Marriage & Divorce - 13 April 2007

we have been married 7 years and i love her to death.she went out last night and got drunk and kissed a guy twice that is from her work and all her friends were there.she told me about it and i dont know what to do about it.should i tell her she can go out with them agian even if i dont want to. and she was dancing with guys.do you think thats okay.the dancing part.

2007-04-13 08:55:17 · 15 answers · asked by kgva29@verizon.net 1

I have been with my husband for 10yrs. now and we have been married for 5yrs. Just until about a 1yr ago he was overweigt. He lost like 50-70 lbs. But anyways can that change you like the way that you act and feel!?!?! When he started making a difference he had told me that he wasn't in love w/me anymore, that he didn't feel the spark that he once had in our realationship. Now a yr later he tells me that he loves me (but not as much as he did before). I still tink at times that he is just w/me b/c of our kids. I think that he has a thing for a girl that he works with. It just seems funny that she knows everything about me. So I know that they spend allot of time together. But I think thats where I'm confused. I don't know if he is messing around w/her(b/c her & her husband are having problems too) or what. He used to call me everyday from work and he doesn't that much anymore!! I just sit and think the worst. I never thought that this would be happening to me!! I need some advice!!

2007-04-13 08:50:09 · 31 answers · asked by ~kRISTEN~ 1

im one of them, and i dont kno if i wanna break it, cuz i heard it hurts...so can you guys help me/?
>>>>>>>Please people, no speeches about pre-marital sex, thanx<<<<<<<<<<<

2007-04-13 08:40:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-13 08:38:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-13 08:38:14 · 14 answers · asked by lilbamagrl_0334 1

2007-04-13 08:36:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 11 years now we have 5 beautiful kids, yeah I am not have the 17 year old body that he had when we first met, but I have had 5 kids I know that is not an excuss for me to over weight, I am not really fat I am about 2 pants size differ. But he calls me names so bad it hurts so much I am almost at the point that I hate him and why am I with him, but I have 5 kids. Every name in the book that you could possibly call a women the man of my life has called me it. he asked why am I unsecure and no confindence I tell him it is because of him. I tell him all the time that I can not take the name calling but he does it anyway. He thinks that is something he can say that will make me listen to him when he gets mad. how can the man that I love and he is my husband call me such bad names. He tells me that he will not love me for me, he cares what I look like on the outside he will not love me fat, he tells me that if I ever look like a friend he will not do you know what.

2007-04-13 08:32:48 · 23 answers · asked by Kimberly5 2

my husband's birthday is coming up soon.What do you think is the best gift that i should give him?

2007-04-13 08:28:35 · 8 answers · asked by mchel 2

All we do lately is eat and watch tv and movies. We got kids but have a babysitter for Saturday night. That means another boring restaurant or movie. How can I convince her to go to a night club and dress pretty and party and be bad? I have asked and she says it's irresponsible to go out drinking.

2007-04-13 08:24:07 · 25 answers · asked by al bundy 2

how can i trust him when i found out hes been seeing a STRIPPER.

2007-04-13 08:15:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend (female) and her best friend (male) are both married and have been friends for over 20 years. Now they are thinking about becoming "friends with benefits." She says that neither one is interested in leaving their marriage, but bored sexually. She also says that they both agree on this and nobody will ever know when/if they start. She said nothing has happened yet, but probably will soon. He lives in another state now and only sees her once or twice a year and she says that will help keep the potential feelings in place so it does not go any further. I am afraid she will ruin her life if this happens. Is it possible for two consenting adults to have this type of relationship without others knowing? I dont know what to say to her.

2007-04-13 08:13:25 · 46 answers · asked by jblggs 1

Hi,
This qs is about me,I am a married woman with a lovely kid.My problem is that I hate friends,as i never had good experience.They never made me feel good.In my college i had very few friends,i was very selective abt my friends.Actually the thing is I was not smart like other girls,so i had always had low level of confidence,My husband says, i try to be away from people and that is not good.I am not able to face their silly jokes and u know what whatever they joke it's just a taunt nothing else.I sacrificed my career and now i again started studying but just cannot do it.I feel that whole life my dreams are just gonna be dreams bcoz i tried and just not able to do it.One of my friend when she had friends with her,she just used to make me feel so bad and now when she is not there,she comes to my house and shows as if she is my friend.Then she will taunt me jokingly,but my stupid heart keeps quiet ,doesnt back ans jokingly.I feel so bad just keep thinking abt it and feel useless.

2007-04-13 08:10:16 · 8 answers · asked by kiti 1

Can a prenuptial agreement protect my interest in their custody agreement?

2007-04-13 07:34:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love a married girl of age of 24 years. I must marry her . how can i ??????

2007-04-13 07:31:03 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

The first time it happened I found a wash cloth in the trash.... The problem is I didn't really find anything this time. I just knew.... I
knew it was happening when I was in the next room. I made some snide
comment this morning and he finally half admitted to it. The issue I have
is that nothing has improved between us since the first time we talked and argued about it. Our sexual relationship isn't that great and this just makes me feel worse.
That I wouldn't have such a problem if he made me feel wanted and loved.
Well he hasn't done either of those things. I guess I have known all of
this time, but it just hurts more when you know for sure. I just feel like
he is breaking my heart : ( What do I do? I just know he will never go see a therapist, he doesn't have that kind of personality.

2007-04-13 07:23:11 · 14 answers · asked by scratie2003 1

i want sex every night it is causing problems in marridge my wife will be happy with once a month but i try and climb on her every night she wont have it is every night to much ive tried allsorts of aproaches from slow and romantic to rough and ready but nothing works she always to tired

2007-04-13 07:23:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I work in a busy law office and my husband works for Child Protectice Services. So , he has travel time a lot during the day. And he has this thing where he will call 3-4 times a day. I don't want to be mean because I love that he thinks about me during the day, but he calls for no reason and I am so busy. My boss doesn't care about personal calls, but I feel like it slows my work process down. How can I nicely put, Don't call me so much?

2007-04-13 07:15:27 · 21 answers · asked by MommyofTwo 3

I am married, have been for almost 7 years. 2 years ago hubby started calling this girl he works with. Long story short, he kissed her -supposedly that was all that happened. That was back in Nov/Dec '05. We had our third and last child in Dec '06. We are trying to work through all of this.
I get our cell phone bill - he sent her two video/picture messages the end of March this year.
I am so pissed.
He supposedly ended all contact with her - and I have been checking our phone bills - and I haven't seen her number pop up til now.
He also just got fixed on March 16 - he sent her those messages, whatever they were, on March 26. I find that too convinent - that he's shooting blanks now, he would start conacting her again.
What do you think?
I think he's messing around again?!!
What kind of a freakin idiot does that - he has three kids to lose and he will too???!!!
Any thoughts/advice?
Thanks.

2007-04-13 07:03:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was with my ex for 7 years(since 9th grade) he treated me like crap the whole time but i felt like i "loved" him.now i realize he was a jerk and i was stupid. we have been apart for almost 2 years, and i am now living with my boyfriend.in the beginning he was great,since we moved in together he has turned into the most negative person i know.everything we talk about has some reason why we cant do it or is accompanied by all the "what-ifs". i am beginning to think he realized what it is really like to live with a woman that has two small children when you dont have the best job making loads of money and have a brand new car.i wonder if he is having regrets for taking the relationship here, but doesnt want to hurt me and leave.how do i find out what is really going on when all he says is yes i want to be with you i am just a negative person(which he NEVER was in the first 6mts we were together)we are having financial problems,but we never had alot of $$ before either.too much too soon?

2007-04-13 06:57:06 · 9 answers · asked by dawn222 1

I am 20 years old and I have been in a relationship for 2 years - and we just mutually dont feel the same anymore - i dont know what the problem is ... but we love eachother to death ... its just the spark isnt there anymore ... is that we dont love eachother anymore? or is it normal?



if we feel this way now - how will we feel in 10 years!? ughhh i hate love - its soo confusing and annoying.

2007-04-13 06:55:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find it hard to be in a relationship and be 100% happy. I am married for the second time. Before this marriage I was also engaged for a year but called it off.Also my first divorce was my choice. Now I thought I was the happiest ever but since getting married, i just dont feel the same. Everything has changed. Am I just not finding the right men. They have done nothing wrong to me. I don't know why i feel like this.Sometimes i think i am just better off dating and living alone but I wouild hate to get divorced again!! Help any advice.

2007-04-13 06:05:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have joint custody, but when they stay with me, can I go get them tested?

2007-04-13 05:44:41 · 13 answers · asked by jeffrobucsfan 1

All 3 of our kids are adults. 2 still live with us, 1 has a wife and child. I expect a certain level of respect regarding this home and myself. No matter what the issue is, my husband tends to side with the "children", can always see "their side", even though it can be blantly obvious that they are acting outside of the realm of acceptable. I'm talking things like not even rinsing out dirty dishes, expecting me to have a refrigerator full of food. My kids aren't up front rude, they just don't do anything that they absolutely do not have to do and my husband always has an excuse for them. He thinks I am too hostile and angry and I should just let life take care of itself. His thought is "think pink", "it will all come out in the wash", a real Rodney King type when it comes to the kids.
Do you think he should support me as long as I'm the one picking up the slack as long as I'm not being rude or disrespectful to the kids? Does he need their approval more than mine?

2007-04-13 05:34:31 · 18 answers · asked by Chloe 6

2007-04-13 05:30:49 · 37 answers · asked by Deeday 2

Do you think i am in the wrong?
my little boys dad walked out on me a month ago leaving me broken hearted with all the bills and an very upset little boy.
he has a good job but said that all he could afford to give me was 30 pound a week, 2 weeks ago he moved in with some girl and has not gave me any money or came to see my son today he called to say that his girlfriend was working sat so he would take my son for an hour, but would give me no money i told him no that he had to pick set days to see him
and give me some money to help pay his debts
am i in the wrong ?
i dont want t go to court


he has told he the day i go to the csa is the day he will quit his job

2007-04-13 05:26:30 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

does it mean you take all their crap but still stay loyal and loving?

2007-04-13 05:26:17 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-13 05:20:53 · 50 answers · asked by unicorn 2

It's been like 25 years ago. I've been E-mailing her,( she writes back), but I'm feeling REALLY guilty, and told her so. Do you think it was right? THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

2007-04-13 05:18:59 · 10 answers · asked by ♪♪♫ DINO ♪♫♪ 4

2007-04-13 05:13:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love with my husbands ex-wife, I know this sounds unusal but I love everything about her! I can't see why he divorced her! Should I tell her?

2007-04-13 04:24:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous