My previous question was about cheating and BAM, I got like 14 answers about I shouldn't cheat and blah blah. If anybody was paying attention I was just setting up my question which was
***How do married people find time to cheat when they got kids at home to take care of?***
I AM NOT CHEATING so get that part straight. I just have an online friend that I talk to sometimes. If you can answer my last question and this one there are double points for you if you care.
2007-04-14 04:19:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand what you mean. I'm usually answering on the pregnancy and parenting quesetions for newborns. Sometimes people ask about breastfeeding and bam they say you need to stop. So I think what the hell... That wasn't the question.
Pay these peole no mind. I didn't see you first question, but... I think a lot of the time people find time to cheat because they are bored at home or don't interact with the kids that often. Or they want more out of the marriage and they are to afraid to talk to their spouse about it. I don't think think there is anything wrong with a online friend. It's a lot better then having a lunch or bar friend! No trouble when you're online! So I agree with you. People need to read the full question and not get so heated.
2007-04-14 04:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by qtiequawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,most people answering on here have absolutely no business answering them but they half read the question and then answer it to be the first to answer and get their 2 pts. But this will continue to be an ongoing problem on here so I just tell people that for every 20 answers they get only 1 will be any good and the rest are just a waste of time from people who have nothing better to do with their time. Its probably these exact samepeople that have the time to cheat. Second, to your first question,if people want something bad enough then theyll find time for it and use any excuse imaginable to justify it to themselves and anyone else. They put aside their responsibilities and dont care who they hurt in the process.Only "true" married people have trouble finding the extra time and are way to busy making their marriages and family work. Hope this helps
2007-04-14 11:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who is cheating isn't taking care of the kids at home. The one being cheated is. They're not worried about it, either, or they would not be cheating for sure.
As for the other question, I think a good percentage of people that use Y!Answers only do so as a means of spreading their opinions that would be largely ignored in real life. The internet is great for that... You have anonymity so you never really have to own up to what you said, nor can anyone hold you up to your own standards. You can make up anything you want about yourself to give yourself credibility, and you never, ever have to listen to anyone defend themselves. Just judge and move on to the next person. This type of ignorance also leads to the type of people who jump to conclusions without learning the whole situation (i.e. reading the entire question...)
2007-04-14 11:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by robin0408 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It makes them feel special -stolen fruits are 'sweeter', all a lot of B.S. get rid of your online friend, it is truely emotional cheating, down deep in your black heart is the desire to cheat, and this is easier for you and less complicated. A person of integrity could have no kids, be thousands of miles away and still they won't have an online 'friend'.
They don't read the entire question because they are only interested in going on to the next one, for points. People today have short attention spans, no wonder with the poor skills of public school teachers.
2007-04-14 11:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right people do need to read the entire question. I haven't read your original question but here goes...
When people want something they will do what ever it takes to try and get ahold of it. There are many ways for a spouse to cheat, lunch time, call in sick from work, sneaking out, saying you will be here but really else where... After all one is at home at all times with the kids, therefore easy enough to escape.
So basically in their eyes where there is a will .. there is a way...
The bottom line is why do people want to risk loosing everything when there are other avenues out there to leave a situation.
2007-04-14 11:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people that are married and have time to cheat probably drop off their children somewhere like their moms or a friends house. I have had a couple of friends drop off their children at my house and claim its a night out with hubby but really its a booty call or what have you.
People just wanna get points so they rush thru and speed read the first few lines or the first few words....I guess.
2007-04-14 11:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by krazyyybiotchh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that whenever someone 'wants' something they will usually find a way to get it, just like any other addiction or vice, they will do what they can to quench their thirst.
With kids it would be difficult but I am sure they would work something out, it probably happens every minute in America.
2007-04-14 11:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some, having an affair is an escape from the chaos at home. Chances are, the person they are having the affair with is single without kiddies.
How convenient for a nooner.
2007-04-14 11:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just have an online friend that I talk to sometimes.
If your mate has a problem with it then i guess you should stop talking wiht that person.
2007-04-14 11:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by planedws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are emotionally cheating so that is why people have said what they have. if you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
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2007-04-14 11:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋