Marriage & Divorce - 9 April 2007

I don't like the way things are going, I want to donate all my body starting now and don't wait till I die please.
Especially the brain, it's the reason of all my problems, I don't want to use my brain any more.
SO HOW????????

2007-04-09 23:59:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My spouse is very very close to his ex lover who is currently living in another country. I wasn't aware of this until i came across some mails in the system (he had forgotten to log out) with her name; curiosity got the better of me and i snooped and found very close talks going on. Her husband is also not aware of these "discussions" and she has asked my husband to not ask for her if someone else takes the call. Is this just friendship? Can they forget the emotional attachment they had earlier and be just friends? Or is this an emotional affair that's going on. I am highly confused, upset, angry and feel helpless. Please help

2007-04-09 23:09:17 · 18 answers · asked by kamini 2

we are just together for a year.but he's expecting too much from me.

2007-04-09 22:48:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 21:44:10 · 3 answers · asked by dweeks 1

i m adult muslim man having muslim wife. now i want to marry a hindu girl.may i marry her without giving divorce to first wife. but i want to marry hindu girl after converting as hindu, tell me is it legal and valid.

2007-04-09 20:47:27 · 14 answers · asked by kamyrods 1

Its been 5 months since my highschool sweetheart of 15 years ran off with a coworker. She rewrote the whole marriage to justify her actions with him he's a school teacher. Well tonight on the phone he had a little attitude and it was like hoover dam broke. I've been holding the anger in for 5 months and for some reason I feel so good now. Unless you go through a spouce committing adultry you have no idea. I know it seems immature but the fuse was lit and there was no stopping it. I told him how she gambled 50k 3 years ago and we had to file for bankruptcy. I'm sure that will be discused tonight. Look I know some of you will think I'm being childish and immature but it needed to happen it was a very emotional divorce. Can anyone out there relate to this type of situation? I called my dad and told him what happened and he said well it could have been worse theirs plenty of people in prison for killing the guy who ran off with the bride.

2007-04-09 20:26:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I'm 18 and my gf is 16 and I'm gonna ask her to marry me this summer and we'll probly get married next summer.I make enough money to support both of us easily,while she goes to college. I'm taking over the family business we own 4 grocery stores.We love each other very much, shes the love of my life and my soulmate. Both sides of our family's is in full support of the idea,well two of her aunts aren't. Also were both homeschooled and shes doing to grades at once this year so she'll be outta school when we marry.But does anyone think it's wrong for us to marry at 18 and 16?..Thanks

2007-04-09 19:59:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

wife starts crying around friends. Mistress doesn't talk to husband or wife around friends anymore

2007-04-09 19:49:00 · 7 answers · asked by Robert L 1

A male friend is concerned that his wife has turned into what society deems a faghag, ( a woman who spends alot of time with gay men). He has talked to her and shows his concern that she spends alot of time with two gay men who are neighbors. They hug alot, exchange gifts, and have started saying "I Love You", to each other. This is an older couple, in their late 50's and 60's. He feels his wife is being manipulated and that the gay couple wants nothing to do with him. They don't talk to him, other than to ask how his wife is or where she is at. He is frustrated and does not know if his marriage is in jeopardy. What do you think?

2007-04-09 19:43:18 · 15 answers · asked by draktat 1

2007-04-09 19:29:57 · 8 answers · asked by daniel h 1

2007-04-09 19:27:13 · 11 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1

on who my husband is or was having an emotional and/or physical relationship? The evidence is huge, but he will not even admit or discuss. I need to know what I am dealing with. Been married 13 years and we are not going to split up.

2007-04-09 19:25:26 · 7 answers · asked by nancy e 1

My parents always told me our neigbor married his wife when she was 12. He was 30 yrs old. I never believed them until I was at the cementary the other day and read their tombstone. He did marry her when she was 12. I could not believe it. but its true. They had children together. Wouldnt this have been illegal back then? Could you marry today at 12 if your parents consent?

2007-04-09 19:20:24 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I am getting a divorce and should be able to file next month due to just becoming a resident of another state. My soon to be ex will be getting a disability settelment in a couple of weeks. I was with him from the time he filed for almost a year after 18 years of marriage. I am divorcing him because he gave up on life after an injury and there was the whole sleeping with my cousin and his co-worker thing also. My question is should I take the easy way out and just divorce and get it over with (my idea), or file for a part of the settelment since I was with him for 18 years (Moms idea) and end up in a fight? There are no kids or property involved so it would be a simple quick thing once filed. Thanks for all the help.

2007-04-09 19:20:12 · 10 answers · asked by JUSTME 2

He is really into outdoor sports. I'm more of a book worm. what is something fun that we can do together on a limited income

2007-04-09 19:12:40 · 9 answers · asked by best 1

well im gay and involved with a girl and shes mean to my kids well she curses at them i told her to stop it plus she babysits but everytime i ll\et someone stay over for a few weeks (brother and sister) she trips weve been together for 7 months now and i love her but shes real rude. my brother is kinda slow and she talked real smart to him and he got smart back and they started arguing like crazy shes 40 and hes 23. what shall i do .........hes a fire bug and every where my mother move to he burns them out and thats why he is homeless and now she has decided to not come back while he there because he had a knife in the widoe seal where he slept like i said he slow and dont really know any better and it was just crazy and she's been living with me for the whole 7 months what shall i do. please help. shall i convince her to stay or just let her leave.

2007-04-09 19:08:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 17:55:50 · 7 answers · asked by Mirrali 1

Please any advice...

2007-04-09 17:46:06 · 15 answers · asked by JesusFreak! 1

I'm currently living with my bf, he has been separated from his (wife) for about 9mo. How can i get him to understand that he doesnt need a joint account or cell bills with her! They have separate households obviously. and he's always broke for that same reason. I've almost given up hope on him ever getting divorced and for it not to affect our relationship.

2007-04-09 16:29:58 · 25 answers · asked by Chayis 1

2007-04-09 16:04:17 · 13 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1

If I have SOLE LEGAL CUSTODY of my children, am I "required" to give the other parent an Itinerary of where we will be? He has very limited visitation rights

2007-04-09 15:44:17 · 12 answers · asked by Julie L 1

Do you sleep in another room?

2007-04-09 15:43:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 15:05:10 · 38 answers · asked by Nikki 1

Even though I love him, I love to do my work alone, I love to meditate, relax and do my stuff without anybody interrupting,
but he is always trying to help me, I know he thinks he is helping, BUT I JUST can't stand this anymore!!!

2007-04-09 14:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by MARIA 2

My husband & I now live separate...4 hours away from each other. He lives w/a friend & I live w/my parents. I live in Texas & I can't file for divorce until I've lived in this county for at least 90 days. I also can't file for separation or child support b/c Texas doesn't have separation. I can only file for the child support after I file for divorce. I have given my parents money for rent, utilities, etc... but they don't use it. They said that whatever I give them they are saving for me for if I ever need it. I don't want to live here for free,though. He doesn't know what I give my parents or that I even give them money at all. I work full time & I do have other bills to pay....credit cards, etc.(from stuff that I bought us when we were together..furniture, etc..in my name) I don't want to seem like I am after his money b/c we aren't together anymore but I don't want to let him get off not helping either. If I do ask for money I don't know how much to ask for.

2007-04-09 14:51:54 · 11 answers · asked by love my life 2

I am having trouble getting my husband to help me with the house chores. I work 2- 16 hour shifts on the weekends, pregnant w/#4, and just graduated from college. Eventhough I have been a busy lil bee, he doesn't lift a hand. I had thought it would be easier and less stressful to make a chore list, that he agreed upon. Didn't even last one day. I have tried everything from great sex to yelling at him. Nothing is getting through his skull and I am too worn out. I have only 4 more weeks to go; playing with the kids is so much work this days. I just don't want a screaming baby plus 3 wild indians, and a hubby come home and ask whats for supper.

2007-04-09 14:48:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know lately there have been a lot scandals involving some Catholic priest with children and so forth. In Scotland a priest has been implicated with the murder of a Polish student Alegika Kluke he admitted that he had sex with her prier to her murder but DENIES her death the murder case continues in Scotland. Now would you not agree that Catholic priests should be allowed to marry priests are just like other men they have sexual feelings just like everyone else do you not think the Catholic church should change it views on celibacy and allow priest to marry. I am a Roman Catholic and proud but if I were having marriage problems and you wanted to talk to priest how can he understand when he has no experience of what married life is about how can he advise you when he has no experience.

2007-04-09 14:32:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a big problem with this.
They got divorced in 05, we got married in Feb 07,when we financed a car together I found out that his ex never refinanced the car that she got in the divorce so my husbands name is still on the car loan. They also closed a credit card but she later reopened it and charged over $2000.00 on it, and his name is on that credit card.
He says that I am over reacting and I shouldn’t be upset, he don't see what the problem is and feels that it is no big deal!
I don’t want to get a bank account together or finance anything with my new hubby until she take care of this. The divorce papers say she needed to pay off the credit cards with the sale of the house and refinance the car into her name.
Now her mail is coming to out apartment!
Am I over reacting and what should I do?!
We live in Washington State

2007-04-09 14:24:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other day i called him, but couldnt say a word. Just heard his voice n hung up. Im sure he knows it me. I feel v guilty yet tempted to try again. Shud i?

2007-04-09 14:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by Bombay B 1

I'm a 54 year old male, currently separated for over two years from a partner with whom I lived for nearly 22 years before getting married. The marriage took place despite the fact that we were having extreme stresses and difficulties at that stage of our relationship. After the marriage, I was unsettled and unhappy about the relationship, and I resented the marriage, but I went along because my wife thought it was the right thing to do for financial security reasons. I then had an affair which precipitated the separation. I think I'm still very much in love with the other woman, but I can't face divorce because of the pain I will cause, but I also know I will be resigned to the marriage. What steps should I take to resolve my conflict?

2007-04-09 14:04:31 · 15 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1