He gave excuses saying that its because of past arguments that hindered him from making love with his wife.
2007-04-13 17:23:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He doensnt love her anymore,and he is cheating on her.I think its just a shame that he thinks so little of her that he has to use "past arguments"as his excuse.he might as well ground hr and say,"im punishing you for the arguments that we have-no sex for you"!Everybody have disagreements...../
2007-04-19 06:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by luv11syng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
though there is more to a relationship in marriage than sex, but a year and a half?
get real. past arguments are not that powerful. no person can stay effected by a fight or an argument for such a long time. if he really is then he needs help - psychiatric help.
more likely that this is an excuse. there is definitely something else going on. what that something is - is anybody's guess. an affair? some medical problem which has caused impotence?
the reason for the situation is the most important thing here.
2007-04-20 06:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by vkaapai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. Thats a good question. Sounds like a lame excuse to me. He doesnt desire his wife for SOME reason. Most men who are in love with their wives, love to have sex,make love, communicate and validate their partners feelings. I think it goes deeper than past arguments. I think thats an excuse that she has excepted. I would tell him he needs to come up with a fresh reason, instead of hiding behind OLD excuses.
2007-04-20 16:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by HappyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters whether he loves her or not. I find the word conjugal disturbing in this context and clearly a prison reference. I think the guy is gay and fantasizing about prison sex. His wife probably isn't big enough or hairy enough to turn him on. Their past arguments probably had to do with strap-ons and her inability to properly slap him around. A better question is whether she should put up with it.
2007-04-22 00:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jimbalaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he still loves his wife but the excuses he used may not be the truth. There are a lot of factors that can lead to this sort of problem. Sometimes it is personal problem whereas sometime it is more physiological problem. If you know the history of the guy, I thnk you can easily solve this problem
2007-04-14 01:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That could be true. If he is sensitive in that way, he probably really feels that way. I am that way. After fighting and things being said that really shouldn't have been said, I shut down also, but not for a whole year. If he refuses, then there"s something else going on there.
2007-04-21 17:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that he may well love her, but is not able to physically be able to get it up. He's making excuses here. He needs to see a psychologist to find out why he's making these lame excuses. He may be gay, and only love her as a friend. Think Will & Grace.
2007-04-21 23:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there definitely is a problem. I suggest counseling ,will he go for that? If not, you both definitely need to work through what the past arguments are about. Good Luck.
2007-04-21 23:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Vic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not a medical con diction for the reason that he can't be intimate, Then i would say he doesn't love her anymore. He is most likely having an affair, and as long as he is satisfied, Her needs are unimportant to him. Hire a private detective if your that concerned about it and have him followed.
2007-04-21 22:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he's got someone else on the side. Has he lost weight or started dressing better or anything suspicious like that? If not then maybe he just has a low sex drive or maybe he is telling the truth.
2007-04-22 00:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋