007-04-13 17:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by thehendersons_3 2

2007-04-13 17:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by nextal789 1

what do you think of me crazy. Insane. Or a family man.

2007-04-13 16:59:08 · 7 answers · asked by I was Kim 1

2007-04-13 16:47:26 · 27 answers · asked by Pedro R 2

2007-04-13 16:34:23 · 23 answers · asked by upaw 1

I have been with my husband for over 5 years.We have been having a lot of promblems lately.His family of course is on his side(the promblems reside over his career and whether I have the right to my own)they think that as long as he works and I really don't have to than I should just smile and be leave it to beavers mom.
I enjoy working and having my own money and life aside from the home.I feel so alone.My family is passed away and I was the only child.What do I do?It is really taking a toll on me and I feel that it could drive us apart.

2007-04-13 16:14:05 · 11 answers · asked by what did you say 4

We just got home from dinner. He had at least a 6 pack before we left and 2 margaritas while we were there. He also ordered a third and a bottle of beer, but he didn't get them down...thank God. Now he is NASTY and I just wish he would drop. Sometimes, when he's really bad, I even think about helping matters along. In the morning, it's as if nothing happened and everything is great. He will never change. How much am I supposed to endure? Does anyone else have these thoughts?

2007-04-13 15:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous