Am i not good enough for him or i'm just not a good mother that he really wanted.Thanks god that my parent really support me but this kinda thing just make me tired of being alive.And i'm so upset think bout my son,is he going to be just like me coz i'm from broken home and this is what happen to me?
2007-04-13 17:11:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He was a jerk. You probably picked a jerk because you didn't have good role models growing up. Read:
"Are You The One for Me? Knowing Who's Right & Avoiding Who's Wrong"
2007-04-13 17:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left you because he cares about himself more than anyone or anything else on earth. Stop thinking that there's something wrong with you, and please ignore the person who said he left because the sex was boring! That is absolutely ridiculous. Plain and simple, you fell in love and married for life, and you got burned. The good news is that you can and will recover from the pain and be able to find love again. Be the best mother you can to your son. That's all any mother can do. Since you're close to your parents, I'm sure your dad will have a great influence on your son, and he will help fill your son's need for a father figure. Hang in there, hon.
2007-04-14 00:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to figure out why he left you. He probably did you a favor. Please concentrate on YOU, your son, your good job, and continue to make your house a loving home for you and your son. Sounds like you are a wonderful person with A LIFE....which he apparantly had no part in. However, if at all possible, you should be getting some form of financial support from him if he fathered your son. Best Wishes!
2007-04-14 00:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there no one reason why a marriage end. but you need to stop
putting your self down. what ever it was you need to let it
go and move on. it sound like you are a good person with
a good job. etc. so it not what you want right now.but you
know that there is someone out there for you, just hang in
there and keep your head up and be strong for you and
your son. good luck to you.
2007-04-14 00:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the sex was boring...I wish you the best though Im in the same situation...well I was but I met someone new so quick.
2007-04-14 00:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way, if your ex-husband had the nerves to have a child with you and then leave them to you to take care of, you deserve someone much better than him. :o)
2007-04-14 00:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by lovelynerd:o) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about your son or husband?...the question is confusing...
2007-04-14 01:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋