what's the worst thing about your husband or bf you've never been able to change?

Answer 1

dribbling on the floor by the toilet. Think i'll leave him.

Answer 2

He never comes back when he says he's going to. It's not that he's gone longer, like I need him with me, but he doesn't even call to tell me. I'm not talking like a half hour, I mean sometimes 4 and 5 hours. This especially makes me mad when he's out drinking with buddies. He'll say, I'll be home about midnight. Here he comes at 5 a.m. puking on the back steps. He hasn't done this in a while, so maybe he's finally growing up - maybe. Also, his spending habits. He never thinks about all the little things that have to go out between paychecks that can't be paid ahead, like my gas expense (I have a 55 mile commute to work each day) or the oops-we're-out-of-diapers situations, or groceries. AAAHHHHH. So, when we need money for necessities right before a paycheck, it's not there.

Answer 3

I may have a different definition of 'worst'. It isn't really a bad thing, although it concerns me:

He has me on a very high pedestal.

I do my best to politely, gently, respectfully add reality to the situation. It's a little tough.

He's a lot younger than I am, and I was his 'first', so I guess that's where it comes from.

I love the respect, I just want his view of me to be a bit less idealized.

Answer 4

My ex husband , was a cheater, you can't change that.
My ex husband was a thief, he lost two jobs for stealing
My ex husband was a liar. He never could tell the truth.
My ex husband was a booster . You can't change the character traits in someone no matter how hard you want them to change . Only they can do that and my ex enjoyed being a jerk.

Answer 5

We broke up over these things.........
1) He's an alcoholic
2) Can't keep a job and in debt over his eyebrows
3) Lies about anything and everything
4) Had sex with others behind my back
5) Owes me a lot of money
6) He's very selfish
7) Is manipulative and depends on the sympathy of others
8) Argumentative and always has to be right

Answer 6

He is constantly telling me pieces of trivia without context and then drones on and repeats himself. Right now, he's telling me about the chemical properties of mercury. It's annoying, but I also like that about him until he repeats himself, then it's like "Yea, I got it the first time. Just because I don't have anything meaningful to add or I just don't care, doesn't mean that I didn't understand or remember."

There's nothing I wish I could change. Change is a personal choice.

Answer 7

Question to women who feel they MUST change a man.

Why do work so hard to change a man and when you are mad at him you all but always say the following;

Your not the person I met. You've changed, I don't know you any more.

And when you are calling the marriage quits, you are most likely to say; He is not the man I married.

Answer 8

My boyfriend snores... He thinks he has to have a beer when he comes home from work or is sick! And I also live with my sister and my sisters b/f and he is jus soooo anoying! when he takes a shower he doesnt turn the shower off so when u go to take a shower n u turn on the water the shower comes on to!!! It makes me soooo MAD!!!

Answer 9

He is very messy, he will set things down in the worst locations, and never think to straighten up.

Answer 10

So that's an admission you get with guys and then want to change them.

You don't like to be sized up for your t*ts and a*ss; well guess what - we don't like to be sized up for our dicks or how good of a 'project' we are.

Find something else to pour your remodeling efforts into besides another human being.

Answer 11

He wears his pants about 2 inches below the top of his *ss crack and walks around the house like that. All the time, everyday. It's gross! I pick on him every time, but the ape just laughs!!!!