we are just together for a year.but he's expecting too much from me.
2007-04-09 22:48:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to tell u the truth when i am tired i dont want sex anymore.dont you think it is me that gets bored?
2007-04-09 22:56:54 · update #1
yes guys can answer too!
2007-04-09 22:57:49 · update #2
To make a man happy you must screw like a whore everyday, give head on demand ,like you are trying to suck the chrome off of a trailer hitch.You may scoff but this will make any man happy .
Also stop the constant moaning about bull that no one but you cares about , and stop babbling on about your boring day and your boring friends cause men don't give a crap about you or your job or your friends or your feelings.Men do not want women for companions, we get dogs for that. Men want women for sex.You may think this is shallow and yes it is but it is the truth .Men are animals.You can not change men so stop trying.
2007-04-09 22:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cracker 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't do anything that makes you feel unconfertable, and if it does you need to tell him that you don't feel ready to do that yet or find away to adapt it so that both of you are happy, if you point blank refuse his demands, or he does yours , this will only leave a simmering resentment , that will feed through into other areas of your relationship ,and in time destroy the love you share.
After all sex is the only thing that excludes every other relationship your'll ever have, and the key to any happy relationship ,is honesty and communication.Good luck!
2007-04-10 06:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by CLAIRE P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surprise him with a coupon book inside of a card. Put on each page something that he enjoys doing,sexually. Then leave one or two the say "It's your choice, tonight honey"
That way he can cash them in whenever he wants to make love a certain way.
2007-04-10 05:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's quite common with some guys. They are influenced by friends & media(tv, radio, internet). It would be better if he does not expect too much, because that's being ungentlemanly, in my opinion.
You can gradually please your husband by having a discussion about sex. Ask him about what he wants & vice versa. If he really loves & respects you, he shouldn't force you to do anything you're not comfortable with. Marriage is about intimacy WITH love & respect.
Good luck!
2007-04-10 06:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by rev 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Share your deepest darkest sexual fantasy.
2) If you don't have any fantasy ( which is quite impossible) , try some role play.
3)Try a new thing everyday.
4) New positions
5) Learn to love sex.
2007-04-10 05:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by jade s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may want to try new things and your not doing it. He just may want to do other things to spice up everything. Maybe try some new things with him so neither of you get bored of sex.
2007-04-10 06:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by psycho_kid61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is too much??? and after only a year your relationship should still be very hot anyway!!!
some women just arent very big on sex, i dont understand why a woman wouldnt want her husband though!!!
just try to share with him what you both enjoy!
2007-04-10 05:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't men ever worry if they are boring us?
Can't they spice things up for us once in a while?
2007-04-10 06:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Quartz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try new things together.
Or the same things work well too!
2007-04-10 05:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep this is definitely a guy question!
2007-04-10 05:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by safetyusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋