2007-04-13 16:34:23 · 23 answers · asked by upaw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. If you don't love your spouse, let em go so they can find someone who will love them like they deserve.
2007-04-13 16:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Maricel S 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's a mutual thing, look around you and see what matters the most.
Your kids
Your memories
If any of those are easy to let go and none of your concern then it's best to just leave the marriage. Having an affair is just an easy excuse from confronting your problems. Marriage wasn't build under 'love' alone, it was built with commitment, loyalty & trust. Your spouse is not an object which can be turned down when you finished playing & get bored. Respect her just as you would want someone to respect you.
Take it this way, how would you feel if your beloved someone is having an affair?
Well of course, if you're like most people who don't think too much about lives & moral values then go ahead with the affair.
2007-04-13 23:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by danger3s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, an affair is bad, even if you don't love your spouse. Perhaps you can put a little spice back into your marriage, and devote some time and attention to your spouse.
2007-04-17 23:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Get a divorce before you decide to hook up with someone else. If you don't love your spouse, there is no reason to try and save the marriage. Getting a divorce will be easier for the both of you, and it will allow you to move on without feeling any guilt.
Not to mention that having an affair is morally wrong.
2007-04-13 23:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Delvala 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes because you promised to be faithful to your spouse when you said your vows to him/her. You should try everything to salvage your marriage before you get a divorce. If something is wrong with the relationship you are in now and it is not fixed then possibly it could happen in another relationship as well. We all have faults. Nobody is perfect. When a person first falls in love they put their best foot forward and bend over backwards for the other person. Then as the years go by they take each other for granted and stop doing the special little things that they once did for one another. If you did your best to salvage this marriage you are in and still not happy then get a divorce and then start living your life single.
2007-04-13 23:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all.... since everyone was saying yes I figured someone had to agree with you. If you don't love your spouse any more, you plan on moving on, getting a divorce and being upfront with them that the marriage is no longer working. One you come to those conclusions you need to find someone else.... your not getting any younger. But you also have to be brave enough to allow your partner to do the same
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2007-04-13 23:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by AdviceManHere 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes on many levels. If you aren't in love than why are you married? Plus have you ever considered someones feelings other than your own, how about the fact that they may love you and how much it would devastate them. I think honesty and being completely truthful in a relationship is vital. If you are fantasizing about an affair maybe its time you end the relationship, before you hurt the other person, and in all acuality, yourself.
2007-04-13 23:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by Roz 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. That is why divorces and annulments were made. Why play games with people lives. If you don't love your spouse be woman or man enough to tell them and move on with your life. Peace and God bless.
2007-04-14 00:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't love your spouse... get a divorce. Staying married, if you really don't love your spouse, isn't doing you OR THEM anything but HARM. Then you will be free to see/sleep with whomever you want!
2007-04-13 23:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it bad if you are unhappy in the marrige then get out of
it, having a affair will not change the fact that you have some]
issues that are goijng on. you need to deal with the marriage
one way or another.
2007-04-13 23:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋