2007-04-13 00:41:23 · 11 answers · asked by Boer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-04-13 00:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The most important thing is to really want to be married and marry someone who really wants to be married. You need to be dedicated to the idea of marriage. That is the glue that holds a relationship together when one or the other screws up in some way. The divorce rate is way too high because people are marrying for the wrong reasons.
Marriage should really be for life, in sickness and in health, richer or poorer, thick and thin etc. Yet, I hear people all the time divorcing after a couple of years because they are not happy or the spark is gone. Or the sex isn't as good anymore.
People like this should not get married. The way marriage works is this. First, of course the fire burns bright and hot with plenty of sparks. After a while the fire starts to mellow. It needs constant attention. But if you tend it well, it will provide you warmth and comfort for the rest of your lives.
If you marry the right person, the passion is replaced by something much better. A deep contentment and sense of security and dedication that can withstand the test of time and the effects of life in this cold, jaded world. People who get addicted to the passion of new relationships never achieve this and are doomed to a life of emptiness. Eventually, they become old and alone.
Happily married people stay forever young. I have been married several decades and my wife still looks the same to me. She is still my girl. I tease her sometimes because I never thought I would be making out with a grandmother!
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2007-04-13 01:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you've adequately discussed all the topics and issues important to both of you; sex, children, money, careers, religion, politics, philosophy, etc.
You don't just jump into a relationship prematurely and then find out in a couple years that you have some serious personality differences.
Take about a year to get to know one another first.
2007-04-13 01:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u feel that this is the person you need to spend the rest of your life with, and that you are ready to share all you have with , to protect and provide for. And when u feel happy to immagine doing anything in your life in the presence of this partner, and sad that he/she isnt there when u go through someting pleasant. Good Luck.
2007-04-13 00:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love, respect and truely like the person you are thinking about marrying. Don't just go by the feeling that you love them. Ask yourself NOW those questions,,for better for worse, richer or poorer etc. Don't wait for the preacher to ask those questions, you ask them to yourself now and if you can truely answer yes to all of them then i think your ready
2007-04-13 00:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think u r ready to live or die for the one u love.
Good luck!
2007-04-13 00:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Panther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are done sowing your oats. When you feel you could spend the REST of your life with only one person.
That you love that person so much that no matter what happens you can work it out.
2007-04-13 00:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are mature and resonsible enough in your decision making.Knowing full well what you are getting into, and accepting the consequenses, abeit good,or bad.
2007-04-13 00:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask, you arent ready
2007-04-13 00:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel desire to marry
2007-04-13 00:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by Guly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't understant this ques
sorry
2007-04-13 00:45:34 · answer #11 · answered by vijaykarthikeyan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋