This is lengthy but please read. Friend's newly wed husband is overseas. He is cheating on her, doing webcam chatting, wanting to meet for fun etc. He has job stability issues. She has stopped all immigration processing till things are clear in her head. Should he dump him? Is this workable? She feels mostly this is not workable and should divorce him but only fact that she is married, is stopping her.
She has been seeking god for guidance and going to a worship place to pray. This gets complicated. She has stopped wearing her wedding ring cause she feel her husband violated the marriage. Some guy there gives her stares, though have not talked. She has felt a strong attraction pull on one occassion while they were next to each other. She is shocked that that happened. Why would this happen? She had no intention of anything other than worship? What does this mean and what she should do? She is so guilty that this is so wrong morally. Please advise on both issues.
2007-04-14 05:30:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The husband is completely wrong....there is no working out a perverted man...you can't change him...unfortunately...she should get a divorce...as far as seeking guidance...a very good idea....however, she has no reason to feel guilty about an attraction to a man at the church....in fact...it could be a message....to move on....you're a natural woman...that's how he made you....love it...and love who you are
2007-04-14 05:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, she is not responsible for his actions, so for her to remove her wedding ring says shes in agreement with him. No ring on wedding finger shows shes open game to any man out there and should expect any guy to come onto her. Only she can tell whether she is better off with or without him. But she is still married and she should show she is married by her ring especially in aplace of God since he made the marriage possible.. She needs to deal with her husband first and then worry about any one else. Good luck
2007-04-14 05:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her husband has committed adultery then she has biblicsl grounds to terminate the marriage. As far as the situation with the guy at worship, tell her to be very very careful. The enemy is tricky. That guy is definiately not of God because God will NEVER tempts you. Not saying that particular guy is demonic but the devil uses people. Stay focused on God and allow Him to lead you. God Bless You!
2007-04-14 05:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by wisdom_women 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should speak to the priest and ask his advice.
And of course she should dump him - it sounds like he wants her for a passport.
2007-04-14 05:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋