My situation: my husband doesn't desire sex-- ever. It came kind of suddenly and drastically and when I ask about it suddenly I am a nympho, I don't want to insult his "manhood" or accuse him of something completely false, but I feel entirely horrible emotionally and I don't know what to do. At first I thought maybe it was me, perhaps not attractive to him anymore, but now I am at my optimal health and I take pride in my appearance. I don't want to be that psycho girl who checks his phone and stalks his every move, but I am getting nowhere with trying to talk it out. I'm getting very antsy, someone please help! Personal stories a plus :)
2007-04-13 17:11:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all how old are guys now? Its possible some guys just dont desire sex, especially when you guys are married. Many married couples dont have time for sex and the love usually fades a bit because they are always busy. If you feel like you husband may be cheating or this issue with him not having sex with you bothers you, talk about how you feel with him. He doesnt know how you feel so he cant help you without knowing that its a problem for you.
2007-04-13 17:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he begins to neglect you. However, there can be any number of factors. And so many things to consider in your relationship...Such of health and stress. The 'suddenly' part would be a strong matter of concern.
Discussion is the only way you're able to receive the appropriate answer. And if he's unable to provide that to you.
...Perhaps you can suggest a counselor. And see what his reaction is to that idea.
2007-04-14 00:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in intuition when it comes to this. Unfortunately, I've been correct 100% of the time although she didn't actually admit it until 7 years later.
2007-04-14 00:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by intheholycity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him, tell him u need the cock, tell him part of a monogomous marriage is having both ends happy, plus... y wouldnt he want it... theres only so many warning shots u can shoot try teasing him with the idea if it dont do anything go for it i mean... u cant be unhappy either
2007-04-14 00:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN THEY COME HOME OR COME AROUND AND THEY SMELL DIFFERENT. they need to take a bath b4 dealing with you. new bedroom positions when you guys never done them b4. well i had a friend with a similar problem i could very well be that his thing thing isnt working right. if he isnt giving you anything to look foward to or to comfort you worries then assume that he is cheating
2007-04-14 00:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my dad is cheating on my mom and it hurts me very bad that i almost caused a sucide attempt but if he has any friends that he hangs out wit all the time and he has been text messinging someone then talk to one of his honest friends and ask him anything
2007-04-14 00:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by shawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on maury
2007-04-14 00:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by tomgurl2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's stressed out or depressed.
2007-04-14 00:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Gene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋