Does it mean he is lying or telling the truth? Often when I ask him trap question he takes a minute.
2007-04-13 00:51:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I ask him such questions to be playful. Even if he says yes, I wouldn't really mind. I'd probably just laugh, slap him and then kiss him. He asks me such questions too!
2007-04-13 00:56:20 · update #1
Sometimes he does say yes.
2007-04-13 00:57:14 · update #2
No, no, no....I don't do it out of insecurity. It's jokingly! He's sitting here beside me reading your answers. Very amusing.
2007-04-13 01:01:10 · update #3
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2007-04-13 01:04:02 · update #4
My husband calls these "minefield" questions....because whichever way he steps he`s going to get blown up!
Now he just imitates getting blown up, which is really funny.
2007-04-13 06:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by psychokitty 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'm curious. Why do you even ask these "trap" questions? What are you trying to accomplish with these questions? Are you trying to set him up just so you can give him hell? Are you actually trying to push him away and cause a break-up? That is what I get from your actions. But to answer your question as it is asked-I think that there are two possible answers here. 1st-He has caught on to your little ploy of trying to trap him (at least as far as this particular question goes) and has the correct answer already "programmed" into his response areas of his brain.
2nd-He actually cares for you just the way you look now and does not want you to look like someone else because you then would not be the person that he really cares about.
Perhaps you might want to look inside yourself and ask yourself "Why am I asking him these 'trap' questions? Am I not happy in this relationship? Or am I just trying to disturb the peace and tranquillity that I have with this guy?"
Just a few things for you to ponder about, is all.
2007-04-13 00:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask yourself why you ask him "trap" questions? Do you have some reason to not trust him? If so, then maybe you should talk to him about that and deal with the issue. I would think trap questions would just make you suspicious and angry and really unhappy. If there's something in your relationship to worry about and it can't be addressed then maybe you should consider getting out and looking for someone you can trust. If there is no reason to mistrust your partner, then maybe you're distrustful of him because of a previous relationship. Then you'd need to concentrate on learning how to separate your present relationship from a past one. If you can't learn to do that you will carry this behavior into every relationship and none of them will make you happy. I know you didn't ask for all this advice, but I know from previous experiences of my own that you will never be happy in a relationship where there is no trust and all we all want is to be happy, right? Good luck. (-:
2007-04-13 01:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's forget about him for a minute - why are you asking him "trap" questions? You have some trust issues. I don't understand why you feel a need to test his affections for you. Either you are a very young person and will outgrow this or you need to take a good look at what you are doing. You can't build a relationship on a shaky ground. Well, you can but it will fall apart. My advice is don't ask "trap" questions. Just enjoy your relationship.
2007-04-13 00:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by kbama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do u ask that question ? In a relationship you need to be self confident, wether he is lying or not is not the point , but what if he said yes ? What would u do? Since you 2 are together that means that u like each other the way you are and changes means you like something else and you or he should look for it. Be self confident, you are great . Good Luck.
2007-04-13 00:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by seeker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the girl looks like you're referring to and how good looking you are. Boy, you are insecure to ask that question. I'd worry more about losing him due to your insecurity plus guys hate girls that ask questions like that all the time (trust me, I'm 34 and have had boyfriends for 20 years now, I know) than your looks. If you ask and are referring to someone famous like Beyonce or Giselle than if he says "NO", of course he is lying! What guy wouldn't want their girl to look like a supermodel or gorgeous celebrity? If you're just referring to some hot girl on the streets, it's hard to say. How hot are you? He is probably just answering quickly because he's annoyed and pissed though. Why are you asking him "TRAP QUESTIONS" anyways? My bf would get so annoyed. Like, if I was "Would you rather have sex with me or like a Victoria Secret model of your choice?", I know he'd pick option B even though I'm fairly good looking with a great body but far from Victoria Secret model good looking so I don't ask, duh??? He is going to dump you if you don't stop asking him stupid questions. I think you need to work at your self-esteem before having a bf anyways. And you refer to him as your partner? Are you guys just screwing? If so, that's why you're so insecure! You deserve more than just being a booty call! And you CANNOT control what a guy thinks no matter how much you want to... You CANNOT make him not look at other girls. You can't expect him to. You CAN expect him not to act on his desires (i.e. Cheat) on you though. IF you can't deal with these issues, see a counsler and find out what is wrong with you. I don't mean to sound like a ***** or so harsh but I want you to open your eyes and quit thinking this way, it's for your own good.
2007-04-13 01:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by SHELTIELUVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's learning what your trap questions are, and he's answering them with the answers he knows you want to hear, so he doesn't get b--ched at.
Ask yourself what would happen if he said "My God, yes, I wished you looked like her! D--n! She's hot!"
Then before you ask the next "trap question," as yourself if you really want a truthful answer or if you're just looking for some reassurance.
If it's just reassurance you're looking for, try getting it from him in another way than asking him questions that make him uncomfortable and put him on the spot.
2007-04-13 00:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by biiiiaaach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May I ask u something? Why do u ask him trap questions? Maybe u r starting to make him feel really bad with this perpetual Q&A stuff and that's why he is starting to answer faster, 'cos he' thinks u'll believe he's lying if he's not fast enough...
No healthy relationship should have trap questioning. Please do have faith in him or if u can't, just move on. Are u still going to be playing this game twenty years from now???
2007-04-13 00:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sara M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he truly loves the way you are why would you ask him that anyway he must be pleased with you he`s there it sounds like you have a lack of self-confidence to me accept yourself to know you are the best you can be and if you don`t feel as though you are,do something to better yourself a man loves a woman that is confident in herself and if you ask him things such as that he sees your lacking and that scares a man off stand up and be proud of yourself .You are you, and you are special too. Good Luck !!!!
2007-04-13 00:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by maxine101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust him that much if you need to give him trap questions. Does he do that to you? I think any kind of relationship that is built on constantly worrying what your partner is up to tells me it may not last. Are you really that insecure in your relationship that you need to go down that road of trying to figure out if he is lying or not. I wish you all the best, perhaps you just need to accept the answer he has given you is the right one.
2007-04-13 00:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is like me he is getting sick of this question. Why do you keep asking it? Are you so insecure you need constant reassurance? That gets really tedious. Besides, what man would ever say yes to a question like that? He would have to be pretty callous.
If I were he and you kept asking me trap questions, I would reconsider what we were doing together.
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2007-04-13 01:09:16 · answer #11 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋