All we do lately is eat and watch tv and movies. We got kids but have a babysitter for Saturday night. That means another boring restaurant or movie. How can I convince her to go to a night club and dress pretty and party and be bad? I have asked and she says it's irresponsible to go out drinking.
2007-04-13 08:24:07 · 25 answers · asked by al bundy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are bored you should start looking at your own life. What's missing? It isn't your wife, it's something within you. Think about it.
Why do you feel you need to cling to single-type behavior?
2007-04-13 08:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Take her out shopping on Saturday, buy her something pretty to wear, then throw a party at your house invite a few couples over, for some drinks and music and hang out and have fun with a group. She will not be worried about the drinking and driving, pizza or chinese food, so she won't have to cook, bottles of wine are pretty cheap. The best part is you can pass out in your own bed at the end of the party.
2007-04-13 09:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has outgrown the partying and being bad. How about dressing up and going to one of those nice steak house restaurants that have a bar. You can have a couple of drinks there first, then eat at the restaurant. Instead of a movie, get a room for a couple of hours. :)
2007-04-13 09:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are your kids? do they still get up at night and if they do im guessing shell be the one that gets up to do that. And then Sunday when youre in bed all day recouperating from the nite before from all the drinking she'll be up cleaning, cooking, and watching the kids. Shes thinking about ahead! Its not just all fun & drinking theres responsibilities that need to be taken care of and yea you have a babysutter for Saturday but Sunday life still goes on and someone has to awake and able to take care of the kids!
2007-04-13 08:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Naomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you must be a boring person too if all you can think about is going to a club.
Why not do something really out of the ordinary? If you're tired of sitting, then try rock climbing. Go bowling. Go to a casino. You can gamble a little, party, dance, eat, and be visually stimulated by the sights and sounds.
2007-04-13 08:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to splurge and find a mutual interest thats actually fun.... maybe hockey. We snowmobile....we bought sleds. How about taking her out on a blind date? Send her an anonymous note, several even during the week so that she can plan to meet you some place. Unfortunately, some women have trouble taking off their "MOM" hat. They take those responsibilities so seriously its hard to balance the wife, friend and lover hats. Even ifs its still dinner and a movie you can sweep her off her feet.... buy flowers, make a card, take her to a drive in, make arrangements for an overnight babysitter and take her hostage.... have fun
2007-04-13 08:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you wanted a party girl, you should have married a party girl. She sounds a bit more on the reserved side. Maybe get a couple drinks in her at home first and then suggest a night out. Hopefully the drinks will loosen her up.
2007-04-13 08:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing, why don't you make it a couple's night? Get a few friends together, go out drinking, and let her be the designated driver. She'll be a part of the fun, get dressed up, but still feel like she's being responsible. Then she can take advantage of you when you get home.
2007-04-13 08:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by garcia_lives86 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are more than just bored, the relationship is just not working for u. When people become disinterested in their relationship, they would like to believe that they are bored. I say if you are bored..the relationship is dying. Just because a person marries does not mean that they will stay in love forever or that it's heathy to do so. Search within..your relation ship is your own. Don't let parents, religion or anything else but heart to keep you in it. You owe the truth to yourself and spouse
2007-04-14 07:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by ptrc_dckrsn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it IS irresposible to go out drinking.....
Me and my man go to the gym 6 days a week and we compete with each other swimming laps and stuff...and we love to grocery shop together and cook together at home and sip wine on Saturday nights..now that is fun- plus, we are in better shape than anyone we see! LOL!
2007-04-13 08:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you want to go out drinking on Saturday and would love it if she came along. Either she will go or try to talk you out of it. Stand your ground. I am betting that you used to party before you got married and she partied too. You are not wrong by wanting to keep doing what attracted you to her.
2007-04-13 08:31:30 · answer #11 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋