just got married, 7 months ago
2007-04-13 11:23:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DO NOT take anything a pregnant woman says to heart. It's the hormones making her say crazy and irrational things. Just be sympathetic and during the whole pregnancy adopt the "yes dear" attitude, actually do it for the rest of the marriage if you know what's good for ya!
Good luck and congrats!
2007-04-13 11:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as "meant to be." Marriage like any relationship is WORK and you have to put time and effort into it in order for it to last. The second thing that I'd like to point out is now that you have a baby on the way this is the part where it stops being just about you two. You need to have a sit down with you five and you need to come up with a plan how to best raise your child together and stop being so self centered. Good luck.
2007-04-13 11:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Leyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 06:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal and happens in most long term relationships. Its common for couples to grow bored of eachother. But if thats your only problem than your lucky, this is something that can be worked on. Listen to what she says and what she wants. Try to remember the effort that you put into the relationship when you first met and spark those old feelings. But if she says she needs space dont take offense to it and get upset, be understanding and give her the time and space. She will deeply appreciate it.
2007-04-13 11:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry!!
We can some times be a pain in the a** when we r pg. YES she loves u she is just going thru some thing. Her body is changing and ur emotions r every were. Bare with her she will really need u. I know some women can go over board, but she cares. It will pass. I wish u the best.
2007-04-13 11:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Natural 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that she's just being moody ("hormonal") - but if this baby was an "accident", and you guys hadn't known each other very long before pregnancy and marriage, then it is very possible that you are just not compatible, and she's realizing this. Was the marriage planned before or after you found out she was pregnant? If the pregnancy is unplanned, it might be making her feel stuck or trapped, and she's taking it out on you.
2007-04-13 11:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women say lots of things, all the time.
Until you get divorce papers in the mail, don't waste your time worrying.
Concentrate on practical matters, and do everything you can to make her enviornment comfortable and clean. Do errands, and other practical helpful things like assembling a baby crib, etc. Pay your dues as a good husband with deeds.
2007-04-13 11:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are her friends single? does she think life will be glorious as a single and broke mother? with no one to hold her or love her? mabey this is a hormonal thing, if not get to a good counselor. women are messed up today big time, they only want men for sperm then they say he 's a bad parent, do not make it easy for her. I am married woman but i tell you if i was young guy w/ a typical wife today- I'd buy a plane ticket and leave her to wallow in the mud. [mabey the baby isn't yours and she's trying to tell you]
2007-04-13 11:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it easy Bro . Women act strangely at different stages of their pregnancy. You have got to be suportive and understanding here. Coax a lot and buy nice things to cheer her up . It will soon be over and you will be amazed at the difference. As I said just be patient.
Take this from a man who had been there Five times around.
Best of luck pal.
2007-04-13 11:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by rowell2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was pregnant with our last daughter just three months after giving birth to another baby, I told my husband to go jump off a cliff and fall onto the jagged rocks below with a thud...point is we say a lot of things we won't mean later...ha ha...notice I said won't mean later?
Oh, yeah, I meant it at the time... ha ha
2007-04-13 11:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋