Marriage & Divorce - 13 April 2007

Recently I found a hidden condom in one of my cupboards. I'm currently pregnant, so me and my boyfriend are not using them. He denies it being his, but there's no one else in my home that would have posessed it. He claims it must of been here when we moved in, last month, but I scrubbed all the cupboards out, and it was not there before. I want to believe him, but deep down I know it was his, what do you think?

2007-04-13 12:13:46 · 27 answers · asked by myse213 2

my friend and her husband have been together for 15 years now and his x wife and 2 kids still are causing problems he did leave his first wife for my best friend but she got remarried and this is still goen on and why do u think ty so much jewels my best friend is so sick of the problems

2007-04-13 12:11:36 · 3 answers · asked by jewels 2

is joint physical custody of my 8 month old likely for a judge to give once my divorce is final? i live in missouri.

2007-04-13 11:56:05 · 6 answers · asked by Unohoo 2

has anyone ever regreted marrying their spouse and years down the line they realise they have made the biggest mistake in their life,but its too late and too complicated to do anything about it, and no i dont mean my relationship.

2007-04-13 11:43:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-13 11:39:02 · 7 answers · asked by Syed Zawar 2

Hi ALL,

HAPPY FRIDAY!!!!

My husband and I are about to visit my friend who just gave birth to a baby boy (Monday). My question would… what can I give her? I mean we already got her a baby shower and all.. but I still want to give her something special since this is the first time we’re going to see her baby.
Any suggestions please…? And thank you very much in advance…. =)

2007-04-13 11:37:59 · 13 answers · asked by L!LO 4

I got married after knowing the guy 2 weeks last May, and now he wants to end it. We have nothing to divide and nothing to really seperate. We never shared money or anything like that. In fact, he said he never actually felt married...Just a glorified boyfriend/girlfriend. So, I don't really want to be divorced, but I was wondering we qualify for an annullment.

Thanks!

2007-04-13 11:32:16 · 13 answers · asked by dietcoke305 2

just got married, 7 months ago

2007-04-13 11:23:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

why would he think i can forgive him after leaving me at 7 months pregnant for a 17yr old girl from high school. He disapeared for a month and has now come back to be there for his daughter emotionally. he still hasn't spent 1¢ on anything for her! He has been a total kiss a*s lately and is being WAY to nice. Our divorce is not final yet, do you think he have something up his sleeve?

2007-04-13 11:18:33 · 23 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

I don't have a close family. What is your view on my parents not calling or coming to see their only grand children. (When you only live 20 min. away. They were not very nurturing to me? They are very selfish and the kids hurt from it.

2007-04-13 11:10:42 · 18 answers · asked by Sparkles 4

ok so the day after Christmas I come home and my mom tells me she's moving out. Merry Christmas me!:( anyway...it really tore me apart.My parents had been married for 19 years. I had to move out of my nice neighborhood that i loved into two new houses that are ok but it just doesn't feel like home. i feel like i have just been ripped apart or something. I hear my parents say bad things about eachother and it just hurts. Things are getting better but some nights i just cry myself to sleep. I am afraid to talk about it with friends and people that I trust anymore because i think they are getting tired of it! help me! how do i cope with this!?

2007-04-13 11:10:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it holds a lot of power, but it goes mostly unnoticed.

2007-04-13 11:08:57 · 29 answers · asked by Kd 5

it would certainly seem so. even the happily married have secrets....

thats why i see marraige as a social contract. you owe it to society to stay together (granted its not violent or anything like that.), get along and raise well adjusted kids. after that, or if you have no children, why even get married?

2007-04-13 11:08:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i bet this is almost never the case....but if your spouse is being a jerk, being mean...just not being a good spouse, and you cheat on them....if it makes them change as a person for the better, is it okay?

now thats a dilly of a pickle

2007-04-13 10:53:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that, while I still don't have a job to support myself and my child, my ex-husband opened a bank account in his name only to controll all of the money.

What do I do? Do I have any rights? I can't even hire a lawyer in this case cause I don't have any money at all.

Is my ex right to do this? What do you all think?

How can I survive with $45 in the bank and no job right now?

2007-04-13 10:50:01 · 13 answers · asked by Flor 2

My friend got married at 19. I think she was too young, but whatever. Last summer her husband was living in another town (he had to finish his job in the other town before he could move to this town with her) and during that summer my friend cheated on her husband with three different men, that I know of. Every time she drinks it seems like she falls into bed with another man. Her husband has to know about this because she hasn't exactly been secretive about it. There are lots of people that know about her infidelity.

2007-04-13 10:40:43 · 14 answers · asked by cutietexanchik 1

My husband's new job is not proving to be very successful. He has barely made 1/3 of what his old job would have provided for us to this point in the year. He gets upset with me when I bring up or ask if he has any appointments set up or any enrollments going through. He tells me he knows he isn't making great money but I don't have to bring it up everyday. Instead of actually discussing it, we just don't really talk. There is a huge elephant in the room. He loves the job because he gets off when he wants and has weekends off. I like it too, but I don't really feel like getting a second job at the moment.

I don't know a way to let him know that it isn't working and we cannot go much longer without slipping into bad debt. I am more concerned with our relationship to be honest.

Job is a individual sales representative for a supplemental insurance company.

2007-04-13 10:34:27 · 11 answers · asked by InsuranceGooRoo 2

I find myself so confused. I think we still feel something for each other, but not what a couple should feel for one another. He is w/me to be near the kids, and I am w/for money stability. He is a good father, he has a great job, but i don't feel his equal. i feel like he has no respect for me. he calls me the occasional name, and tells my family our problems. it seems he puts me down every chance he gets. i can't think of anytime that he has ever had something positive to say about me. i haven't worked in 8 years, we live a good life and i would be lying if i said i wasnt scared to make it on my own. i think he is addicted to porn, and i recently found him looking up his ex on myspace. i don't think his heart is in it anymore. i think its all for the kids now. i don't know what to do anymore, we are suppose to be moving soon due to him being military, but i'm not sure i want to go w/him now. a person can only take so much.
anyone out there been thru something like this? help!

2007-04-13 10:34:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-13 10:31:52 · 12 answers · asked by thegodfather7375 2

Divorce your husband and marry me please.

Thank you.

2007-04-13 10:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Three years my husband cheated with a woman at work (who was my friend). They decided they were "soulmates" and wanted a life together despite our life...our three children and her life with husband and 2 young children. One of them being only 6 months old at the time. I filed for divorce.
..they remarried. I moved on...have remarried, am much happier than I've ever been. (even expecting a child with my new husband.) But...the difficult part for me is dealing with the hurt of this woman around my darling girls 50% of their
life. I feel she is a horrible role model for them, very selfish, materialistic..and coldhearted. My concerns about their dad of course are there because of his poor life choices......but he is their dad. I hope and pray that their marriage won't work
so my girls aren't raised around someone with such poor morals and values and such little respect for "family". The
statistics say it wont last...any opinions??

2007-04-13 10:06:19 · 16 answers · asked by backflip 1

2007-04-13 09:54:38 · 11 answers · asked by sarah820w 1

I am young but i recently got married, it seems like a routine. We wake up go to work, get off work go home, eat dinner , watch tv, take a shower, then go to sleep. I get a little bored at times. I like to go out but my husband likes to stay home and be on the computer all day. I think it makes me get a little frustrated at times. ...

2007-04-13 09:49:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal that when in a marriage to have crushes? I think my hubby has one on some one else but has not acted on it or even flirted. I don't think that I am paranoid but should I just accept his feelings?

2007-04-13 09:38:52 · 22 answers · asked by Susan and Grant O 2

How can I tell my man that I'm only one person?
I've been with my boyfriend for three years now. At first, he helped me all the time, and was very sweet. Now, things have changed drastically. We have a one year old daughter, which I do the lion's share of raising, along with my two children from a previous relationship. I do all the cooking, and 75% of the housework. I also take the children to daycare and pick them up every day. I work 48 to 56 hours a week, and after my ten hour days, I am often exhausted. What compounds my frustration is that while I stay up until 1 AM cleaning the house (like last night), he is up playing the XBOX 360 live and talking to his friends on it. He is on it 5 or 6 hours a day. When I hint that I need help, he says I'm riding his ***. He is a person that doesn't like to talk about anything, ESPECIALLY his mistakes, and can never be wrong. I'm getting more and more frustrated as I get more and more exhausted. Any ideas?

2007-04-13 09:27:05 · 21 answers · asked by red 2

i know because she told me .she says no spark in are marriage of 7 years.how do i change this

2007-04-13 09:25:58 · 19 answers · asked by kgva29@verizon.net 1

I want to challenge God for a solution, especially because of my our innocent children. I have entered for a praying warfare programme with my pastor to pray for the restoration of my marriage; and the binding of her spiritual husband and evil weapons fashioned against my marriage (with 4 female children aged 3-10). Can i give God a time ultimatum, as I cannot wait for too long or indefinitely for a miracle? Serious answers please.

2007-04-13 09:18:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to file but i need a detailed plan...what do i do first ....i have 3 kids and want joint custody..i live in ca.where do i file what steps are 1st 2nd.....so on

2007-04-13 09:12:17 · 8 answers · asked by yourholzmyspace 1

crys hestericaly and locks herself in the toilet.i have recentaly separted from my wife after 10 yrs of marriage after i found out she was having an affair.she and her new partner who is 61 and she is 34 now live together but because of a court order my children are not allowed to be with him because he has tried to kill himself twice.but my daughter is staying at my sister in laws house across the street less than 30 meters away.what has happened is i have my 3 boys living with me and my daughters there because they say she wants to be with her mother.rubbish she wants to live with me her dad and her brothers and has been really really upset saying to me i dont want to go back ,screaming after she has to be pysicaly pulled apart from her dad.i have aslo started an intrime residence order before the court soon ,do i let her go back or if she starts screaming crying do i keep her

2007-04-13 09:02:32 · 29 answers · asked by tony t 1

Hi
My 8 years marriage is a living hell ! We have seperated once and reunited but in vain. We have a 6 month old boy. I need to talk to a third party- someone who doesnt know him or me to give a valid and unpartial suggestion to me whether it makes sense to file for divorce. Talking to family and friends is futile since their view is always either biased or partial.
Could you pls help ?
(P.S: Pls refrain from suggesting to going to a counseller or a therapist-Thank you !)

2007-04-13 08:59:01 · 14 answers · asked by rimiwithquestions 1