Marriage & Divorce - 13 April 2007

Okay ok.....I have had a orgasm with him before but only when he goes down on me, never through intercourse. We are going through a rough patch and seeking counseling, so I feel it's time to be totally honest about everything. I think if I enjoyed the actual intercourse more, sex might be something I'd want a lot more often, but how do I tell him this without taking a shot to his ego?

2007-04-13 04:23:22 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle 2

Even if my husband doesn't want me to?
Is it ok to drink despite his wishes?

2007-04-13 04:21:37 · 33 answers · asked by tina*21 2

I have remained friends with my ex since she ended things 3 mths ago.

The relationship was very good, we talked of moving in etc. On 2 occasions, totally out of the blue, she said she was unsure about us. The 1st time, within 3 hrs, she said to ignore it and was feeling down. The 2nd, she got upset and she said she felt she held me back.

When she ended things she was depressed, her Dr prescribed prozac & counselling. She took the meds but refused counselling, said she wasn't depressed & blamed the relationship, ending things. She has since told me she was depressed but it was coincidence.

She also has had:

- Anorexia & Bulimia as a teenager 10 years ago
- Self harmed as a teenager

- She had a 2 year relationship with a woman 4 yrs ago, despite saying she is not bisexual & has said she will never be with a woman again, and never had been before.

Was she just fed up with me? Was depression a factor?

Should I try and help or get her back? I do love her.

2007-04-13 04:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1

which car would you have?

lets do an old car and a new one...

y'all know mine....have fun

2007-04-13 04:18:38 · 18 answers · asked by -------- 7

Some people say fake praise of wife plus frequently spoken lies about domestic and social affairs make a marriage happy and sucessful.It is very difficult for me to understand.Please help................

2007-04-13 04:18:07 · 9 answers · asked by talatyaseen 2

I cannot possibly understand how it could be difference except maybe we'll have new appliances! The commitment is absolutely there, so it's not a 'you can just walk out' no, we can't. We made a commitment.

The ritual and public vows are just a symbolic thing that we're doing for our families who are tradional and can't get past their religious ideas and think that we're getting married in the eyes of god or some other bull **** and of course the party. We're in this 'til death whether it's made legal or not.

It makes no sense. Weddings are not magical, there is no supernatural force behind the vows and the psychology of it only works when you believe that the paper means anything or that divorce is an option! Hell, in our country it doesn't even mean tax, legal (like in the instance of a partners illness or death) or insurance benefits (we can get that living together and besides living together is traditional even biblical for some biblical cultures). Explain yourselves!

2007-04-13 04:15:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married 8yrs and things have never been great. I have just tried to make him happy by giving in to what he wants. 5yr ago we both were injured in a bad accident and he promised he would change and be more involved. Not the case- he is the only child and very much about his parents. I have a great job and work all day, come home and do everything-house,yard,children's activities,etc. And he goes to his parent's 2 nights a wk to eat and do work there and every Sat is there and some Sundays. And now he wonders why I am so distant and bitter! I have fallen out of love and I am just there doing it all! All of this led me to open up to someone else and they tell me that I have become cold and independant, do not know what real love is like and that I had my kids to have unconditional love! I think they are right - but I know leaving will be hard because of kids. I love this person he gets it and says stay for kids, he wants me but is married to and is staying because of kids?????

2007-04-13 04:09:51 · 5 answers · asked by jenga4fun 1

for real love?or will love find us or we should look for it?But then everytime the person i met are just the same..........somehow there are people in their early twenties have found love and married but some wait for ages?how come?What is it like when you find real love the person you meet or it just doesn't exist to some people?if it does but there is no sign?could it be just our luck?

2007-04-13 04:09:07 · 4 answers · asked by truth set free 1

My ex husband left our marriage for another woman who he now lives with. I have custody of our son - he visits his father once a week and every other weekend. My ex put me through hell this past year with the lies and cheating but I never let my son see my anger or pain. I never say anything bad about his Dad and I even tell him it is okay to like the girlfriend. That was tough. I am moving on - slowly but surely. However, when my ex calls to talk to his son and our son does not want to talk my ex starts questioning me about how his day was, did he do anything exciting, etc. I don't want to talk to him. I contact him when I have to - when there is a decision to make or something important happens. I don't think I should have to touch base with him on a regular basis and fill him in on what he missed. He chose to leave and part of that decision was leaving his son. Am I wrong?

2007-04-13 03:57:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my husband get along very well but sometimes hes really rude to me on bed?i have no complains bt still i dont like the way he treats me sometimes.whats should i do?should i tell him to be gentle on me?should i talk to him?b/c if i talk to him i dont want him to think i have no power?help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-13 03:36:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend bought me a beautiful bracelet which cost a bit too much, my ex-husband saw it and he went out and bought me a ring to match it because he didn't like another guy buying me something better than him. my ex will call up my boyfriend and try and be friends with him because he wants to stay in my life, and he calls me up every day. sometimes i mind, and sometimes i see him like a friend. the only one for me is my boyfriend. what would you do? i like everything to be amicable but sometimes it's too much.

2007-04-13 03:30:15 · 30 answers · asked by maria h 1

2007-04-13 03:28:15 · 28 answers · asked by lou 2

my friend has recently left her husband, and during his third visit has refused to return the child to the mother and has made motion to gain full custody. Lawyers won't give her a straight answer on whether or not she can remove her child from school as she has not yet been served papers. Can she take back her daughter without fear of being criminally charged at this point?

2007-04-13 03:21:16 · 15 answers · asked by b t 2

He's been trying to lose weight and asked me not to bring any sweets into the house, so I haven't for a LONG time.

He's upset that I didn't get him his favorite chocolate easter eggs. I got him a really nice card and wrote him a poem instead.

Anyways, on and on all day about the easter eggs. So, by the end of the night, I said you want an egg, here you go ... pulled out my used feminine product and chased him around the house. He was disgusted but laughing. I was laughing hysterically.

He is still complaining about his Easter eggs and the disgusting stunt that I pulled - it's been over a week - let it go already, right?

2007-04-13 03:19:01 · 18 answers · asked by Reserved 6

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2007-04-13 03:10:05 · 4 answers · asked by amit w 1

He is always out hanging out with his friends, at 33 years old, and shows no interest in helping with the house or his 6 month old baby. Maybe it is the winter blues or maybe he is always going to aviod his reponsiblities, but what can I do?

2007-04-13 02:50:43 · 4 answers · asked by Arielle S 1

3 months ago,he cheated me. they broke up and now his telling me that he will never do that again.

2007-04-13 02:49:31 · 27 answers · asked by agnes a 1

Hubby and I are separated in the first year of our marriage. I went to file my taxes, but it asks for his social security number. I don't know how to get it, and he won't give it to me because he thinks I'm going to use it to open accounts.

2007-04-13 02:42:33 · 12 answers · asked by Heather 2

My wife and I went to mediation and the mediator sayed it would be best if the kids live with both parents, so we had joint custody. The kids were with me wen-thur and every other fri, sat sun. So they were with my wife mon-tues and every other fri, sat, sun. After trying it for a month or more the kids were all screwed up, they didn't know where to go after school or who to call after sports and stuff. There school work tanked, it wasn't that there mom or me wouldn't help them its that there were forgetting things back and forth and worring over where to be instead of there lives. So after talking with my wife she decided to let the kids live here and help me out with the kids activitys. My kids miss there mom and want to spend time with her too, she is a wonderful mom. So lately she comes over for supper and spends some time with them and then goes to her apartment after. I still love my wife and don't want a divorce. What should I do? Will this crazy life work at all ? Help? Ideas?

2007-04-13 02:30:40 · 27 answers · asked by BryTheFishGuy.com 2

After my wedding, can I still call my future husband my partner/lover?
I really prefer it and it gives off this sort of ambigious "is she gay?" thing that I find rather amusing.

2007-04-13 02:22:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. so i am 23, and have two kids, yougest is under 1, my partner was an alcholic and very violent he is currently in prison for what he has done to me and is due to be let out he has been writing to me stating that he is a changed man and has been getting help while in prison, and wants to be a family with me and the kids, i still love this man and wont to work things outhe can be really sweet when sober should i give him the benifit of the doubt and let him come home or just cut my losses

2007-04-13 02:21:55 · 23 answers · asked by Lets Talk 1

If you were on Facebook, Myspace, Yahoo360, etc::::
1-Do you ready the profile of those who chat with you?
2-What sections of the profile you concentrate on?
3-What strikes you first about the profile?
4-How do you evaluate someone by just reading their profile?

2007-04-13 01:56:51 · 2 answers · asked by EDD 2

2007-04-13 01:56:38 · 7 answers · asked by john i 1

2007-04-13 01:43:09 · 18 answers · asked by JITENDRA CHUNGANI 2

my husband is always fighting with me. He is so possessive with me tat is the main problem i find with him. he wont allow me to go out with friends he dont want to mis me even a hour what should i do for that he is not giving me a freedom.

2007-04-13 01:29:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner pays child support as if he see the child every second wkend. Now he sees the child one day less a WEEK than the mother but still pays all that childsupport. Childsupport say HE can't change the childsupport percentage, and the mother won't change it or get anything in writing to say how much she looks after the child. Why do they go by what the mother says and only she can change details. Shouldn't the child be supported financially at both homes.

2007-04-13 01:10:10 · 6 answers · asked by scardykats 1

how can i keep my husband forever...i mean how can i prevent him from cheating...and do all husbands cheat?

2007-04-13 01:09:45 · 14 answers · asked by caramella 1

2007-04-13 00:55:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it mean he is lying or telling the truth? Often when I ask him trap question he takes a minute.

2007-04-13 00:51:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-13 00:41:23 · 11 answers · asked by Boer 1